He had been a loving man which I always thank God for because he always finds a way to make me happy. We have been dating for three years and we decided to take our relationship to another level by getting married. But the dream seems not to be coming through, because he recently lost his job.

This predicament has made our relationship triggered unusual behaviour and loss of focus.

He later got a job but the salary is small, he wished he could be buying things for me and going on a date as we used to, but due to the table that turn around he couldn’t. And I never complain nor do I bothered him that I need things.

But I noticed he was not happy with it, I tried to make him understand my love for him is not for material things, but instead of him to understand, he started acting strangely, he feels jealous and aggressive.

Whenever I received phone calls especially from male friends or when he sees something new on me, he levels of jealous and possessive increased. He uses to check my phone whenever we are together and even asked who I was talking to anytime I received call which he doesn’t do before.

There was one issue that happened recently which is making me doubt our coming together as husband and wife.

One day, on my way from work to his place, I saw my......read more

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My sister run for your life....e no dey hard e hard.

Most men are jealous tbh.


Girl run for your life..... such people will cheat on you consistently just to make a point. Those kind people dey kill oo

Enrol him in a counseling class. With an elderly person if u can't afford a professional. Then u need to do slot more talking to him. And keep close watch on him too. If no change. Then find urself another husband material cos this good one has worn out

if that story was remotely true.....then that would just be because money was what he used to give you the thing you "supposedly" needed. that was his way of providing for you and cater for your needs (aka feel needed in this r/ship). now that he cant provide, his insecure nature has him believe that since he cant provide/cater for your need, some other men may provide you with what you need.

the issue CANNOT be fixed unless he gets back to his position of "provider of your needs", so that he can feel that he controls you.

amaniro:
Most men are jealous tbh.

...and most women arent?!?!?