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Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 3:39pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Met a guy April this year, we seem to have a lot in common and I really like this guy. we started dating and things have been going fine until last week. I travelled to Lagos in June (work related), in July, he went to port for NYSC camp (now at his ppa there). communication has been fine and all seem normal until he used a girl's picture (a corp member) as his d.p. if it had been his status on what's app, I would have considered it a birthday wish but it's on his d.p and there was no congratulation or birthday message to it. I waited for two days and he didn't remove the pix, I confronted him about it. he told me its non of my business, he can use anybody's pix 4 his d.p and I have no right to question him since he has never done same to me. I got angry, we quarrelled and didn't talk 4 two days. I got fed up, apologized and he also did. we resolved it and he took down d pix but maintained his stand that I should not question him about his d.p. though, we are good now, I feel kind of scared. I can't seem to trust him like I did few weeks back, we spoke last yesterday which is not normal (we talk and chat everyday). I feel reluctant to call him, I really want things to work out for us but I feel I am taking d wrong step |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Oluromantic: 3:43pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Plenty things dey involved I think both of you may be inexperienced. If he never questions ur dp, you should not expect him to be answerable to you on his. You should ignore it as he did urs. You don't win a guys attention by competing for his dp o. He hasnt promised u marriage. Leave him and just be there. He'll choose you over a troublesome girl. However keep ur options open. If he comes and shows interest when ure still available, fine. If you've been taken, then you were destined to be friends and nothing more. If God say he's ur hubby, he'll be. But remove quarrel from d matter, it doesnt make it any better. Be good. 10 Likes |
Re: Am I Wrong? by gabinogem(m): 3:44pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
apart from this incident, has he done any other thing before that is related to cheating? |
Re: Am I Wrong? by delugajackson: 3:50pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
I waited for two days and he didn't remove the pix. I confronted him about it. He told me it's none of my business, that he can use anybody's pix as his DP and I have no right to question him.Good people of Romanceland. Should we tell her the truth? 33 Likes
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Re: Am I Wrong? by lovelybugs(f): 3:52pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Hmm. Try to open up to him on how you feel about it. And also ask him who you are to him. |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
gabinogem:none at all. this is d first time we are even having a serious argument |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
delugajackson:go ahead pls |
Re: Am I Wrong? by youngsahito(m): 4:10pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
gloria34:your guy is hiding something from you 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Wilfredpat22(f): 4:21pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
gloria34: Open up to him and tell him you have been faithful and loyal. Truth is he thinks you are probably also bangging another guy also 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22:maybe u are right but I have tried to make him understand that I won't so such. probably, he don't trust me enough |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Babacele: 4:33pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
I think for disrespecting you for that long despite not discussing with you about who the mystery lady is calls for serious concerns. I hardly comment on relationship threads because the best judge of most relationship are the two folks involved. Notwithstanding, It is a huge disrespect to your person and emotion to have treated you that way ,and it is only a cheating gut that can pull that off. How is your boy? 8 Likes |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Eberechi24(f): 4:33pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
gloria34: the Truth they want to tell you is that the guy may not faithful in his side. the lady on hs dp maybe his new catch. be careful, ppa matter tire person. 6 Likes |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Eberechi24: ![]() Eberechi24: |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Red flag?? Not so many can keep distance relationships 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Wrong? by gabinogem(m): 4:42pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
gloria34:OK... u guys just need to come open & plane in ur affair...I won't say he's cheating on u just because he kept a lady's pics on his fb profile. Maybe he did that because of something u are doing or u did that is upsetting him & wants you to feel jealous; the reason u should pry & find out what made him had to act that way. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Babacele:he's fine, resumed kg1 yesterday. feel bad I am not home |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
gabinogem:thanks, really appreciate |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:I still have three months to finish up here, and when I finally gets home, he won't be home. after staying away from relationships for long, I really want this 1 to work |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Babacele: 4:48pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
gloria34:have there been reasons or instances where the seeds of doubt or mistrust have been sown by you in this relationship? |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
gloria34:you are at fault here |
Re: Am I Wrong? by IamLEGEND1: 4:50pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Another relationship about to crumble because of DP... 2 Likes
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Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Babacele:none that I know of. we've been good till d d.p issue |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
SilentWisper:pls tell me how? |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Babacele: 4:52pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
gloria34:and he is aware about my friend in kg1? Right from the start? |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 4:53pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
IamLEGEND1:hmm, I hope that's not d case |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 4:54pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
Babacele:sure, we attend same church. I don't hide my son 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Am I Wrong? by victorian(f): 4:56pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
gloria34: My dear with this mentality of you want to this to work? U will really take shit from the guy. The guy is also interested in the babe he used as his dp.. He's stringing both of u along. For a guy, u are dating to say it's non of your buisness whom he uses as dp is just warming up, his arrogance and authoritative attitude towards u. With time, u will realise what am saying. Better retreat , set him.loose and be patient to date a better guy. This one will just break your heart in a selfish and non chalant way at the end . The signs are glaring already. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
gloria34:go through your post.bye lady |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Babacele: 4:58pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
gloria34:Good. |
Re: Am I Wrong? by sicarioert3: 5:01pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
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Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 5:02pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
victorian:well technically it's none of her business. Since she's not his wife ![]() |
Re: Am I Wrong? by victorian(f): 5:06pm On Sep 11, 2018 |
SilentWisper: It's her buisness, as long as she is girlfriend and lover. Assuming they are just friends, then it's non of her buisness. Any bf who says it's non of my buisness? Hmmmm.. Hmmmm. The guy should just kiss our relationship goodbye. What rubbish? Well anyways non of my past exs have ever said such to me It's very rude to say to someone, u claim u care about and supposedly love. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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