IamLEGEND1:
It's only normal for kids her age to explore things that makes them feel good. A lot of boys do it too.
she may ultimately turn out to be gay, or she won't.... either way it's fine because there is little you can do about it.
You can choose to become the extremist parent and try to shame and bully her into not liking girls but that isn't going to change anything, she'll only shut down and take her activities further underground.

The only danger to warn her about is what will happen if she is caught by someone who is not you (Like some people above me). They'll definitely lynch her to death.

And don't even try to justify any extreme action you may take with religion because that'll be a lie.

I am a Nigerian and I have seen a group of 30 yearly old men publicly beat a 6 year old to within an inch of his life for handling things with his left hand. why? because culture.

Our answer to anything we don't understand is always violence and that is why we have Boko haram today.
ignorance will always walk among us if we never take the time to reach across the aisle and at the very least try to be tolerant of other people's life choices that don't harm us in any way.

imagine someone saying to commit her prayerfully into God's hands. That very statement implies that God made a defective human that needs to be corrected by prayer. in which case you're saying God is flawed, the domino effect of that means that the very concept of the religion you so like to flaunt becomes an extremely flawed one because I doubt anyone would serve a God that shipped broken goods that have to be returned to be fixed.

naijanewstv:
My dearest, please don't allow water swallow your fellow woman. My daughter is in her SS2, they are the one to get into SS3 once school resumes.

She has a phone and 2 days ago, I almost caught stroke where I was going through her phone. I sent her to buy me some toiletries at the super market down the road and her phone was in her room charging. When she left, it started ringing and I went to pick up the Call, it was one of her school mates.

So I told her to call her back. The phone wasn't on password. What made me start assessing the phone was her fine profile picture, how beautiful it was.

I opened the gallery and saw hell. N!aked v!agina, lesb!an videos.Her and her friends snapped n!aked . I felt I have failed on my part.

Help me on what to do ? She is 15 years. Should I stop her from boarding because her school have day student who go and return home. It's just paying for school bus which will cost me 55k per month.

I am finished. I have ceased the phone, what else should I do ?

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/09/my-15-year-old-daughter-is-practicing-lesbianism.html

naijanewstv:
My dearest, please don't allow water swallow your fellow woman. My daughter is in her SS2, they are the one to get into SS3 once school resumes.

She has a phone and 2 days ago, I almost caught stroke where I was going through her phone. I sent her to buy me some toiletries at the super market down the road and her phone was in her room charging. When she left, it started ringing and I went to pick up the Call, it was one of her school mates.

So I told her to call her back. The phone wasn't on password. What made me start assessing the phone was her fine profile picture, how beautiful it was.

I opened the gallery and saw hell. N!aked v!agina, lesb!an videos.Her and her friends snapped n!aked . I felt I have failed on my part.

Help me on what to do ? She is 15 years. Should I stop her from boarding because her school have day student who go and return home. It's just paying for school bus which will cost me 55k per month.

I am finished. I have ceased the phone, what else should I do ?

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/09/my-15-year-old-daughter-is-practicing-lesbianism.html

mercy0008:
I want to be your friend. Is that fine?

milemimi93:


Homosexuality is been frown at?

Is it worst than ritualists and killing fellow humans that is going on in your society everyday?


Bro/sis, if I have a child and he/she engages in such act, the best I can do is to tell him/her the side effect of it then leave him/her to do what pleases.

For fvck sake u won't be with your child 24/7.

I grew up to realized that children whose parents were so strict when it comes to sexual matters like keeping boyfriend/girlfriend ended up doing the worse. Most of them returned home with unwanted pregnancies.

IamLEGEND1:
that's totally fine. you didn't even have to ask.

mercy0008:
Drop your mail. I will reach out.

