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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by resurgent2019: 1:24pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
kizyalex10: God bless you sir. It is really tough out here and men are not complaining. We know where we get sex and alcohol to cool our nerves from the pressure. But upon all these, Nigerian girls still hate us and call us broke for staying on our lane. Nigerian girls can stay single if they like. We men will do just fine because we grow better with age, we have no menopausal problems. Nigerian girls should keep waiting for economic saviors. It is well. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 1:26pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Funny enough, they feel superior over absolutely nothing substantial. In all my years on this planet earth, I'm yet to see it. Much ado about nothing. Lol. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Tonytonex(m): 1:26pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
They Are Not Serious. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by victorian(f): 1:29pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
GreenArrow2: I will, thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by resurgent2019: 1:29pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
DonPikko: But most Nigerians are average.... I began noticing the bad attitude of Nigerian girls right from my university days. Most of them from my school are either divorced or misbehaving in their homes—all because of money. What is the problem of Nigerian women with money? Are we not all facing the same recessed economy? Why are the women insulting the men for not being able to marry them? They have condemned most guys and chosen to follow yahoo ritualists, but now that yahoo is on the decline, they have begun venting their frustrations on "average guys" again. I am not happy with what i am seeing at all..... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by tunjilana: 1:30pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Most empowered women feel they don't need a man because they have been raised to see a man's usefulness to be that of a bill payer. A lot of men have started seeing marriage as financial slavery because most women won't even be loyal and supportive when the chips are down. The problem is everyone is gradually embracing equality but the lines of engagement is still not clearly defined and conflicts here and there over the roles each person should play in this emerging new order. As with everything new, people will gradually decide to siddon look till it is clear how to relate in this era of equal opportunities and equal expectations, however won't they procreate?...Answer is "they will" hence the rise in baby mamaism... In the future rules of engagement will be clearly defined so men stop seeing marriage as a medium to have a woman cook his meals and do his laundry forever(even though lot of men have evolved from this already with the use of domestic help and machines) Likewise women will stop seeing marriage as a means to evade bills forever(A lot of women are yet to leave this spot) When the lines are no longer blurry, a new type of cooperative marriage is what we will get 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by donsam2020(m): 1:31pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
kunleweb:and who was d President then? |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 1:33pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
MissWrite:you made no sense with your long epistle and I understood your post clearly before I mentioned. This post of yours confirms my assumption about the mentality you have. Are you saying until a woman is financially independent, she doesn’t have the right to have standards? This is a sordid thought... no apologies. Everyone has the right to a standard... again, you have put the utmost importance of marriage as the need to meet the financial responsibilities of women. Women being independent is not a new thing, if you think it’s new, ask your mother. Women had farms. There are some tribes in Nigeria where the women used to be the breadwinner. Some places in delta I know. like I explained clearly the reason it’s like the trend is the bleeped up mindset of seeing relationships and marriages as an escape route from poverty. The Essence of marriage is companionship which you have put as a third option upthere. Our culture someway made women subjects, times have changed and the men that are progressive have seen things differently. However, many women still have the mentality they will be subjects in marriages thus they don’t have the wisdom to tell when a man is being controlling or being progressive. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by sprints2: 1:34pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
samguru:I have actually been to a church where the pastor(woman) was preaching any woman who is having serious issues with her hisabnd or not enjoying her marriage should live and not die of sorrow...I just remembered I never read any verse in the bible that said a woman should leave her husband because of misunderstanding and domestic violence... although the woman have the rights to defend herself in cases of domestic violence but she can as well report the matter to the husband's family or if the husband proves adamant she can leave...majority of the single women we have nowadays are either from broken homes or are not happy with the way their fathers treated their mothers...marriage in Nigeria nowadays is very tricky if both parties don't complement each other...a marriage where the wife is doing the job of the breadwinner is a failed marriage |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by resurgent2019: 1:36pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
tunjilana: This is very spot on. Men are already adapting to the new order, but women are anxious and frustrated, hence the insults you see on this thread. We are waiting and watching how everything will pan out. SInce women want rich guys only, they go get 'em. We shall get to a time when women would be forced to protest the lack of men to mary. We are fast approaching that point. In the meantime, men shall keep their cool and getting some of that pus*y and beer to calm our nerves. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Activedreamer: 1:37pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
150 to 200 years from now, marriage will be abolished. ^ Marriage is over rated. Our women achieve more without marriage, and as a result they don't see the need. Many who are married today,did so cos of societal pressure. ^ Dear humans, STOP birthing children you can't raise. So many lost and idiotic humans fill the earth. STOP! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by DonPikko: 1:37pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Them no they carry there matter for head, I didn't come to life to live for one woman, if a better woman doesn't come by, na to enjoy my life alone, I canur coman die resurgent2019: 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by djon78(m): 1:37pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
victorian: I am not saying that there are not good women with high class. But they are very rare And then also good women with high class rarely stay single. There are high traffic of guys around them. So they are quickly married. Most of the women around come with a lot of drama. Can talk brashly, rudely and disrespectfully. But from personal experience not so flashy girls are much easier to blend as a wife. As a man I can cook, keep my surrounding neat, even take care of a baby. But my encounter with these simple young women changed my perception. Wash my clothes, cook, keep house neat and listen to instruction. Invariably running a home is nothing to them. So then I ask myself why Will a man go in the name of marrying high spec girl, bring in someone that will be trouble from day one. When you can get a woman that will give you peace in your home. Respect you, give you sound advice and grow with you. Why? Also if a woman keep attracting wrong type of guys. She should check himself. There are still good guys out there. Wonderful guys, just that they set unnecessary standards and then fall prey to bad guys. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by MissWrite(f): 1:41pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
