tabithababy:
Na wa o

Forgive her, Pray and fast for her, start dressing seductively, give her monkey in snake shadow

Eketem:
Just here to see the male hypocrites telling him to divorce, if a woman caught her husband cheating you will be saying she should forgive him that it rains everywhere that all men cheat and divorce is a sin.

Smh

CAPSLOCKED:
PRAY TO THE LORD FOR THE SPIRIT OF FORGIVENESS, AND TO CAST AWAY THE SPIRIT OF CHEATING FROM HER, AND MAKE HER A LOYAL WIFE. THEN REPACKAGE YOURSELF. MAYBE YOU'VE LOST YOUR SEXINESS AND SHAPE. GIVE HER MORE MONEY, ATTENTION, AND SEX. HOPEFULLY YOU'RE MARRIAGE WILL BE BETTER HENCEFORTH.
CHEERS.

tabithababy:
Na wa o

Forgive her, Pray and fast for her, start dressing seductively, give her monkey in snake shadow

Eketem:
Just here to see the male hypocrites telling him to divorce, if a woman caught her husband cheating you will be saying she should forgive him that it rains everywhere that all men cheat and divorce is a sin.

Smh

Evangkatsoulis:


Someone else's semen was deposited into his wife!

Eketem:



And so? The married men who go about depositing semen in other women nko?

Akorkor:
Okay, i think this should be my first time to comment in family section.

I feel your pain and i cant imagine what you are going through.

Yes, she cheated on you and its so sad that i see men and women cheat on each other.

So what if you divorced or separated from her and marry another woman and the other woman follow same path? So what would happen? Dish her again.

This is the world we are in now and it so sad that many people are following the wrong path in live.

Cheating is a serious thing!!!

Let me ask you, what if you are the one that your wife caught, would you want her to seperate from you?
Yes, we all know that there is an adage in Yoruba culture which says " woman that engages in extra marital affairs is a threat to the husband" but are men not threat to the women also.

My advice to you is:

Think it through. Has she behaved like this during relationship before? If she hasnt then:

1. Let this issue be revelead to your inlaws

2. If you still have a space in your heart to forgive, please do and go for counselling. Professional ones not even church counselling this time

3. I think there may be some gaps in your relationship.

4. Also, you may let her be busy. An idle hand is always a devil workshop.

Marriage is not easy. An institution you can never get a certificate but i pray God will make it easy for all of us


DIVORCE IS NOT AN OPTION!!

Taylor430:
This is going to be a long write up but I need help from a matured outsider.

Today is Friday and I'm off work today. I wanted to spend time with my wife and daughter. I married my wife 3 years ago and we have been dating since 2008. We have a beautiful daughter who is 3 years old. I used to think I have it all. A young man who is 25 with a house of his own in Lekki. Two cars one for me and one for her. What else could a woman want!

She used to be my motivation to work hard. I wanted her to have it all. When I held my daughter in 2015. OMG!! It was the happiest day of my life. I said to myself life can't be better than what I'm currently experiencing.

I have found my wife texting dudes and trust me she is a very smart woman. Stay at home mum, so she can always be there for our daughters needs. My wife and I had this issue with a pharmacist in our estate a couple of months ago. They were always texting. Remember I said she was smart. They chat on whatsapp and she always deleted their chat. I couldn't get anything but I knew something was off. I logged on to her whatsapp on my laptop so I could see the chats before they get deleted. She called him pet names and I was so mad. This guy looks at me in the eye whenever I go get prescriptions for my wife, daughter and I.

I told her what I did to her whatsapp and I was impatient. I let the cat out of the bag before I could get anything. She denied ever having an affair and she was mad at me. I apologized. We went for a family vacation in Paris. It was my way of apologizing to her.

Fast forward to today. This unfortunate morning! I told her I would love us to go on a date tonight and she agreed. She is a serving corper. She told me she had an issue with her file and she wanted to sort it out. I knew something was off. I had her iPhone set up on my computer so I could know where exactly she would be.

The tracker on her phone stopped and the location was a nearby hotel just outside the estate. My head was spinning and I was thinking in my head. Do I really want to do this. Do I want to catch her in the act. It's going to change everything I thought.

I waited from 10am at the hotel, she left home by 9AM and I waited at the reception. I texted her where she was and if they are attending to her. She replied told me everything is being sorted. Not knowing I was waiting downstairs while she was having sex with another man. The receptionist didn't want me just sitting at their waiting room and asked me to leave. I told her I was waiting for someone and I paid for a room. I told her I'm waiting for some colleagues and I will only leave the waiting room when my guest arrives. She accepted. I have already paid *smiles*

She texted me by 12 that she was on her way home and I replied Ok. She met me at the hall. I looked at my wife and she saw me waiting. I didn't create a scene. I just wanted her to know that I saw her. I drove home and she called me crying if she could come home I told her why not.

She sat across me and I was tough on her. I told her to tell me the truth or else she would see the beast in me. She confessed they have been meeting for a month now and had sex twice at the hotel. My heartbeat dropped. I thought I was having a heart attack. What else could I have done differently I asked myself. Where did I go wrong?

I don't know what to do. I know for a fact I can never be married to her. This marriage is over. We have been together for since 2008 and I'm just finding out now. My daughter will be a result of separated parents. My worst nightmare.

When you catch someone cheating or telling lies. They don't change they only become smarter at getting caught. I don't think I can ever forgive her. She has to go. I need help!! I can't tell my parent. My mom loves her and they talk more than we do. I can't tell her parents they treat me like their child. Please help!! Matured minds only!!