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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Millenniumlady(f): 11:06am On Sep 11, 2018
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by kongolo(m): 11:14am On Sep 11, 2018
Margfin:
you are right bro, recently I met a lady at about 28years old, I got to know her through her elder sister hubby because they felt this lady was good and most good guys don't come near her dueling, to be sincere this lady is beautiful black beauty but very proud. We went on a date on 24/06/2018. The first question she asked me was that ? How old am I (33yrs), am I a graduate(yes), how long have you started your career job (1&half year). am I working (yes), where and how much is my salary(around Mushin salary 40k) and am I living in a flat or face me and slap you(not flat)... Next thing she said was that I can't date you........ After that day I called her sister and the husband that..... The very first day you introduced me to this lady I told you this lady is not good lady bcox she's your sister and she always cry to you whenever she had a heartbroken doesn't mean that she's good girl........ She called me on 9/9/2018 that I should send her 600 recharge card which I declined however I gave her 15,000k and other gift just to consider me but she only collected those gift and down me down....
How could you give a woman something without her giving you nothing in return? undecided
Having no game as a man sucks cry

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Danyl(m): 11:39am On Sep 11, 2018
No one is good by default, only the fear of God makes men to be responsible given that all factors remain constant and the God factor is out of it, any man could become a beast in seconds. having said that, if deeply within you are good, just let good thoughts of good men fill your heart of heart, and they will find you some day.

close your eyes, imagine it, every day, what you think mostly about you attract. if you don't see them in your mind, you won't see them in reality. Asking if they truly exist is an indication you do not believe they truly exist. they do come in different shades however, good things often come in ugly packages, learn how to unwrap the package and you will be happy at the end.
Selah.
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by ivanalimi: 11:43am On Sep 11, 2018
BestDude:
you will be the same person that will reject the person with this same qualities.

That is why I laugh at you ladies when you complain...
or they will be forming hard to get

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by DeltaBachelor(m): 12:15pm On Sep 11, 2018
Queenrabella:

fair skinned but definitely don’t have the Chinese eyes.
Do you by any chance happen to "hustle" around oyingbo ? wink cheesy
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by kunleweb: 12:55pm On Sep 11, 2018
Millenniumlady:
When he use diabolic things to take his bath then have sex with you..... I learnt they have diabolic soap lipsrsealed


If this has happened, you need urgent help
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by ayomide28287(m): 1:36pm On Sep 11, 2018
Queenrabella:

The truth is you are assuming my personality based on probably your personal experiences. God should just test me and send me a good man. embarassed







Rabel
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Heromaniaa: 1:38pm On Sep 11, 2018
If I sent you a pm, you wouldn't reply. How do you get a man if you keep turning men down? @ queenrabella
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by OLAJADON: 2:01pm On Sep 11, 2018
Agp19:
bro they get attracted to those kind of guys more..bcus u dont give a fyck of what they think..

Give it a shot and see for ya self!!!
https://www.instagram.com/p/BnbitV-hvyR/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=18oc9rc90h1t2
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by OLAJADON: 2:03pm On Sep 11, 2018
Queenrabella:
Just super curious, why is it nearly impossible? If it’s not yahoo-yahoo. It’s rituals, if it’s not that it’s love scams. All sorts have taken over the good old days of loving relationships. cry On another note could it be my looks? On several occasions all manner of people, usually men who are strangers refer to me as ‘China’ or sometimes ‘India’. Is there a street meaning to this or do they mistake me to be a Chinese person?! I’m tired, maybe I should just give up on love undecided

https://www.instagram.com/p/BnbitV-hvyR/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=18oc9rc90h1t2
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by 2buffagain(m): 3:45pm On Sep 11, 2018
Margfin:
you are right bro, recently I met a lady at about 28years old, I got to know her through her elder sister hubby because they felt this lady was good and most good guys don't come near her dueling, to be sincere this lady is beautiful black beauty but very proud. We went on a date on 24/06/2018. The first question she asked me was that ? How old am I (33yrs), am I a graduate(yes), how long have you started your career job (1&half year). am I working (yes), where and how much is my salary(around Mushin salary 40k) and am I living in a flat or face me and slap you(not flat)... Next thing she said was that I can't date you........ After that day I called her sister and the husband that..... The very first day you introduced me to this lady I told you this lady is not good lady bcox she's your sister and she always cry to you whenever she had a heartbroken doesn't mean that she's good girl........ She called me on 9/9/2018 that I should send her 600 recharge card which I declined however I gave her 15,000k and other gift just to consider me but she only collected those gift and down me down....

What's her business with your salary?
Out where I am that kind of question is cause for immediately calling for the check (if at a diner) and leaving her dumb ass at the table.
No time for karishika.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Margfin(m): 3:57pm On Sep 11, 2018
2buffagain:


What's her business with your salary?
Out where I am that kind of question is cause for immediately calling for the check (if at a diner) and leaving.
No time for karishika.
I didn't want to answer to that question because people was much there but she insisted that i must give her an answer.
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Margfin(m): 4:04pm On Sep 11, 2018
kongolo:

How could you give a woman something without her giving you nothing in return? undecided
Having no game as a man sucks cry
My thought was to settle down with her base on what the sister told me concerning her but this lady too smarter than I.
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by 2buffagain(m): 4:06pm On Sep 11, 2018
Margfin:
I didn't want to answer to that question because people was much there but she insisted that i must give her an answer.

