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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by 2dice01: 12:42am On Sep 14, 2018
Chukason1:



Don't get
read the first 4 to 5 pages
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:38pm On Sep 14, 2018
A glass I raise to the numerous boys Dating Drills has made men.

I drink to all the balls we have, however hard, librated.

To the minds we've remodeled
The lives we've released

Gallant, long may you all live and pass on this touch to the male child yet unborn.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Adasun(m): 7:56pm On Sep 14, 2018
Harddon abeg put me through on the statement u made about girls dat may allow u touch their cookies but not the tits.



Please!
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by dview001(m): 8:22pm On Sep 14, 2018
Chukason1:



Don't get
meaning, send less and never worship her
......never be afraid of loosing her ,
in summary never be emotional attached to any woman,
that's the first principle with a promise

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:22pm On Sep 14, 2018
Adasun:
Harddon abeg put me through on the statement u made about girls dat may allow u touch their cookies but not the tits.



Please!

A-ha!

Someone just experienced dah ish, yea? cheesy
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 10:25pm On Sep 14, 2018
HARDDON:

A-ha!
Someone just experienced dah ish, yea? cheesy
Abeg for new members sake ...Reexplain
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:57pm On Sep 14, 2018
irumole1975:
Hi Haddon, you're a too great, Infact DRILL IS DOPE self (sorry bro I've to say this).... I've read this drill and I'm just on page 14, but I need to comment .i started reading 4 days ago, but due to busy schedule, I've been unable to keep up
It should be noticed that your approaches are magnet. I used it and I'm getting instant result.
I'll screenshot some whatsapp chat here later( the one I've been having since there days ago)... Infact one girl just called me right now having told her on whatsapp some minutes ago( let me not reveal this here).....

Please I beg you to drop me your whatsapp number (email :ktalabi42@gmail.com)

Now let me go back and start reading from page 15

To those who read and immediately deploy the dills in practice fields, belong the spoils.... cool

However, don't get carried away.... Your feet must always be on the ground and your balls firmly strapped inbtw your legs.

Ermm, just thinking aloud.... would I live long enough to see the day someone ask for our account number instead of WhatsApp...? tongue

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:04pm On Sep 14, 2018
Chukason1:
HARDDON and other Goons i dey greet please I love the work you are doing .....You say much about Caring less and not putting your full love on a lady at first..what of If she con lose interest??.....

If deployed perfectly, it ALWAYS attracts them not the other way round.

In the world over, guys CARE TOO MUCH FOR LADIES! they basically worship em all inna bid to ride the wet tide.
Hence ladies go forming posh and sending them less.
The more ladies send less, the more guys pursue them, isn't that right?
All we are saying in this drill is: turn the tables around and let them be the one pursuing you. Be the one forming posh.

You Stand out from the boring crowd that way.

It is soooooo kooooolllll to send less.

Sense Pill:

Never Pour your Love like sand and render it worthless, rather, let her mine it like gold.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:09pm On Sep 14, 2018
Adasun:
Harddon abeg put me through on the statement u made about girls dat may allow u touch their cookies but not the tits.



Please!

Have you bed a soft serve before?
I'm not saying I have though cheesy
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 11:10pm On Sep 14, 2018
HARDDON:


If deployed perfectly, it ALWAYS attracts them not the other way round.

In the world over, guys CARE TOO MUCH FOR LADIES! they basically worship em all inna bid to ride the wet tide.
Hence ladies go forming posh and sending them less.
The more ladies send less, the more guys pursue them, isn't that right?
All we are saying in this drill is: turn the tables around and let them be the one pursuing you. Be the one forming posh.

You Stand out from the boring crowd that way.

It is soooooo kooooolllll to send less.

Sense Pill:

Never Pour your Love like sand and render it worthless, rather, let her mine it like gold.


Thanks
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by OLUWABIG(m): 2:03am On Sep 15, 2018
some gals are as dump as cold pure water u use any of those lines u are stuck they will start saying things like I don't understand

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Baruchukwu: 10:20am On Sep 15, 2018
Helo guys, theres this girl that we both assume we are in a relationship and everything is going smoothly like couples , we make calls everyday and most of the time she makes the move BUT we have never uttered to our selves we love each other but we send love smileys and call ourselves dear sometimes and she always me hint that shes my future wife. I’m confused I don’t know if it is love in another form cos I don’t want to make the first move to tell her I love her and you know by saying ‘I Love You’ gives more trust to the relationship . SO, do you guys think I should confront her and ask her of our relationship status or what do you think please? I know For sure she doesn’t have any hidden boyfriend and she’s a family friend that I have the intention of marrying. Thanks
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by boninho: 11:08am On Sep 15, 2018
Wonderful people, I hail oo....please where can I locate cool nkwobi joints in Abuja town
Please, help a brother
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Adasun(m): 8:07pm On Sep 15, 2018
HARDDON:


A-ha!

