victorian:
Most men are not ready to be responsible, that's why.

And women these days prefer to be single have kids, than settle with just any guy for marriage sakes. Gone are those days, a woman will be suffering and smiling.

More women are not ready to be treated as slaves in a marriage they spend their hard earned money on. The guy more or else doesn't contribute anything other than sex, collects her money and he will still be as controlling as fucvk! Some slaps here and there, feeling he should be able to make her scared of him.
Why would a man instill fear in his wife instead of respect from his wife
So,
Most single ladies don't need such stress biko.

Personally, I can never marry a controlling, abusive, lazy man. I rather remain single and have kids instead.

Igbokiller:
so enlightened u speak and act pained.even chose a pained moniker.or is ur moniker not a sadist's?

bukatyne:


I am a lady bro

kingkakaone:
If u had read my comment properly, u would have understood what I said.

Ur second paragraph is totally out of point with my assertions earlier, I don't think I can answer them because they are not in line with my thought.

BTW, no man has a woman beater bill written on his forehead, they are the smartest when going out for a lady. They know how to scheme their ways into the life of these innocent ladies by studying their strengths and weaknesses and always ready to strike when the guard is down.

Ur narrative just fulfilled the complete attribute of a woman beater, no offense intended.

Ihatelove:

Check your moniker

LaudableXX:

You obviously did not read my comments properly. You implied that women who do not like calm and gentle guys end up with wife beaters. No man has wife beater written on his forehead, but many women can easily spot the signs of a wife beater before their relationship goes far. Is he aggressive and prone to violence? Does he settle scores with his fists, even among his male friends? Does he raise his voice anytime there is a mild argument? All these are signs. Another thing is that wife beating does not start in one day with a bashing. It stats from a small slap. And any wise woman would immediately avoid such a man, once she spots the signs.

As for the 2nd paragraph it is totally in line with what you had earlier said, unless you prefer to play the ostrich and hide from the truth. How can you meet a girl today, ask her out the next day and expect her to jump ad say "Yes," to you automatically without thinking it through?: And if you have taken out time to study such a girl, you would know the kind of preferences she has and whether she would likely say "Yes," to dating a calm and gentle guy, or a popular and loud fellow.

Robynwelo1:


Who is Linda Ibeji? You don't know jack about me though. Please name for me the people that have died because they couldn't survive without a man. Feeling so self important aye!

OLAJADON:

[s]ok I have heard you but let me ask you this simple question, SO YOU WONT GET MARRIED OR SETTLE WITH ANY MAN THAT DECIDE TO CHEAT ON YOU ABI?
even Linda ikeji has come to realize that you can't change somethings in this world that why she decided to settle for a baby daddy instead of a husband(this shows a sign of desperation to me) why didn't she make the identity of her husband known? I guess because she doesn't want other women to come snatch him from her but she was the one forming self made woman, I can live without a man. then why is she protecting the identity of her husband.
I just hope it doesn't get too late before you read between the lines.[/s]

mercyway:
Firstly, you don't know my age

Secondly, you don't know numbers of years we've been friend together

You don't know the year the incident happens

You don't know my current marital status

You mean a working class grown up man of 29years can't ask out a working lady of 27years after being friend for 3years & some months? Do you realize these happened many years ago?
Its better for you to STFU instead of spewing shit

dairykidd:
1.Its because these sisters don't want to be under any man.

2.Even married bîtches don't act it & most cant stay married because they are still living like they are single so the eventually end up being single

3. They ain't loyal no more & we ain't ready to play their dämn games but we rather play them like games... We ain't playing to loose

4. They are greedy bloodthirsty vampires who want to have it all for free at our expense & worse of all if u ain't getting cheddar they ain't getting along anymore

So u see here just a few reasons these hoes will always be single... But they be getting dîcks from random thirsty niggaz on the journey tho

kingkakaone:
First of all, I used the word "some women". I have seen too many things that has made me not to generalize issues.

I don't have time for arguments that are unprofitable at all.

Thanks for ur time though.

