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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
lefulefu:The truth is if ladies ignore your messages a lot, then check yourself. Ladies do chat. a lot but with people they are comfortable with. Moreover only a man with a low self esteem will bother so much over this, must your messages be replied? What if she's busy ? Or not interested? What happens to moving on? I think Nigerian Men suffer entitlement issues too 5 Likes |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by jibson2121: 5:05pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Hard to get |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by princfred(m): 5:10pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
ImaIma1:Cheiiiiii!!!. ...this babe wan expose guys finish ooo...abeg no go there o...lol |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by jonadaft: 5:11pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
lenghtinny:To hell with you Who gives a shlt about your opinion 1 Like |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by jonadaft: 5:13pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
ozoekwe:You were chatting with a foooooooooool all along |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by akinszz: 5:14pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
ImaIma1:Nigerian guys can only ask olosho for nudes.. Not wife material 2 Likes |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
princfred:We can only play this role if Men are humble enough to be corrected. A "good evening or Good morning" to "sup" should have been a clue to a smart responsible guy that his approach is wrong. But no the next request would "can I have your number" if you manage to scale through the first fvck up. I once tried to correct a guy who requested we meet just few minutes of chatting for the first time. It went this way. Guy: sup Me: Good evening Guy: Can I know you? Meseriously? I'm I jobless?) Depends on what you wish to know Guy: Okay...where do you stay? Me: ....gave him location Guy: Let's Meet Me: (pissed of) I think you should ask if I want to meet you. Guy: hmmmm okay. Me:Or don't I have a say? Guy: Who do you think you are? .... You can guess what happened next This is the least of it all. We ladies don't talk or complain about these things, that's why Men always seem to be the angels. 6 Likes |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by jonadaft: 5:16pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Xisnin:Bros forget that bullshlt Haven lived in europe for seven years, I could confirm that Nigerian girls there even misbehaves, 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by pawshjai(f): 5:16pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Vicintonsh:Lolz |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Akexstinger(m): 5:16pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
She saw my picture again on Facebook and sent me a friend request , and from there we started dating. I was still in school when this happened while she was outside the country. So you can imagine how I was feeling like "oh men my gf de outside the country". I never asked her for money then because of my pride so, she was the one sending. After school n service, I got one job in a ghetto place , so I had no option than to move to the ghetto place while she was still outside the country. Then one night we did moment of truth, I told how much I was being paid and she told me hers. Then last year she came down and I went to her place to bring her to my place.. we had good time, strolled round Lagos n shopping. She slept in my ghetto house. When she went back to her place , she called me and said she loved everything she saw including my ghetto apartment but told me to get another job that will take me to highbrow areas inside Lagos. I told her madam na this small salary wey i de get now de make me be man oh, until I get a better job I will not kill myself . While still in naija , she started acting funny, not picking my calls and she was active on whatsapp . I did the calling so many times and no response. I got angry and with my pride i sent her a text message that she could suit herself and I will move on with my life. I deleted her from my Facebook n she blocked me on her whatsapp. I left her on my Instagram so that she will observe that I am having a happy life. For one year now, no word no comment, no call. Just some months ago, I got another job with a bigger position in the Same ghetto area with salary twice and half my former salary which is now even higher than what she earns outside the country. I was shocked and surprised to see her as one of the viewers of my whatsapp status picture one Sunday morning (a day to my resumption of my new appointment ). I ignored it. Now I have gotten sweeter bebe 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by princfred(m): 5:19pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
MariaLavina:....This one strong oo. I guess you met the worst if them all. I can't stop lol. Ofcourse their can be crazies like that but normally guys ain't this bad often. Are they? On a lighter note, what is he supposed to ask for - your brand of your panties, the size of your left shoe, the name of your village clown? Cut us some slack, babe. Just kidding...... I get your drift anyway. 2 Likes |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Jeromejnr(m): 5:20pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Reinah: Well, someone's trash can be the next persons treasure. Not all treasure is Silver and Gold. 1 Like |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 5:22pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Their shakara was too much |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by jonadaft: 5:24pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