IamLEGEND1:
mn9861540@gmail_let me know when you have it so I can edit this comment.

jonathanOz:
See fuc.k up! Just kill her now you still have time. Poison her simple

newdawn2017:
What kind of demonic advice is dis? may u not find fruitful cancel on ur ti. e of distress of any sort, 4 d wicked & souless singular act here 2day nairaland done 2 dis helpless & distressed lady 2day. may u decieved in seeing & accepting d deadly golden Lance head vipper snake or other lethal snakes as fish, may u see pieces of rocks as bread. I curse ur loins, may ur own child trade ur vital body organs 4 real cash.

newdawn2017:
What kind of demonic advice is dis? may u not find fruitful cancel on ur ti. e of distress of any sort, 4 d wicked & souless singular act here 2day nairaland done 2 dis helpless & distressed lady 2day. may u decieved in seeing & accepting d deadly golden Lance head vipper snake or other lethal snakes as fish, may u see pieces of rocks as bread. I curse ur loins, may ur own child trade ur vital body organs 4 real cash.

zinnyzee:
Beat her.

Beat her.

Beat her again.

Continue beating her.

Beat the living daylight out of her.

You can thank me later!

IamLEGEND1:
It's only normal for kids her age to explore things that makes them feel good. A lot of boys do it too.
she may ultimately turn out to be gay, or she won't.... either way it's fine because there is little you can do about it.
You can choose to become the extremist parent and try to shame and bully her into not liking girls but that isn't going to change anything, she'll only shut down and take her activities further underground.

The only danger to warn her about is what will happen if she is caught by someone who is not you (Like some people above me). They'll definitely lynch her to death.

And don't even try to justify any extreme action you may take with religion because that'll be a lie.

I am a Nigerian and I have seen a group of 30 yearly old men publicly beat a 6 year old to within an inch of his life for handling things with his left hand. why? because culture.

Our answer to anything we don't understand is always violence and that is why we have Boko haram today.
ignorance will always walk among us if we never take the time to reach across the aisle and at the very least try to be tolerant of other people's life choices that don't harm us in any way.

imagine someone saying to commit her prayerfully into God's hands. That very statement implies that God created a defective human that needs to be corrected by prayer. in which case you're saying God is flawed, the domino effect of that means the very concept of the religion you so like to flaunt becomes extremely flawed because I doubt anyone would serve a God that ships damaged goods that have to be returned to be fixed.

elbaraj001:

perhaps u 're gay dats y u giving every point to support bill act...my broda what is wrong is wrong no matter how you paint it....

newdawn2017:
What kind of demonic advice is dis? may u not find fruitful cancel on ur ti. e of distress of any sort, 4 d wicked & souless singular act here 2day nairaland done 2 dis helpless & distressed lady 2day. may u decieved in seeing & accepting d deadly golden Lance head vipper snake or other lethal snakes as fish, may u see pieces of rocks as bread. I curse ur loins, may ur own child trade ur vital body organs 4 real cash.

Sarang:


She has told you to kill her in a subtle way!

jonathanOz:

Would have said back to sender, but it's waste of time. cos nothing was sent in the first place. May you find peace and calm, and lots of humour too.

Sarang:


You're so smart!!

ableguy:

What's smart in what he wrote there? Mtchew

zinnyzee:
Kill ke?

Ah no... Beating does a lot of miracle, you know.

IamLEGEND1:
It's only normal for kids her age to explore things that makes them feel good. A lot of boys do it too.
she may ultimately turn out to be gay, or she won't.... either way it's fine because there is little you can do about it.
You can choose to become the extremist parent and try to shame and bully her into not liking girls but that isn't going to change anything, she'll only shut down and take her activities further underground.

The only danger to warn her about is what will happen if she is caught by someone who is not you (Like some people above me). They'll definitely lynch her to death.

And don't even try to justify any extreme action you may take with religion because that'll be a lie.

I am a Nigerian and I have seen a group of 30 yearly old men publicly beat a 6 year old to within an inch of his life for handling things with his left hand. why? because culture.

Our answer to things we don't understand is always violence and that is why we have Boko haram today.
ignorance will always walk among us if we never make the effort to reach across the aisle and at the very least try to be tolerant of other people's life choices that don't harm us in any way.

imagine someone saying to commit her prayerfully into God's hands. That very statement implies that God created a defective human that needs to be corrected by prayer. in which case you're saying God is flawed, the domino effect of that means the very concept of the religion you so like to flaunt is extremely flawed because I doubt anyone would serve a God that ships damaged goods that have to be returned to be fixed.

milemimi93:
Do nothing.

That's her way of life.

There is freedom of expression (emotional and physical).

Allow her to live her life.

Live yours.