StrongandMighty:
You are talking thrash! A girl can be head over hill in love with you nd Stil be boring in chat.. Most girls don't know how to keep conversations nd they expect you to lead on.. Nd in some cases they don't know what they'll say or reply which might offend you.. My point is this, that a girl is boring doesn't necessarily mean she's not into you.

Slexyangel:
My brother, take if from a Nigerian girl, every where in the world domestic bitches are boring. Takes a foreign mind or body to enjoy them

TheManofTomorrow:
[b] I was reading a thread on Nairaland yesternight titled What made you lose interest in someone you were wooing
https://www.nairaland.com/4720314/what-made-lose-interest-someone.
The utmost comment there was about Nigerian Ladies being as boring as Bleep. Some men even went as far a comparing them to Western lasses which to them are great conversationalist.
At this, I thought of chipping this in.


Listen guys, there nothing as being boring, the person is just not interested in you, get that into your skull.
If you notice your chats with a lady is boring, its simple meaning is just the lady is just not feeling you. You don't go about ranting all around the cyber space just because of that. Do you?
Have you ever chatted with a lady you're uninterested in? There won't always be ur bright side of the chat innit? That's the rule of life, priority.
If you chat with a lady for some weeks and the chat can be termed boring, stop messaging her, its is that simple. Rather than trying to force words from her mouth. Its not destined for you to flow with every lady in ur chatbox.

FYI, a lady u term boring is somewhere chatting with a another guy and they are having a good time. That's life bro. Learn to live with it.

Sometimes ago, a Lady friend of mine showed me her fb chats recently, and I was like WTF, some men still do this.
A man(full blown one at that) messaging a girl 10unreplied times and still not relenting. That's the height of it. I was just weeping for such guys in my mind. Must you keep a convo with every lady you meet?
After going through the ladies chat that day, I lost respect for some men. Gross content I must say and yet the accuse ladies of being boring.
Take a cue and get get the Bleep out of her chat if shez not chatting the way you like.

I once messaged a lady sometimes ago. She was the kind that drools chat with guys, tho she is pretty. Guess what, I stopped messaging her altogether until we met proper in school.
We talked, and she had an hint of my personality. She messaged me herself that night, come see our chats now, its the bomb, you will be wondering sef if she is the same girl. It's not by "Hello", " Hi"

And again, must you always be the one to start a conversation. I have a few ladies on my chatlist that messages me first when they need to talk and I lead them on like a pro. That's how it should be.

If you chat with a lady and its isn't a promising one. Move on. Shez not boring. Go see see her convo with some other guys. That's just the way it should be

See what a Nairalander has to say on that say thread below and I agree with him 150%
https://www.nairaland.com/4720314/what-made-lose-interest-someone/13#71000103

A word is enough for the wise. My piece[/b]
Cc: ilegendd

Tolex4real9:
I agree with some of the things you said above but still most Nigerian ladies are boring AF. They can't hold intelligent conversation . They are only good at celebrity talk and chifchat. Ask them the name of the senators in their states and you will be shocked

TheManofTomorrow:
[b] I was reading a thread on Nairaland yesternight titled What made you lose interest in someone you were wooing
https://www.nairaland.com/4720314/what-made-lose-interest-someone.
The utmost comment there was about Nigerian Ladies being as boring as Bleep. Some men even went as far a comparing them to Western lasses which to them are great conversationalist.
At this, I thought of chipping this in.


Listen guys, there nothing as being boring, the person is just not interested in you, get that into your skull.
If you notice your chats with a lady is boring, its simple meaning is just the lady is just not feeling you. You don't go about ranting all around the cyber space just because of that. Do you?
Have you ever chatted with a lady you're uninterested in? There won't always be ur bright side of the chat innit? That's the rule of life, priority.
If you chat with a lady for some weeks and the chat can be termed boring, stop messaging her, its is that simple. Rather than trying to force words from her mouth. Its not destined for you to flow with every lady in ur chatbox.

FYI, a lady u term boring is somewhere chatting with a another guy and they are having a good time. That's life bro. Learn to live with it.

Sometimes ago, a Lady friend of mine showed me her fb chats recently, and I was like WTF, some men still do this.
A man(full blown one at that) messaging a girl 10unreplied times and still not relenting. That's the height of it. I was just weeping for such guys in my mind. Must you keep a convo with every lady you meet?
After going through the ladies chat that day, I lost respect for some men. Gross content I must say and yet the accuse ladies of being boring.
Take a cue and get get the Bleep out of her chat if shez not chatting the way you like.

I once messaged a lady sometimes ago. She was the kind that drools chat with guys, tho she is pretty. Guess what, I stopped messaging her altogether until we met proper in school.
We talked, and she had an hint of my personality. She messaged me herself that night, come see our chats now, its the bomb, you will be wondering sef if she is the same girl. It's not by "Hello", " Hi"

And again, must you always be the one to start a conversation. I have a few ladies on my chatlist that messages me first when they need to talk and I lead them on like a pro. That's how it should be.

If you chat with a lady and its isn't a promising one. Move on. Shez not boring. Go see see her convo with some other guys. That's just the way it should be

See what a Nairalander has to say on that say thread below and I agree with him 150%
https://www.nairaland.com/4720314/what-made-lose-interest-someone/13#71000103

A word is enough for the wise. My piece[/b]
Cc: ilegendd

93Miles:



Go through this thread created by a lady and you will see characters most Nigerian ladies exhibit.

It’s not just about not being interested in a guy.


Most Nigerian ladies are mannerless.


https://www.nairaland.com/4722894/reasons-why-nigerian-guys-rather

TheManofTomorrow:



They only difference between African and white ladies is that when you chat with a white lady, you chat with them as a friend and not not trying to woo them.

I have tried wooing white girls and succeeded in some

At least most of the times and there are some lovers topic you can't talk to them about.

I have talked about lovers topic with a lot of white girls and believe me the chat was a bomb


But most guys, when they chat with a lady, they probably wanna woo that lady at the short or long run, if a lady sense that and she's not feeling you, she might take your conversations for granted and reply poo to discourage you. She might even ask you to send her gift, that I don't dispute.

Nigerian ladies shouldn't ask for gift as a means to chase a guy away. No white girl will do that.

A lady that senses you wanna make friends with her will chat on a neutral ground.

Most Nigerian ladies I've chatted with, I don't even woo them. Just normal chat of "Hello how are you" she start acting up.


Have you ever observed your chats with a lady yoy don't feel. I'm sure, the chats aren't gonna be what u aren't proud off.


I have never engaged in a chat with a lady that I don't feel. If I'm not interested in a lady, I open up and tell her that im not in the mood to chat or am not interested in her. She will leave. That's how a mature person should behave and not forming sh!t as if he/she is doing someone a favor by responding to their chats