Nigerian husbands have been urged to give their wives helping hands instead of folding their hands and allowing their partners to do all the work in the marriage. These lovely pictures were shared online by a new dad who wants Nigerian husbands to emulate him and support their wives in the home.

Read the words which accompanied the viral pictures; 

These days, a lot of women are very much eager to walk out of their marriage, most of them are still in their marriage now cos of the children, some have already given up on the marriage waiting for the right time to spark, some are just tolerating the man hoping for a change, some are still in the marriage cos of families, in laws, friends, colleagues and church members influence and encouragement, while some are already filling for divorce..

The Problems most times why marriage fails sometimes comes from the men. When a man is married to a beautiful lady, he tends to control and rule over her life, And then forget that, it does not take a whole lot to keep a woman, especially when you are blessed with a beautiful wife.

Every woman wants to be loved by her man, Even if she doesn’t love you that much but hence you have proven to her that you love her so much and You can do anything to always make her happy, I bet you she will never leave you.

Men don’t know that the secret to a woman’s heart is nothing but love and care, cos the true life and nature of a woman is hidden in her love life... So many men most times thinks that loving your wife so much and taking good special care of her, is being foolish. There are difference between loving your wife and being a fool. A man becomes a fool when he is not doing what he should always do as a husband by loving his wife always, taking good care of her and the family and as well making her happy always..

You seat down in front of the TV with your phone and watch your wife work until she’s about to pass out and just before she sleeps, you still want sex. Seriously, are you kidding me. Don’t you see you are wicked?

As a man, who told you that it is wrong to wash dishes? Who told you it is wrong to bath the kids and dress them for school when they are up to? Who told you that it is wrong to dress a bed? Who told you it is wrong to prepare breakfast or dinner? And there’s this twisted view of marriage that has led to an increase in domestic violence where they’ll see a man cooking and they be like “Guy, you need to get married so you can stop cooking”. Let me tell you, don’t marry a woman to clean or cook for you but marry to assist, love, cherish and enjoy each other.

If you are getting married because you feel you need someone to cook and do all house work for you, then get a housemaid. 

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/09/nigerian-husbands-urged-to-help-their-wives-in-order-for-their-marriage-to-work.html

@op u did not complete your write up, Wives should remember to submit financially, not seeing the man as the payer of Bills...When the left hand washes the right hand, the right will also reciprocate.

Are feminists included?

Sissy... Effeminate mam.. No wonder he wears pink and uses a pink bed.

Only a jobless man does this esp when the mother in law is coming/ around to do it. It is called omugo and it's not for men except the man is jobless n useless

I was expecting something CHALLENGING.
When MEN suck honeypots, Wetin dey for this one naaa
After all the CHILD na my own too.

Hmmm naaaa wa
Please get another FORMULA

divinelove:
Only a jobless aggressive lazy youth of biaffra man does this esp when the mother in law is coming to do it.

According to buhariguy/jesuslovesyou/buharitill2023.
No be me talk am o, so make una no attack me .

BTW I can't comment on Nigeria 's kenya war thread..

What's wrong with nairaland ?

I believe it’s all for the gram jhor, look at the wife’s face...

Bullshit. Just make money like Dangote and your marriage must work

Cool, nothing bad in this

N I don't get why some guys here are calling him sissy/jobless

nonsense!!! Women will not be happy until theyve emasculated men

Ana when I the rush go work around 5:30am, abi Na when I they come back around 10pm?

Abeg lalasticlala where snake make I chop.

If a man is called "woman wrapper" just know that they are having a peaceful home.

I cook for my main gf whenever she's around and I never let her do any of the house chores, even though she feels embarrassed.

dingbang:
As he is bathing the baby, I hope she is washing the car in and out and trimming the flowers in the garden. She should also remember to call the mechanic to service the car properly while she supervises, Nonsense.

yinmu

As we no gree marry nko

Imagine that girl's face while banging, burying her nails in your skin passionately, I go just dey erupt anyhow.

Let me go and fry beans for bae

missdee384:
yinmu

bia mind yaself. I don't take nonsense

THUNDER4real:
@op u did not complete your write up, Wives should remember to submit financially, not seeing the man as the payer of Bills...When the left hand washes the right hand, the right will also reciprocate.

I know you you have working ladies in your office.
Not only men work in your office.

The day a woman get to know that you worship and adore her that's the day she will start misbehaving. So man shd love and care with sense and wisdom

Nigerian women get trained from childhood how to be mothers and wives. Bt the men dem just leave us to freestyle lol. Many nigerian men want thier wives to endure shit their mum endure and kept quiet. Bt todays women no wan keep shut and endure. Hence wahala and divorce