That question is the equivalent of you asking a woman what her pussy smells like on the first date...it's crass and simply none of her business.
It is a socially akward, but oft tolerated question by guys because a lot of naija guys don't really value themselves or their time.

She can insist on staring at your ass as you call for the check and walk away as cool as you want to be.
Please don't waste valuable time (and other resources) on gold diggers, my brother.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by YoungDaNaval(m): 4:09pm On Sep 11, 2018
Millenniumlady:
Go stick to those five hundred naira girls in in Minna cheesy
I don't reside in Minna!
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Millenniumlady(f): 4:14pm On Sep 11, 2018
YoungDaNaval:
I don't reside in Minna!
Suleja man
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Nobody: 4:16pm On Sep 11, 2018
Queenrabella:


I know right! Such difficult times we ladies find ourselves in right now sad
maybe u two should change ur criteria for "husband material".


i might understand ur thoughts cos every woman i see around is nearly a gold digging slut.i tire for myself and this country
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Olas00(m): 4:22pm On Sep 11, 2018
Na them dey cause ham nah,una no like Mr nice guy : shocked shocked shocked :othat he y I want change from #Mr nice guy to #Good Bad Guy
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by kongolo(m): 4:50pm On Sep 11, 2018
Margfin:
My thought was to settle down with her base on what the sister told me concerning her but this lady too smarter than I.
Brother,from the response she gave you in June that she can't date someone like you probably because of the money you earn as salary or your place of residence, you were supposed to realize she wasn't feeling you.Then about 2-3months,she contacts you and you sent money and gifts to her?What were you rewarding her for?I am very sure she hasnt contacted you since she received the gifts from you.Oga,borrow sense na

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Margfin(m): 5:07pm On Sep 11, 2018
kongolo:
Brother,from the response she gave you in June that she can't date someone like you probably because of the money you earn as salary or your place of residence, you were supposed to realize she wasn't feeling you.Then about 2-3months,she contacts you and you sent money and gifts to her?What were you rewarding her for?I am very sure she hasnt contacted you since she received the gifts from you.Oga,borrow sense na
hmm you're right, she only call me whenever she needed something infact she doesn't know where I stay talk less of coming.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Margfin(m): 5:09pm On Sep 11, 2018
Bro don't mind me jawe because the girl make sense dye
kongolo:
Brother,from the response she gave you in June that she can't date someone like you probably because of the money you earn as salary or your place of residence, you were supposed to realize she wasn't feeling you.Then about 2-3months,she contacts you and you sent money and gifts to her?What were you rewarding her for?I am very sure she hasnt contacted you since she received the gifts from you.Oga,borrow sense na
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Margfin(m): 5:10pm On Sep 11, 2018
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Olas00:
Na them dey cause ham nah,una no like Mr nice guy : shocked shocked shocked :othat he y I want change from #Mr nice guy to #Good Bad Guy
hahaha cool
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by YoungDaNaval(m): 5:13pm On Sep 11, 2018
Millenniumlady:
Suleja man
Meaning
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by MetroBaba1(m): 5:15pm On Sep 11, 2018
Millenniumlady:
I tell you girl same thing is happening to me right now.....you see a guy shoot his shot at me next thing in my mind will be maybe he's a yahoo guy I'll just let him pass

Not All Guys Are Yahoo Guys, Allow To Shoot My Shot And Show You The Difference
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by kongolo(m): 5:55pm On Sep 11, 2018
Margfin:
hmm you're right, she only call me whenever she needed something infact she doesn't know where I stay talk less of coming
CHAI!! grin grin grin
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Margfin(m): 5:58pm On Sep 11, 2018
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by kongolo(m): 5:59pm On Sep 11, 2018
Margfin:
Bro don't mind me jawe because the girl make sense dye
You are just 33.You haven't even reached your prime as a man yet.You will meet more ladies 20x better looking than her.Just stay calm and live your life

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Margfin(m): 6:17pm On Sep 11, 2018
kongolo:
You are just 33.You haven't even reached your prime as a man yet.You will meet more ladies 20x better looking than her.Just stay calm and live your life
oww bro, you're wonderful, thanks. cool
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Margfin(m): 6:19pm On Sep 11, 2018
kongolo:

CHAI!! grin grin grin
Na so, na problem make crayfish bend oo embarassed
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by kunleweb: 6:21pm On Sep 11, 2018
Please move this thread to FP please

Lalasticlala Mynd44
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by BestDude: 9:45am On Sep 14, 2018
ivanalimi:
or they will be forming hard to get
one called me desperate for same qualities and much more. Called my emotional because I showed too much care and concern.

Took her too serious and that was my undoing.
It got to point she capitalized on these to discard me and flaunted another guy to my face as the one she has chosen to date because, according to her I am too emotional, too sensitive..

What did I do? I kept silent and never spoke to her again for several months, only for her to start calling me.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by BestDude: 9:47am On Sep 14, 2018
Margfin:
My thought was to settle down with her base on what the sister told me concerning her but this lady too smarter than I.
are you for real? Smarter than you? Where is your balls? I need to castrate you.

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