Someone just experienced dah ish, yea? cheesy
lols,u eh!




She is a single mum and beautiful. Help a broda in plane words please.



Before i forget,she got average pair of tits. grin grin
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Adasun(m): 8:10pm On Sep 15, 2018
HARDDON:

Have you bed a soft serve before? I'm not saying I have though cheesy
soft serve? Who is a soft serve?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:58pm On Sep 15, 2018
Adasun:
lols,u eh!




She is a single mum and beautiful. Help a broda in plane words please.



Before i forget,she got average pair of tits. grin grin

Yas , I knew it!

However, your case is not ideal for my earlier statement.
But now that you brought it, I should quickly state emphatically and categorically that there are two main reasons it's easier to access cookies than titties:

Your case is one. Means that she isn't so proud of the effects child birth n gravitational pull have had on it and wud rather the loyal flat girls are left alone.


Second case is most prominent and serious however.

What do you do when you realise that one of your most attractive and selling features is your big pecky girls?
And you are in the selling biz?

Wouldn't you do all to protect it and let the girl downstairs that does not add any ounce of promo to selling, bear the Brunt of your wayward ways?

Yea, you are a cheap serve if you sell.... tongue tongue

I don't suppose you'd fathom this. cheesy

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Adasun(m): 10:42pm On Sep 15, 2018
HARDDON:


Yas , I knew it!

However, your case is not ideal for my earlier statement.
But now that you brought it, I should quickly state emphatically and categorically that there are two main reasons it's easier to access cookies than titties:

Your case is one. Mean that she isn't so proud of the effects child birth n gravitational pull on it and wud rather the loyal flat girls are left alone.


Second case is most prominent and serious however.

What do you do when you realise that one of your most attractive and selling features is your big pecky girl?
And you are in the selling biz?

Wouldn't you do all to protect it and let the girl downstairs that does not add any ounce of promo to selling, bear the Brunt of your wayward ways?

Yea, you are a cheap serve if you sell.... tongue tongue

I don't suppose you'd fathom this. cheesy
got it, i absolutely got it now.tanks.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Russi: 7:32am On Sep 16, 2018
Nah...wrong move.

Do what we call "THE duMP"..

LoL ... I'm coming for the weed

or

Lol... Me and my friends can use the extra weed cos we out celebrating

or

My collegue says she needs something strong 2nite


HARDDON:


Me: huh? Your boobs? Where did they go to before?

Or

Me: Your boobs cant hug, kiss away weed can they? Besides,I don't even know if she can kiss!

Or say:

Your baboon? shocked shocked shocked So you keep ugly pets? Now I'm really worried.

Or

Me: your boo my flat bum! Like you can afford one. tongue

Or

Huh? shocked shocked shocked so all these while we've been chatting, some d1ck has been using your juice to stew your wet hole? shocked shocked shocked

Or


Now I just pity the poor boo dude! He is about to lose you eternally!
My touch is mega. smile, super. Touch, top notch. Why do you think you get wet everytime we chat or you hear ma voice?




Fit as needed .think of others
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by futurevizi(m): 5:10pm On Sep 16, 2018
futurevizi:
Here lies my problem
I really bleeped up yesterday ..
A gal in my uni,different dept sha came and paid a visit for the second time ,my roommates were out. I know deep down ,I need to Bleep her as I have pressed all her keys, she so much into me she wants to date me (she told me she has heavy crush on me) she wants a relationship with me .. My friends all around likes her, she's social, playful the kind of gal I love to be around... Yesterday after playing games, she lie on my bed forming sleep(i knew that was a green light) , I couldn't make a move on her with all the signals she was oozing.. I knew I bleeped up.. I tried playing around with her, it really didn't work.. After she got up, she playfully told me she hates me, that I hurt her and I am never serious with her and she have told me everything emotional about herself and I have for once told her anything emotional about my self..
Suddenly she switch how she so much love and why I don't wanna ask her out.. I have to make up a story to confuse her which didn't work . I just have to tell her that asking a gal out kills the fun, she said I should try her. Which I didn't.. I knew my body language was really oozing to Bleep her. Suddenly she switch again when I told her to give me a dance she told me she's not like other gals out there, when she's my wife she will give me that.. After everything we didn't have sex...I feel I have really blown my chance of making her gal. I know sex=love.
How do I go around this situation next time..
To be sincere I love that gal and really wanna date her.
I have an inner feeling that after what happened between me and her yesterday she will start avoiding me, because I believe deep inside me she getting tired how do I go about this also?
I didn't Bleep her and I am not showing any sign of seriousness with her...
Secondly using your drills makes some women afraid of me or hate me.
I don't know why?
Can one ever defeat the fear of approaching new women??

