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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by ImaIma1(f): 12:42pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
vingeophysicist: Even from the way, you keep addressing her as "bitch" "fool" is already highlighting a problem of many guys. Not all ladies are materialistic and you should tread carefully. It is not every girl from all locations that you relate with. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by ImaIma1(f): 12:43pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
vingeophysicist: Even from the way, you keep addressing her as "bitch" "fool" is already highlighting a problem. Not all ladies are materialistic and you should tread carefully. It is not every girl from all locations that you relate with. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by ImaIma1(f): 12:44pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
resurgent2019: So you know the tribe. The ones that act like they carried their sons for more than 9months. The ones airtel even threw a jab at in the advert. You must be from there . No i am not igbo |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
ImaIma1:sorry for using those word but thst babe really angered me o.just one week. And the first day I met her she was even inviting me to her church. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by AljaanIVQ007(m): 12:47pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Immaturity and Poverty from both parties,however with the money shits happen,why? for more details ask Nina why she left her ex for Miracle... And also ask Toni Payne and 9ice,but don't forget to ask Tubaba and Annie how they manage to keep their marriage, also ask Omotola Jalade Ekeinde...maybe we can learn from experience why most ladies are single. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Saff(f): 12:48pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Hanseel1:You did not even believe yourself as you typed this. Why are you specifically emphasising on a woman being financially responsible if she’s not going to help you financially in one way or the other? Why is that of so much importance to you? Being financially responsible is something that normally comes with adulthood, something that you can easily observe in a person, but you laying emphasis on this means there’s a deeper meaning to it. When you say ‘financially responsible’, do you mean handling your money or contributing some funds to the house? We all know what you mean. Somebody is lying, you’re trying to sugar coat your words. As human beings we tend to look for traits in partners that can benefit us in some type of way. So stop with the lies |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by DeRay98(m): 12:49pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Sophyrocks: That's assuming that you were even properly trained to be a worthy companion at all. Empty vessels make the most noice. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by djon78(m): 12:49pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
victorian: I think you got the answer there. The average Nigerian man wants to marry a submissive, obedient wife. And you normally get that from not so flashy girls. If you look at the thread you find out that most of these modern girls are brash, rude, disrespectful and no man will tolerate that Also many guys have high eyes so they keep on going to women they feel are high class, but they can't maintain there high lifestyle. So guys should remove all those high standards, they will see simple women who will give them peace. They can package their wife to their standards they want |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by AljaanIVQ007(m): 12:50pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Immaturity and Poverty from both parties,however with the money shits happen,why? for more details ask Nina why she left her ex for Miracle... And also ask Toni Payne and 9ice,but don't forget to ask Tubaba and Annie how they managed to keep their marriage, also ask Omotola Jalade Ekeinde...maybe we can learn from experience why most ladies are single |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by MissWrite(f): 12:51pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
majekdom2: Don't be so quick to jump on a comment just because you perceive ill intent. Take another minute to confirm what you think you understood. Women who can afford to take care of themselves, can afford to have standards with men. A growing number of women fall into this category these days. They would rather stay single than be with someone who gives them no value. There was a time when women were so financially dependent on men that all of a man's vices would fade into the background when compared with his ability to provide a living. I can't say that this doesn't happen anymore, but it is definitely becoming less frequent. Now that women have more freedom to evaluate what they want from a relationship, it has become clear that while men in general are still common as water, men of quality are few and far between. The words in green: There used to be a time when the most important benefit to a woman from relationships (marriages in particular) was financial security. In those days, women did not have the luxury to pursue anything else (like love) and they even had to overlook certain vices (like infidelity, for instance) The words in blue: Now that an increasing number of women can provide for themselves, they are no longer confined to needing financial security, and they can decide what qualities in a man would give their life value. The words in purple: the freedom to evaluate what they want from a relationship. Does this not mean that they aren't limited to wanting money? After this evaluation, some women will decide they want good companionship, or someone responsible to raise kids with, or whatever else there is to want from the plethora of things men have to offer. But all these requirements shrink the pool of eligible men. Because not all men can give a certain woman good companionship. And not very many would be considered responsible father-types by a specific woman. For the women in focus, if they cannot find what they are looking for, they would stay single. It is not a matter of life or death if you are looking to meet desires. If it comes, hurray; if it does not, life goes on. Quality is the degree to which something meets requirement. So, when I say that men of quality are few and far between (as a result of women affording standards), it is precisely because these women aren't looking at finances (exclusively) anymore, and they are begging men to have more to offer than their check-books. But if they don't, why should she bother? to prove to you that she can value a man? That should not be a woman's burden. The thing is some women have this mentality a man is just there to meet their need just like you have put upthere, thus when they can meet their needs without the support of who they call partners, the wisdom and sense to keep a partner is gone. The reason they are single. They can’t love or see a man beyond his financial abilities at that time. The reason why we work as a team in organizations is to achieve higher grounds, meet goals faster. This is same for relationships. What can you say of a lady whose fiancee suggested they open a joint account, save together towards a goal and the response the guy got was “ you are looking for someone to sponsor you abi”. We need to have the right mindset, this is where is starts from. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 12:51pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Eze2000:Your opinion. Not mine. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
DeRay98: Entirely your problem. Not mine. A worthy companion deserves same. If u end up with a worthless one, that's your business and loss not mine. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by fhranchez(m): 12:54pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
ladies blaming men, men blaming the economy, the economy blaming buhari, buhari blaming who? ladies just blame buhari!!! |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by deleo16(m): 12:54pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
v2:not far fetch one must go back to history