majekdom2: I wonder if this would be worth it since you seem to have a problem with comprehension. There is a difference between having a right to standards (or a desire for them), and being able to afford them. May be that's a dose little enough for you to handle. Let's not overcomplicate things with more words. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by resurgent2019: 1:43pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
DonPikko: Baba na so ooooo. I used to worry about them before but found out that all they want is money so i refrained from them. I get sex when i need it and i take care of myself. I am my mental point of origin. I only care about myself and my mother. The unsavory truth is that women are not capable of loving men. They only care about what a man can provide. It is just the way they are wired. The faster men know this about women, the better for everybody involved. In fact, women love themselves more than men. They are more attracted to each other than they are to men. It took me a long time to realise this and once i did, i made peace with myself. It is just unfortunate that Nigerian women are more elfish due to the squalid economic condition and poverty in Nigeria. Nigeria women are greedy on a whole different scale entirely. Only God can save Nigerian men. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by dareogunsanwo(m): 1:45pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Marriage is like JAMB you will be aiming UNILAG or LASU and later end up in Ibadan Poly 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by MeeLan: 1:46pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
there are so many single ladies cos simple morality has been eroded. you see your girlfriend and her friends, you can't even find one to pick even for free as a wife! but they are all best for company! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by millionboi2: 1:46pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Saff:I won marry......don't form4me ooo Be matured bcoz I'm serious. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by sprints2: 1:49pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
tunjilana:environment is changing I certainly agree with your point on the new order of marriage but I think modern civilization has caused a serious barricade in our today marriages...but why would I have a wife that can't cook for us that's utterly rubbish if she doesnt know how to cook i will teach her or subcribe for her to learn how to cook on youtube or better still send her to culinary school but I have seen majority of ladies keep saying I can't be cooking for my husband that she would look like a slave...the concept of marriage is the man is the head of the house and has every right over the woman well not to the extent of turning her into a muppet.. about doing other chores like taking care of kids, laundry, paying bills I think it should be collective and done cooperatively..it is even wrong for a wife to be wasing her husband clothes...cloth that you used u will be giving it to your wife to wash is wrong...but cooking should be done mainly by the wife but at times the husband can cook to assist not just to assist but to show sign of love...because the kids will imitate what they see...but if they see their dad cooking and washing their mummy clothes, the kids will feel its normal.... |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by ImaIma1(f): 1:49pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
resurgent2019: Don't lie...you know what i mean? Luckily for me, i hate no tribe. I just point out what i see. Who cares who rules the country? How does that affect me in any way? A beninois can rule for all i care. What has all the ruling got us since 1960? |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by vislabraye(m): 1:52pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
kunleweb: Men are usually fewer and to make matters worse, a lot of them are not gainfully employed. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by freshinko: 1:52pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
[quote author=Ihatelove post=70844843]Cause most guys are pricks, so we would rather stay single than die of heartbreak [ your monicker speaks volume about your state of mind.
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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by DonPikko: 1:53pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
your points are valid chief! resurgent2019: |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 1:54pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
MissWrite:feminism advocates a right to a standard/ values and not “being able to afford a standard”/ values when it comes to a romantic relationship. Being able to afford means “price tag/limit” on the individual or situation you wish to relate with. This is why you came first with finance not checking clearly that one can have values that match upto “your” standard. I have heard many girls say “ he can’t afford me”. Isn’t that lame and this is obviously what you are saying too indirectly- a woman who is financially dependent cannot afford men of certain values because she needs him to meet her financial needs. A woman who is financially independent is able to afford any man with her desired values because she doesn’t need him for her financial needs, and there are not many men of values thus the high number of single women . I don’t have a comprehension problem, you are the one with a bleeped up mentality or perhaps one who don’t know what word to use. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Hanseel1: you've said it all, the two criterias to have a girlfriend i donnt even have ,, vocabulary zero ,bank account zero ! God help me! nothing like talkless bro ,,next time say "not to talk of" face ur book |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by BENRAZY(m): 2:06pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
because men are not ready to marry this days |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by bukatyne(f): 2:16pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
majekoam: Are their relationships really great if their lovers can be snatched like a bag? |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by soundforce: 2:16pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Shugavee:i sense REGRETS in your words . You seem to be very uncomfortable in your marriage. |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Acidosis(m): 2:18pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
What do you mean by "single ladies"? There is a distinction between Single and Unmarried. Many unmarried ladies are not single, some of them have more than 2 boyfriends and some have multiple sex partners. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by 1234IKECHhukwu: 2:18pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Mehn is so pathetic, u need to see the alter call of single ladies at winners chapel Enugu yesterday being Sunday that was marriage encounter service. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by soundforce: 2:19pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Shugavee: I sense regrets. You seem to be very uncomfortable in your marriage 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by tunjilana: 2:22pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
sprints2: Hello, the way things are going and the way things will be in the future, it wont be a matter of who should but who can. If you seek equality, seek it in totality and don't shoot yourself in the foot by marrying someone who cant be equal to you or help u seek your desired life...that is if you are really progressive and forward thinking oooo...In some countries where people have to work many jobs to survive...couples work around their schedules to be able to baby sit, cook, do laundry and all together....so u are planning to have your wife on day when u are on night and vice versa and expect her to still be the one worrying about domestics alone!... As for the women, marriage is about companionship not having a man pay your bills cos u take care of his domestics. The world is gradually moving away from the point where domestics are such a big deal...wish a washing machine, food processor, vacuum e.t.c... a lot can be done in minutes...besides the average family size is shrinking, most men dont want more than 2 kids...probably coming generation will be 1...So that idea of I am giving him a family is gradually shrinking... |
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