Found this lovely piece about love:

�The Other Side of Love �
As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten… Revelation 3:19- Some people mistake love to mean that your spouse will always agree to all that you do and say. It is important to note that it doesn’t always work that way. Love also corrects, rebukes and chastens. In fact, anyone who claims to love you without correcting you either does not know the meaning of love or does not love you, after all. I was discussing with a lady some time ago about her relationship along the line she made mention of something and I told her is very wrong and she was open to tell me that her ex-boyfriend has never corrected her, whatever thing she does including the one she told me was right to the guy, when I told her the implication she started crying. You see anyone who loves you and hope for a future with you will always want the best for you and must correct you. Love does not necessarily say “Yes” always; there are times when love must say “No”. This does not mean that the love your spouse has for you has decreased, rather you should understand that he or she is after your welfare. For instance, as much as Jesus loved Peter, He rebuked him at a point (Matthew 16:23). That rebuke wasn’t out of anger, but love. As a couple, if any of you is ill-behaved, rude or have a negative aspect that would affect your relationship, you must be ready to chastise in love. The truth is, it is only those who are truly after your progress and peace that would be bold enough to correct you. However, this does not mean you should nag, be abusive or rude to your spouse. It calls for being your brother’s keeper and ensuring that you "wash" each other to the point that you are without spot or wrinkle (Ephesians 5:26-27). All corrections must be done in Christ’s kind of love.

Love is about accepting people the way they are : If you love someone , then you will not try to change them . As John Legend would say , " ...love your perfect imperfections...". We are not perfect (hell nobody is! ) , that is why I feel that you trying to change someone is like trying to change them to be more like you ...or rather another you .

Shelumiel:
Love is about accepting people the way they are : If you love someone , then you will not try to change them . As John Legend would say , " ...love your perfect imperfections...". We are not perfect (hell nobody is! ) , that is why I feel that you trying to change someone is like trying to change them to be more like you ...or rather another you .

If you love someone truly, there may be bad things about their ways, and character that may be worth changing, vices not worth keeping. Trying to get your loved ones overcome such negativities in them is worthwhile and they do appreciate you for it.
For instance if you love a girl that turns out to be a thief, you don't have to leave her stealing. You show them love by doing what you can to change that.
Of course no one is perfect but there are certain things that are worth changing and helping your loved ones overcome those challenges is Love in action.

Shelumiel:
Love is about accepting people the way they are : If you love someone , then you will not try to change them . As John Legend would say , " ...love your perfect imperfections...". We are not perfect (hell nobody is! ) , that is why I feel that you trying to change someone is like trying to change them to be more like you ...or rather another you .

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Lilyqueeny:



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Ifybaby don't I deserve a thumbs up from you too.

Lilyqueeny:



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So u don't want to answer me?
Why?
Did I offend you?

Sincere4u:
So u don't want to answer me? Why? Did I offend you?

you did not offend me

Lilyqueeny:



you did not offend me

So why are you acting this way?
You blocked me and refused giving me ur number.

Lilyqueeny:

Hi
When will I have the number?
Why are you finding it difficult to send it when in fact no one ever reaches you with it,?

Lilyqueeny:



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Ifybaby why haven't I heard from you for a very long time now. Unblock me jare.

Lilyqueeny:

How are you Ifybaby?
Longest time.

Lilyqueeny:

Hello.
Ifybaby you blocked me again. Could you unblock me please?

Lilyqueeny:



you did not offend me

So why did you block me everywhere?.

Lilyqueeny:

How are you and health?
You've been away for ages.

Lilyqueeny:



you did not offend me

Then, unblock me jare.