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Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Quam7even(m): 10:13am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Thanks for all the advice. Taking everything said in this thread into consideration, and other factors...I've been able to make a decision and conclude the matter. I appreciate all your input....#ThreadClosed 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Pubichairs(m): 10:21am On Sep 15, 2018 |
she's a bloody feminist, such relationship that a girl can't admit her own mistake is quite toxic and kills slowly 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by michlins(m): 10:26am On Sep 15, 2018 |
I don't know about you but I love my life and can't accommodate such toxins in it I don talk my own 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Quam7even(m): 10:27am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Pubichairs: ok thanks bruv...jus wanted to know if i was thinking to far, but I guess we have the same thought train. |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by DrRasheed: 10:27am On Sep 15, 2018 |
She's right, though the words are not abusive but highly offensive for elders.
dont tell us you are thinking of leaving her cus of this minor aug. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Olalan(m): 10:28am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Oga better park well, for her mum to say 200k is small in present day Nigeria shows how greedy she might be, coupled with her daughter's behaviour I don't think it's wise to continue 9 Likes |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:41am On Sep 15, 2018 |
It was wrong for you to say God forbid and back to the sender. And even you, why your body dey bite you? Saying your salary is too small, is that a curse ![]() ![]() On another hand, the girl too no try o. Even if her mum said your salary is small, what was she trying to gain by coming to tell you. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Quam7even(m): 10:50am On Sep 15, 2018 |
michlins: thanks I really appreciate the advice tho. |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Quam7even(m): 10:56am On Sep 15, 2018 |
DrRasheed: I guess that's what confused me...didn't really see it as offensive. as per leaving, all I can say is....I've been putting up with similar incidents, and as a private minded kind of guy for me to bring my ish onto Nairaland like this I really reached the end of my rope I jus wanted to see if I'm overreacting wen I feel what she is doing is wrong...this is someone I thought I could eventually in the long rub commit too but social media don dey change her small small. She wasn't always like this. I guess as we get older people's true colours come out. |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Quam7even(m): 10:59am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Olalan: Aswear my guy...for Nigeria now we everywhere red. |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Quam7even(m): 11:04am On Sep 15, 2018 |
SBL28: Abeg no vex...it's part of me, binding and casting is wah I grew up with. But spiritual talks aside even in the secular sense we can change a lot about things with our confession...so I usually negate tinz i don't lik being said about my life instantly tho...although it may be wrong in some people's opinions...and also on my end...I don't talk down or say bad tinz about others. 1 Like |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by joceey(m): 11:32am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Mr man a lady that cant say she is sorry when she is in a relationship if you marry her na oyo be your name oò.You too let me be honest that back to sender you said is indirectly back to her mum ........and pls you mfm member no be every thing be cast and bind you people should try and know this 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:44am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Don't be deceive young man, her mum never said anything about your salary. she is only telling you her selfish mind and pretending it was her mum opinion. see I will advice you to begin to find another lady to marry because that girl will cause depression in your life which you know the consequences it will have for your career and health. a word is enough for the wise 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by tosyne2much(m): 11:51am On Sep 15, 2018 |
This is a sign of a looming danger.. Take your time to observe when in order not to put yourself in problem for the sake of your future 1 Like |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Quam7even(m): 11:52am On Sep 15, 2018 |
joceey: Ok thanks boss...respect |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Feranchek(m): 11:53am On Sep 15, 2018 |
God forbid, to me, is no insult. But the 'back to sender' MIGHT seem offensive. But I think she brought it up to you cos you both are close and you're sure she's told her mom bought it and she knows you also wanna know what her mom said abi it. So it's not abnormal that she told you. But her reaction to your rebuke was TOTALLY out of place. Good thing you apologized instantly, and I think she took advantage of that. Bro, you seem the humble type and no lady has any right to use that against you. And looking at her recent attitude of copying Instagram mumu shidrens, bros, spare yourself some future headaches and jejely and nwayoly waka away biko. She'll realize her mistakes and come back apologising. When she does, let her know her sins and if you plan marrying her anytime soon, add one ye to it to be sure your message has truly sank in and she's now the gurl you used to know 1 Like |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Quam7even(m): 11:54am On Sep 15, 2018 |
tommyken: Thanks...I appreciate your advice...But I never reach nor am I ready to marry...But thanks all the same na true you talk. |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Quam7even(m): 11:56am On Sep 15, 2018 |
tosyne2much: Hmm ok...never reasoned it like this...Could you expantiate a bit for me...I'm still young and not so wise |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Quam7even(m): 12:01pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
Feranchek: I really apreciate the advice...lik you said it's prolly the back to sender that did it...nd yh with all the advice coming thru its seeming lik the best bet to jus pause the relationship stuff....it's not easy cz we talking about years of relationship though...But lik u rightly said I gahs reason the future. |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Wilfredpat22(f): 1:21pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
Sir she will apologize and come back to you. Is it a girl that doesn’t have up to 4K in her account that now has a bf earning 200k that will leave you. We ladies that is even looking for someone that earns 100k. We depend on you guys for our survival sir. Keep ignoring her she will come around. Relationships in Nigeria to we ladies is like a Job or business. |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by greatcrown: 1:30pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
Did you tell her to inform her mum about your salary? What effort did her family especially the mother make to get you a higher paying job? Personally I think some things should stay betwwen couple including intending couple and top on that list is salary. Even if she was childish enough to inform her mother of your salary; will her childishness also extend to informing you her mum over-bearing attitude? I think the lady in question needs some growing up and if you have what it takes for her to grow up, good luck to you. |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by angelboy01(m): 1:50pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
My only advice to you is to never disclose your earning to a woman. It has happened to us and we know how it ended. Use your head. |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by babyfaceafrica: 2:22pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
what is the meaning of back to sender?...it is offensive abeg....you talk too much abeg..even if her mother made mention that the money is too much....just be cool and say you will manage the 200k till things are better..you guys just react and overact ....cho cho cho..all this kids sef |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Luthor234(m): 2:27pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
;DMFM |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Moneyspeakingz: 2:30pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
babyfaceafrica:That is maturity talking. |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Moneyspeakingz: 2:33pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
I dnt think that the both of u are actually matured yet. 1. Why must she tell you what she knew was not proper. She should have just kept of to herself 2. Why must she even consider her mum's opinion on ur finance? na her moda wan marry you? 3. You on then other hand, u over reacted and even playing child malice game 4. U seems to complain too much, wetin concern you with r new friends Solution Talk to her and let her knw what she wants. If she is not OK with your financial status,she should take the front door. lastly it is a rlshp and not a community project . 3 people is a crowd |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by naijacentric(m): 3:00pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
Guy take a walk from dis relationship its a disaster waiting to happen 1 Like |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Shugavee(f): 3:17pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
Yes u insulted her Mum but u hv apologized. |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
Quam7even:you are a sissy ass nigga |
Re: Did I Insult Her Mother? What Should I Do? by Shugavee(f): 3:31pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
Quam7even:apology for doing what? This didn’t require an apology... u would hv said this angrily don’t discuss my earnings with ur mom Or any other person again. That would hv sent the message |
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