LaudableXX:

Were you birthed and raised by a woman? If you were, then how can you disrespect other women by calling them 'biitches, hoes and vampires?' It says a lot about your upbringing.... Just saying.

LaudableXX:

Sir, you used the phrase "most women" in your earlier post. That was what prompted my response. Kindly check it again. Good day.

LaudableXX:

Why are you getting worked up? In your previous response, did you mention the number of years you had known the lady? NO! So unless you assume that everyone who reads your story is psychic, they would not be able to know the length of time you had known her and would have given you a response, based on the facts outlined in your previous post.

Secondly, 29 years is still a young age. Or do you want to drag old age with Methuselah at 29?

Finally, if after knowing her for 3 years you still toasted her and she said you did not fit her spec, (because you were not the type of guy she likes), then it means that in those 3 years you did not take out time to study her preferences, properly. If you had, you would have known the kind if guys she gets attracted to, and you would have known if you fit the bill, or not.

Shugavee:
I hv been single before!! Mr man

Butoneday2:
Guys don comot for this buhari cantry finish. Do u knw how many nigerians out dia looking for somthing are they not supposed to be persons husband. Ladies too dis days not be material again not like b4. Could u believe dat my so called gf/fiancee to be no sabi cook, ladies sorry to say dis but i have to cos am dissapointed pls, not all ladies but my babe no sabi and i've giving her red card for dat. Don't ask me y.

hollah123:
then y don't u remain single forever n see the emotional trauma behind it.many old singles deceive some young ones by claiming feminism n feigning happiness but deep down they cry like a baby.

Shugavee:
because I found myself in love!! Lol that’s what u tell urself, they r happy n good.. yeah sometime u want a relationship,,, but when u remember u heartbreak n how deceitful men r, u come back to ur senses,,, n wait for the right man!!! But being single is stress free,, n makes u focus on urself,,, when u r in a relationship u think of ur Partiner than urself most times,, how to please them n make them happy ,, u forget about urself,,

Zirah:


Lady, if you knew what you were talking about, you'll be grateful for your situation. Pls, don't ever wish to be single at an older age. You don't want to know the trauma and put downs involved.

mercyway:
& you think am a Sissy who will be wasting his previous time monitoring ladies up & down? Well, its better I let you enjoy your foolishness because I've got precious thing to do with my time

Robynwelo1:

Trash.

LaudableXX:

You are not a Sissy yet you keep lamenting on NL, about how a lady turned down your advances? Grow up, bro!

victorian:
Most men are not ready to be responsible, that's why.

And women these days prefer to be single have kids, than settle with just any guy for marriage sakes. Gone are those days, a woman will be suffering and smiling.

More women are not ready to be treated as slaves in a marriage they spend their hard earned money on. The guy more or else doesn't contribute anything other than sex, collects her money and he will still be as controlling as fucvk! Some slaps here and there, feeling he should be able to make her scared of him.
Why would a man instill fear in his wife instead of respect from his wife
So,
Most single ladies don't need such stress biko.

Personally, I can never marry a controlling, abusive, lazy man. I rather remain single and have kids instead.

kunleweb:




Is this excuse legit when many fathers and mothers of the previous generations got married before they had jobs and were not at the mercy of jobs

chigoizie7:



because what was obtainable as at that time as in, standard of living is not the same now.

Once u are out of school then, job awaits u, my mother got a job b4 she served. She said that in her school back then UNN, at the end of each session, companies, gov't establishmentS go round begging for people to come work with them. It also applies to men too.




All those things are not applicable today.

princfred:
Job or no job, the women then dated their men until conditions financially improved for marriage. Now, ladies are jumping around from dick to dickson looking for only ready made and fat pay check earners so the few fat earners knowing whats up, are having a field day with them without commitment.

chigoizie7:




Do u really think that if jobs has been readily available for all, both men and women, that our ladies will be jumping from dick to dicksons.?

All those jumpings started from somewhere, and with time, it became a normal thing for them.

mercyway:
you need brain transplant, we are having discussions about issues with ladies & sensible people contributed. go & check the meaning of lamentation dindinrin