I met this pretty young girl in camp, she was this very friendly girl who was so free with guys. We got to know each other and now we are dating. I told her about her creating boundaries since we are now dating. She agreed and now the relationship is going smoothly.

But then there's this dude who's really on her neck. He keeps calling her and they chat a lot. We went for our clearance and they were both gisting and laughing. I was talking to a dude and next I saw her holding the guy round his shoulders laughing.

I got quiet and acted like nothing happened. Had to call her attention to this now and she was like she was sorry that she got too playful. She promised it will never happen again.

I really do not know how to make this dude back off cause we talk. But not really a friend.

Bestie.......

Be scared bro.... Be very very scared

Never ever take girls seriously..

Fernandowski:
Bestie.......

Be scared bro.... Be very very scared

How do I make him back off??

some guys just don't know when or how to back off...even when they know a lady is legally married, they still try to attempt some silly stunts.

dingbang:
Never ever take girls seriously..

Honestly for a long while,i really haven't taken them seriously. Now I'm ready to get serious with her because she's so in love with me. Like I don't rest. She's always calling and wants us to see almost everyday

maikbanj:


Honestly for a long while,i really haven't taken them seriously. Now I'm ready to get serious with her because she's so in love with me. Like I don't rest. She's always calling and wants us to see almost everyday

how old is she

dingbang:
Never ever take girls seriously..

you really sound depressed with such respond

dingbang:
how old is she

She's 24

The guy isn't your problem,i strongly believe if you ask your girl what's up that guy...she'll say we are just friends...na so e dey start,your best shot is to let your girl know how you feel about seeing them together and you shud be blunt about it.If she doesn't change,you know what to do already,you shud channel your energy on better things

ritylove:
you really sound depressed with such respond

lol are you sure depressed is the right word? Oya go back to your dictionary and search for the right word.

maikbanj:


She's 24

still young and wana explore. Don't fall in love bro. Just go with the flow. Be a casanova

morningstar55:
The guy isn't your problem,i strongly believe if you ask your girl what's up that guy...she'll say we are just friends...na so e dey start,your best shot is to let your girl know how you feel about seeing them together and you shud be blunt about it.If she doesn't change,you know what to do already,you shud channel your energy on better things

Thanks

dingbang:
lol are you sure depressed is the right word? Oya go back to your dictionary and search for the right word.

yes i am sure av noticed all ur responses fellow same track, same mode

Lol, imagine dating someone who's still going through the wh.ore phase

I've said before, two things involved
either you continue with her and let guys use her till she has sense, this will take 2years

or you dump her and go for someone with the right priorities

dingbang:
still young and wana explore. Don't fall in love bro. Just go with the flow. Be a casanova

Smiles. To be candid, i'm planning on getting married soon. The problem I'm having now is the Bride.

maikbanj:


Smiles. To be candid, i'm planning on getting married soon. The problem I'm having now is the Bride.

make sure you do your investigations well bro, lest you end up getting married to the wrongest person.

dingbang:
make sure you do your investigations well bro, lest you end up getting married to the wrongest person.

Thanks a million

ritylove:
yes i am sure av noticed all ur responses fellow same track, same mode

madam noticer. Fyi, that nigga right there is about to fall in love with a distributor and as a brother, its only wise for me to advise him against such. I am sure if you have a bro who dates a girl whobis wayward, you would do likewise. Be sensible.

dingbang:
Never ever take girls seriously..

OP this is all the advice you need. Make she dey complain say u no dey take am serious; na her business. They get a rise out of playing with your emotions when they feel like you care too much.

Na just NYSC O, YOUR journey still far.

lilmax:
Lol, imagine dating someone who's still going through the wh.ore phase

I've said before, two things involved
either you continue with her and let guys use her till she has sense, this will take 2years

or you dump her and go for someone with the right priorities

LovePeddler phase.. Nigga you savage

maikbanj:


Honestly for a long while,i really haven't taken them seriously. Now I'm ready to get serious with her because she's so in love with me. Like I don't rest. She's always calling and wants us to see almost everyday

If she is so in love with you then why are you so bothered?

Ans: Because you know that that can change at any time.

Don't invest is all I will say. Let her be the one reaching out for you.

maikbanj:


Thanks a million

you welcome bro. Don't let babes make you think too much. If she flirts with a guy in your face, you do like wise and ignore her.. You are in charge, not her.

Honestly dating a lady aged 18-24 and expecting utter loyalty and commitment is like taking a big highly unnecessary risk cos that age range is when they pass through their wh0re/exploring phase


it's rare to find a lady btw that age range thats reserved, loyal and committed in a relationship


anyways op just talk to the guy man to man and by talk i dont mean threatening him like some insecure punk o


just remind him that the said lady is in a relationship.............remind him of the bro code


and even though it'd more or less be of no use, talk to your babe again!

Following

See mumu corper wan die ontop woman. After nysc d whole tin don end. Bros enjoy and stop to dey worry.

LuciferCristi:
Wait till he's asleep then tiptoe to his bunk & cover his face with a pillow.

Make sure to press down with your arm & pin down his chest with your knee.
This will prevent him from breathing out fully.

He should stop struggling in about a minute but don't release yet.

Maintain pressure for at least a full minute more. This will ensure his lungs don't fill up with air again & increase his chances of resuscitation.

Everything should take 3mins tops then you can quietly tiptoe back to your bed & sleep peacefully.

No one suspect foul play the next morning. They'll all assume he "died in his sleep".

Thank me later.

Lmao

samysmoothfresh:
Honestly dating a lady aged 18-24 and expecting utter loyalty and commitment is like taking a big highly unnecessary risk cos that age range is when they pass through their wh0re/exploring phase


it's rare to find a lady btw that age range thats reserved, loyal and committed in a relationship


anyways op just talk to the guy man to man and by talk i dont mean threatening him like some insecure punk o


just remind him that the said lady is in a relationship.............remind him of the bro code


and even though it'd more or less be of no use, talk to your babe again!

Thanks for this piece

mgtow:


If she is so in love with you then why are you so bothered?

Ans: Because you know that that can change at any time.

Don't invest is all I will say. Let her be the one reaching out for you.

Thanks bro

Leave the guy and face your gf, is she helpless?