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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by sacramento1212: 6:20am On Sep 14, 2018 |
aragon4realz: A lady doesn't have a church until after marriage. Do not accept to change your church to her own church before she agrees to marry you. It just doesn't make any sense. The only solution now is to apply flexibility and she also must be willing to.adjust to make it happen if she truly loves you as she claims. My advice: Both of you should leave your churches to a different one. You as a Catholic can and she as a pentecostal can decide one church to attend. That's the best you can do and anything contrary to this is not right at all. Again, do not accept to leave your church to join her own ooo. If you do so, then you are a real pussy man. 17 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by mrblessed(m): 7:26am On Sep 14, 2018 |
stiffmeister:When bigotry is wedded to ignorance the inevitable consequence is the product of your baseless diatribe. Again, your lame and dismal description of Catholic Church shows you don't possess the faintest idea of what church teaches. Yes, Catholic Church has a different style of worship which unfortunately irks many pentecostals, and actuates them to make unguarded and unfounded comments about what they barely understand. In the Catholic Church, Jesus is the chief cornerstone and the symbol of highest veneration. Take it from me, we worship Jesus and Jesus alone. You merely joined the bandwagon that traffics ignorance and hatred. A lady you purportedly invested with the claim of "high spiritually" has been in relationship four year which involves sexual intercourse, yet she has "higher spiritual" rating because she worships in a different church, other than Catholic Church. Don't mistake noisemaking and shouting as the only prerequisite for knowing a true Christian and effective means of evangelization. Jesus didn't use these methods during His earthly mission. We have very few orthodox churches today with an unremitting mushrooming of pentecostal churches that claim to possess the ideal way to make heaven, yet we are inundated with societal ills of epic proportions, some of which are perpetrated in churches. If Pentecostalism is the answer as you erroneously claim, salvation gospel which was ordained by Christ and not prosperity gospel, will be their fundamental doctrine. In all this needless fanaticism, I believe that my faith in Christ Jesus, accompany with my good deeds are the only valid visa to secure heaven. Thank you. 74 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by skywalker240(m): 8:48am On Sep 14, 2018 |
2buffagain:something tells me to second this sh:t |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by addictiv(m): 9:32am On Sep 14, 2018 |
aragon4realz:some once told me "if both of you cannot agree on a simple thing as where to worship, how re you going to agree on bigger situations in future? " it's obvious you two re not meant for each other... so take a walk. 15 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by sterlingD(m): 9:37am On Sep 14, 2018 |
Hmmm religion is a very dicey and sensitive issue that can make or mar a relationship.Let me say this your faith in God is not determined by which ever denomination you go to.That been said the Young man should be wary of what he is getting himself into.This condition that she is giving is being masked under church by the time the real implication of what she is trying to do manifest she would have roped him into marriage.Then manipulation will be in full swing l am moved to say this though l am shocked at some of the comments l am seeing.Please do not just engage in the vogue of calling anyone from any other denomination an unbeliever.It does not show spiritual maturity The church you are going does not define you in your in faith in God it is you yourself because when you stand before your maker he will not ask which church do you go to. 23 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by sterlingD(m): 9:40am On Sep 14, 2018 |
sacramento1212: Hmm l see wisdom here 5 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 9:43am On Sep 14, 2018 |
It is a good thing that she is leting you know all this before you walk into the lifetime trap.if you can't convince her to to change her opinion and you are not willing to change you religion then it is better you walk away .there is always another good girl you can love. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ubenedictus(m): 9:44am On Sep 14, 2018 |
aragon4realz:or you guys can have a mixed marriage. a middle ground is always possible, it is hard but possible. |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ubenedictus(m): 9:47am On Sep 14, 2018 |
2buffagain:again be informed. nothing pagan in Catholicism 9 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ubenedictus(m): 9:48am On Sep 14, 2018 |
Auladimeji:Catholics are not unbelievers and they don't worship images. be informed about something before stereotyping people in ignorance 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by aragon4realz(m): 10:32am On Sep 14, 2018 |
Ubenedictus:you said it all 5 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by 2buffagain(m): 6:40pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Ubenedictus: I am very much informed. "Through Mary we succeed"...Why not just make up your minds and call yourselves Marians instead of Christians. Anyway not gonna involve in a religious fight though. That yields nothing. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by mezarddinny: 6:47pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
is it a must for you guys to attend same church after marriage? my parents have never attended same church, even the kids 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by 2buffagain(m): 6:49pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