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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 12:56pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Hahahahahahahaha. You ladies are Cracking me up here. Ain't that the truth. Wonderful comments from you all so far. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kokomilala(m): 1:00pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
@Shugavee,in the depths of their souls, there is an emptiness that yearns for company. In the inner secrecies of their homes, loneliness gnaws at them. Nobody wants to be lonely-man or woman You're in denial. You're helping them to be in a vast abyss of denial. If God said, it is not good for man to be alone, then it means loneliness can kill, it can wear out the soul. They are similar to atheists who deny the existence of God, but in their souls, they thirst for him. A typical example was late British philosoher, Bentrand Russell, who conceded, before his death that a life without God is meaningless.So, no woman wants to be alone. Ask your peers. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by victorian(f): 1:01pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
djon78: Also do u know there are some sophisticated and high class looking ladies out there, that are submissive, smart, go getters and dedicated? But you won't know until u come close to them. It's not all about the looks , it's about the character. Not all supposedly looking high class women are living highlife. Some are looking high class due to their kind of buisnesses they operate, all to draw customers but as soon as they enter the four walls of their homes or comfort zone. They are meek, humble and natural. Not all but some are like that. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by resurgent2019: 1:02pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
ImaIma1: That tribe will forever best your tribe in Nigeria. We are in this together. You will never escape your slave status in Nigeria. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by gift2xl: 1:02pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Peacefullove: As a woman I think u know where am directing my view. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by rman: 1:07pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
This turned into a lamentation thread. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Soteriahascome: 1:08pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
From what I have read here so far, we have got alot of frustrated ladies out there Confused and frustrated The ladies commenting here are sounding so frustrated like they're gonna drink sniper soon 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by GreenArrow2: 1:12pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
victorian: Well, if everyone was going to be awesome, what you have now wouldn't be special. Treasure it, nuture it, enjoy it. Wish you the best. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by ImaIma1(f): 1:12pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
resurgent2019: best indeed. "My mummy said" people. I told one once "abeg go and meet your mummy Me and your mummy cannot marry you. Go and marry her in peace" Even my mother inlaw that carried one of her sons for 12months doesn't attach herself to him. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by resurgent2019: 1:14pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
I never knew Nigerian women were this bitter and frustrated. See what Nigerian poverty and skewed value system has caused? Everything has fallen apart, how did we get here? I now believe the religious folks who say this World is coming to an end. The situation in Nigeria makes that belief so vivid and surreal. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by ImaIma1(f): 1:14pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Sophyrocks: Lol...don't mind these guys here that like to feel unduly superior 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by DonPikko: 1:17pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
kunleweb:Software Development (I mostly build RESTful and scalable API's for Client side apps) |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by resurgent2019: 1:17pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
ImaIma1: I dont understand what you are talking about? What is my mummy said? I was referring to your tribal drivel in your earlier post. You must be from the the SE or igboid part of the SS. You people hate other Nigerians and are suffering for it. And as God will have it, the tribes you hate control Nigeria. So what will you do to save yourselves from slavery? That is what you should be worried about dear. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Tenny05(m): 1:17pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
victorian: |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Tenny05(m): 1:18pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
victorian:Carry yourself like a queen and you'll be treated as one. No Man wants to end up with trash. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kizyalex10(m): 1:19pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Paulagada:you re nt far from the truth.ladies re much more than men in numbers.but take a look at it from dis angle.ladies re favoured from childhood till maybe dey re married.even after marriage.some get favours.like secondary sch.boys chyke dem.give dem money.nd what have u.same with university.u see a boy whose pocket money is 5k nd will still share it with a babe who might nt even be his girl or have nt accepted to be his girl.and maybe d same girl still have like 10k in her pocket nd den other 3 chykers on her tail.u study hard to get b in a course nd a lecturer who fancies her gives her d b eith d hope of getting sometin in return.then nysc.she lobbies her way to get good ppa while u re posted to where u suffer.and den she still feeds on boys nd save her money.den outside nysc.she goes for a job nd gets it easy while after hw many years of search.u get marketing job dat will pay u 30k den with almost 5k to be spent on ur shoe sole.replacement.den she is successful nd then at d end of the year u re looking to save 200k.squartting with someone.it might take u two years to even save money for a one room apartmentnot self contain oo.remember u have parents nd siblibgs who re jumping up dat u have a job.den a girl who u have promised to marry as time goes on.so tell me hw much u will save from dat amount.but even if a girl is paid dat same amount.there is a greater tendency that she will double it at d end of the month.after paying her rent nd eating good food.so by d time she have aquired all she wants.d ideal man is still struggling to pay his rent.wedding nd dowry list is not less dan 1million atleast.unless na blessing of marriage u wan do.i analysed this based on personal experience i had with a young man.even my early days as a hustler.i worked where i was paid 35k monthly.if not for my experience nd familiarity in d business.i wouldnt have made a dime.apart from my salary.i was able to stay dia nd do my own business.i wasnt after d salary but had to key in nd do my business and as well deliver for my company.cos they gave me d platform.with all d business did.it took me 3 years den to say i own two million naira.i knw hw i was squeezing nd saving.den out of that i rented apartment nd furnished.den u see that 2 million is nothing.den i have left d company started mine.somehw dats hw i grew gradually till i relocated.most men aint dat lucky.note.d way i described d ladies above doesnt mean all re like dat but most.d decent ones who choose to make it decently.still struggle like men do 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by DonPikko: 1:19pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
resurgent2019:it's the average ones, the rich ones mingle and relate freely amidst themselves |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by deleo16(m): 1:20pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
MissWrite:its called men crises https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MgD2OKmwJuk. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPEibYJKWs4 1 Like 1 Share |
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