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I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Nobody: 11:15am On Sep 11, 2018 |
I've been a guest here for a long time. I just created this account because of this issue bothering me. I recently just broke up with my ex and I've been with my new guy for less than two months. We've been friends for over 3 years and he visited me once in those time. He has a legit job and stays in my town, his parents are here too. He seems to have good intentions but his actions are putting me off. We met again around end of July and he made his intentions known again(he wanted me to be his girlfriend back then), I agreed because I was single at the time. He is 30 so I suppose he should have passed the "playboy" stage. I went to visit him for the first time and he forced a kiss on me ![]() ![]() I have made it known to him that I cannot be in a FUN relationship, I'd rather be in a promising one that can lead to marriage and he said he's no longer a baby and settling down is paramount to him. I'm confused and finding it difficult to trust him with this attitude. I don't want to visit him anytime soon cos I'm not ready for sex. No front page |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Millenniumlady(f): 11:23am On Sep 11, 2018 |
Don't give in to him that's how they are......But hope you're getting lots of gifts from him as deserve ![]() |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by delugajackson: 11:31am On Sep 11, 2018 |
I don't want to visit him anytime soon cause I'm not ready for sex.When do you intend to have sex with him? After 2019 elections? You are only acting based on emotions. You are not ready to visit him anytime soon cause you're not ready for sex, meaning you will visit him later-on and probably have sex. Does that make any sense? Whether you have sex on the first day of the relationship or on the last day, it makes NO difference. What will be will be. I don't see any point in post-poning the evil day. 23 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by dingbang(m): 11:32am On Sep 11, 2018 |
his body language shows that he is sexually active and that should alert you of his kind of person. if you feel you cannot live up to his terms, then you quit the situationship you have with him and hatch on to someone who keys into your long term goals. there are good men in nairaland also, ask lefulefu. 7 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Nobody: 11:33am On Sep 11, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:I'm not even the type that knows how to ask guys for money or gift as such. I just want to be sure he is serious about me but the way he shows he's interested in sex is putting me off. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Nobody: 11:36am On Sep 11, 2018 |
dingbang:Thank you. Do you mind hooking me up with the good men? ![]() |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by dingbang(m): 11:37am On Sep 11, 2018 |
Sapphire11:whats your kind of man? |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by dingbang(m): 11:45am On Sep 11, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:thats not a good character 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Millenniumlady(f): 11:46am On Sep 11, 2018 |
Sapphire11:Just try as much as you can to curve him whenever he brings up those sex issues........Make sure you start getting those gifts from him the earlier the better..... I trust you ![]() |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Nobody: 11:49am On Sep 11, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:Lols Thank you |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Millenniumlady(f): 11:51am On Sep 11, 2018 |
dingbang:What's not a good character ![]() |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Millenniumlady(f): 11:51am On Sep 11, 2018 |
Sapphire11:When is he coming to see you ? |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Nobody: 11:55am On Sep 11, 2018 |
dingbang:A man that is committed to me and the relationship, I don't want a time waster either. A man that has a legit work and live comfortably on his own. He should have marriage in mind too. 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Nobody: 11:58am On Sep 11, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:He was around this past week, I have not exclusively told my mum I'm dating him tho I've hinted her. I just want to be sure about his kind of person first. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by dingbang(m): 12:00pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:it would make it look as if she is exchanging gifts for her body. a lady is worth more than material gifts. if you are the type that expects men to shower you with gifts then you need to stop kill that character because it wont take you far. the intent behind the gifts is far more important than the gift instead. i have a sister i advise alot and i do well to let her know if she needs anything, she should inform her brothers and not depend on men she dates, or if she is independent, she can get stuff for herself. when a man sees that a lady is not interested in gifts, that makes him respect her the more and even showers gifts on her family. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Millenniumlady(f): 12:02pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Sapphire11:Make sure your next meeting with him be at an eatery...... So you guys can eat and drink to success ![]() Note :- Don't take him home |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Millenniumlady(f): 12:09pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
dingbang:It has taken me far away more than you can imagine and will still do more.....For the fact that you don't spend on your girl doesn't mean other guys won't.....Leave this young lady alone dingbang lemme advice her properly back off |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Nobody: 12:10pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Millenniumlady: ![]() |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 12:12pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
How person wey no want sex go wan date person wey want sex in this age dey weak person pass cough medicine. 6 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 12:14pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:Pre-marital favors are her right but Pre-marital sex isn't his right. This is how you ladies set yourselves up for rape. 6 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Millenniumlady(f): 12:16pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Sapphire11:You might find it funny but I'm saying the reality ![]() |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by dingbang(m): 12:16pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:do you have a functioning relationship? 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Millenniumlady(f): 12:20pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Tallesty1:So this is what you do ![]() ![]() ![]() 5 Likes
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Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 12:21pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:Rape isn't enough, sometimes I seize their things. Nonsense 4 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Millenniumlady(f): 12:24pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
dingbang:You've been on this thread asking career ladies series of questions like you're any better ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Millenniumlady(f): 12:25pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Tallesty1:You still had the guts to quote me back 1 Like
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Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by dingbang(m): 12:26pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:you keep on asking for money from nairalanders, dont let me spool all your comments and expose you, you better behave your silly self 5 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Millenniumlady(f): 12:28pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
dingbang:That's what you do go around all threads begging for cheap favours like you're not a man.... get out
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Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 12:30pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:You really don't wanna do this with me 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Millenniumlady(f): 12:32pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Tallesty1:You better watch your mouth boy 1 Share
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Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by dingbang(m): 12:32pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:cheap favours like? 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice Regarding A New Relationship by Millenniumlady(f): 12:34pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
dingbang:You know them more than I do |
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