mrblessed: Honestly, no church denomination is perfect, and every denomination is basically its own religion at this point. that is why religion itself is a cancer. Jesus Christ is above religion. Today we have churches that the Holy Spirit hasn't even been in since 1998. Just people going through the motions and entertaining or carrying out man-made traditions. It is also unfortunate that pentecostal church has now been thought to mean prosperity church. The prosperity church should honestly be another denomination on it's own as much of it was spawned by a subtle greed that grew into an idolization of material success. The catholic church? It evidently has an issue with idols period. Whoever discounts this is just defending culture/tradition, not scripture. God was firm when he expressed He doesn't want idols made of Him or anything in heaven. You don't know what he looks like, neither do you know what Mary looks like...but you just do all that because that's what your church leaders tell you to do...in stalwart defiance of what God dictated. You haven't gone into the bible for yourself to let the holy spirit teach you, by himself, what is expected of you and things to avoid. For one of many examples... if you guys were truly in truth, marriage for priests would be a choice not a mandate to desist (1 Timothy 4:3). You hear the news everyday what that does to these men... Whatever floats your boats sha, just know that there is a thin line between doing it right and doing it very very wrong with all these churches....and as the last days come to an end...that line gets ever thinner. As a christian, your paramount concern is not religion...but your personal relationship with God through Christ Jesus. The Holy Spirit will tell you where you need to go when you detach your soul from religionism and yield only to His instruction. Those who rely on "church crowd", "My pastor/pope says so", etc in these last days will be gravely disappointed when what's coming hits us. Jesus himself warned of this. We will have no-one to blame because our pastor cannot answer for us when that day gets real. So we owe it to ourselves to strip our religious egos/titles/relationships from all this, seek truth SOLO from God's word, and then apply anew as if we knew nothing before. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ubenedictus(m): 7:01pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
2buffagain:mariology is part and parcel of Christian theology, it is funny you seem ignorant of this. Catholic women are expected to imitate the example of Mary in motherhood, of course though her example and prayers they succeed. that greeting is used by the Catholic women not even the whole church. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by 2buffagain(m): 7:02pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by 2buffagain(m): 7:11pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
mezarddinny: It adds a nice binding effect to the home. The goal of the kids is to leave the house eventually so naturally I wouldn't care what church they decide to go when they become of age...as long as they stay in the WORD and guided by SPIRIT. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 7:21pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
aragon4realz:Whats the big deal with the church u both attend anyway I am beginning to feel both of u don't love each other that much as u say because if u do u will both come to a compromise.. I guess u were born into the catholic faith while she probably was born an Anglican. So this is what u should do since ur both trying to build a home together leave ur family churches & decide on a place where both of u can truly worship together. If that idea no work bros abeg leave church wedding ro tradition... No be force to wear suit & tie. Me am still looking for that girl when put honey for my mouth say make i no lick am.... Elayna!!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by 2buffagain(m): 7:27pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
dairykidd: It goes beyond a place of worship. These people basically have different belief systems. Not as different as christian vs muslim...but different enough still to cause core rifts. As much as our beliefs are somehow attuned to true christianity (denominations are weird), I would hate if my wife was a catholic and felt the need to start putting up shrines to Mary in my house because that is what her denomination says she should do. That simply won't fly with me... So it is wise that they check it now before getting into a union of fights. 7 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 7:49pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Love and religion...greastest scam of all time,infact politicians dey learn work for where love and religion dey. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 8:10pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
2buffagain: True hence i suggested they come to a compromise by having a common place of worship.. I don't see how else they can avoid the friction which is already building |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by sacramento1212: 8:15pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Lalasticlala...another story for your attention |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by 2buffagain(m): 8:16pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
dairykidd: They can avoid it by calling it off. Some fights are just not worth getting into. You can go into a fight of preference, not a fight of core belief. It's almost like marrying an Ifa worshipper if idols and shrines are gonna be around the house. It's just not happening. Unfortunately they didn't start this conversation early enough in their relationship and address the various elephants in the room until 4 years later. I feel they were just not dating with marriage in mind, just fun or convenience. They are now just getting to the age where they think of marriage, hence the revelation that they are heading diff directions. In which case, best they break it off and go find more compatible matches. That people mindlessly dated for years is no guarantee that they should end up marrying each other. 7 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 8:44pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
2buffagain: Yeah u are right though.. Its probably best they go separate ways |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 8:56pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Make I just comment 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by mezarddinny: 9:40pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
2buffagain:what binding effect abeg? the importance nigerians give to church is sickening, going to same church has not been proven to prevent cheating or divorce, the wife fit dey gbensh pastor sef, at op, you better don't let one church that can scatter in a day break your relationship is it not same God you people claim you are serving? 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by labelle123(f): 9:55pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
aragon4realz:. Gbam you are the man and the head so she should join you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 10:34pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
OK |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by nelronaldo(m): 10:34pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
zinnydan:Why only jw? 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by omooba969(m): 10:34pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Look for another girl then. 2 Likes |
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