NiggasInParis:She only called you when she broke up with the person that was servicing her all those times you were wasting your time.... #focus 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by pocohantas(f): 5:25pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
MariaLavina: You forgot to add "have you eaten?" and "what are you wearing now?" Guy: have you eaten? Me: No, I will do that later. Guy: heya , try and eat o. Or Guy: I called earlier, you didn't pick. Me: I was bathing. My apologies. Guy: and you didn't call me to bathe with you. 10 Likes |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by princfred(m): 5:28pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
pocohantas:His trying to get a more correct realtime picture of you in his fantasy. |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by 93Miles: 5:28pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
princfred:Even if u give them 10 chances, they'll never changed. It's in their blood. The best is to avoid them. Huslte hard, get money and leave the country and go marry a white ass girl. Leave these leeches to themselves. 3 Likes |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 5:29pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
princfred:I've seen worst. What can I do, it's inevitable. These days I just let them wear themselves out. I don't block, I simply ignore. Not all guys are like that. I've met Reasonable men via forums and social media. I met a guy here, He is the best. He instilled knowledge, maturity and Calmness in me. Through him I can converse very well. Believe me , I owe him . I've met several others, Ladies too , it's been a wonderful experience. Sometimes I just find it annoying when guys act like saints and blame women for everything |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by J2381: 5:30pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
pocohantas:how about: Guy: hello, what's been up with you? Girl: nothing much, my sub is about to finish. The way I see it, it goes both ways, no? 8 Likes |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Thegamingorca(m): 5:30pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
pocohantas: Lol cliché as fuxk. |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by akinszz: 5:31pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
93Miles:u be bad guy |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by princfred(m): 5:32pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
93Miles:Sorry na my man, forgive them their....as....... Even Buhari sef never "change" Change no easy you know |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 5:33pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
pocohantas: 1 Like |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 5:40pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
pocohantas:. 1 Like |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
pocohantas: So I was feeling funky one night like that, I decided to play along with this guy Guy: Hello Me: Hi dear (I hardly use that though) Guy: What are you doing now Me: (shuuu? Na my spirit dey online?) Not much just chatting with friends and You... Gist me about your day. Guy: It was good Me: okay that's great, Well mine went....... Guy: Cool. Eaten? Me: (sighed) Yes, you? Guy: same here. I will be calling you soon. Me: okay On phone After exchanging pleasantries.. Guy: Ready to sleep now? Me: Yes, will you sing me a lullaby? Guy:..... phone went off. The thing pain me ehn. 2 Likes |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by ImaIma1(f): 5:42pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
akinszz: So Nigerian guys usually chat "oloshos". Good to know. |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nnemuka(f): 5:47pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Some guys sha, they usually forget their senses before wooing a lady.... 7 Likes |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Spidermon: 5:48pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
When I found out she graduated from MAPOLY... 2 Likes |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Allaboutkatiee(f): 5:49pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Chidish behaviour Talks too much Too in love aka too clingy If you disturb me too much,i just loose feelings for you automatically. 1 Like |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by princfred(m): 5:49pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
MariaLavina:Oya make una sorry. Guys no go dey you done chop, your number "what are you wearing" it will now be which bank account do you like using to receive cash, which network sib you like pass, what's your favorite eatery, whats the size of your middle finger etc.... 2 Likes |
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by 93Miles: 5:50pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
MariaLavina: Below is my experience with Nigerian ladies. ME: Hello! After 5mins. ME: Hey! After 20mins ME: I guess u are busy. Just wanted to holla. Girl: Hi Me: Good day. How are u doing? Girl: Fyn. ME: Nice to know that. Girl: K Me: I'm ...... by name and you are? After 5mins Me: Hello Girl: Hi Me: May I know u if u don't mind? Girl: I'm ...... Me: Wow! Suxh a lovely name. Where are u from? After 10mins Me: Hello after 5mins Me: U still there? After 3weeks ME: Hello Girl: Hi Me: How are u? After 30mins ME: Hey! Are u busy? After 5mins ME: i guess u are busy. Have a nice day. Girl: Hi ME: Hey! Were u busy? Girl: Pls can u send me airtime. My sub is finished. ME: Alright dear. And you know what happend next. 18 Likes 1 Share |
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