She's acting funny now
HARDDON
DavidTheGeek
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by noblefrank31(m): 5:57pm On Sep 16, 2018
Cool
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 6:24pm On Sep 16, 2018
An awesome Sunday to all you Ballers!

because of popular demand and the fact that most Africans would rather not read, I dedicate today to digress and talk about books and recommend some that can make reading fun, remove the laborious airs associated with books , improve your reading , assimilation and retention speed thereby making you a well rounded, grounded guy.

READING IS REALLY FUN!

BENEFITS OF READING
1. It makes you stand out in your chosen field or in life generally. You become an authority/consultant in your world. Men seek to hear you speak like Solomon, wisdom drips off your lips as hearts get elated, minds challenged and lifted, life impacted and destinies remolded

2. You Become creative with mountain of ideas to draw from as John C. Maxwell, in How successful people think, puts it.
creativity is nothing but the aggregation of knowledge that helps you postulate a new wine or improve on an existing one( Don)

3. Reading keeps you young because it exercises the mind.
To grow muscles, we hit the gym but to grow our mental muscles, we must read books! As you read, you feed the mind which in turn keeps you young. The old saying is true: an unused, unengaged structure depreciates fast!

He is old, no matter how young, that takes no pleasure in the blessed worlds of books ( Don)

4. Books help you to proffer solutions to the numerous challenges of life as they pop up. Knowledge does not exist in space. Even science fiction draws inspiration from reality. And what was science fiction yesterday, quickly transforms into reality today! To think outside the box, you must know what the box contains first. The only way to do that? Well you already know.

5. It makes you a Leader. A leader is not one that ocupies an office, a leader is one who has answers to the WHY Question while every other person is battling with the HOW question.
Readers are Leaders in all sphere of human endeavours.
They are able to see into the future and guide men into it gallantly. They are always one step ahead of the game.

6. Books are the best ways to tap into and rob minds with men you might never meet. Understand their ways and sharpen your blades.


7. They make an author/orator out of you whether you were born for it or not. Blessed with the gift of yhr gab, you can't but dazzle in glitz and glamour!

8. Excel in life: you tend to Ace all the lil huddles education throws your way.

9. Win friends, influence people and have a very Broad picture of the world.

10. You become transgenerational like Daniel in the Bible that served in 4 regimes.. " I Daniel understood by the books... "

These are the core benefits of books.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 6:39pm On Sep 16, 2018
If books can make a god out of mere men, why don't we read?

The major reason is the wrong school curriculums. We were taught how to read and write in the most cruel ways that bothers on our knowing what the letters are and simply making statements out of them. Then, reading same, no matter how slow.

There was never a dedicated emphasis on reading speed nor fast assimilation and retention. Comprehension and summary clases were one of the most boring. You can only teach what you really know and ill equipped, we just muddled thru.
Faulty foundation laid and we built on it, however wrongly. Reading became work and totally boring. And since it is easier to count money, We grew lazy

But wise men have no excuse even in the face of ignorance coupled with laziness, they identify their short comings and take calculated/neccessary steps to self improvements.


You must tell yourself this truth every morning... Reading is soooo Fun!

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 6:57pm On Sep 16, 2018
Reading is boring to us because the average African reader ,reads so poorly, soooooooo slowly, so wrongly. He/she reads at the pace of primary school child ( 80-120 words per minute wpm)

If you didn't know, every school level has word per minute reading grade: this measures how many words you are able to cover in one minute.

Primary School 80-120 wpm
Secondary school 140-350
university/PG. 350-800 wpm.

No Nigerian school ever talk(ed) about this.
Here is the problem: imagine you, at your age, still being fed with toffees and all other primary school candies. Ofcos, it must be boring.

Yes, this is what happens with our reading. You must make conscious effort, therefore, to correct, break the wrong faulty foundation and build sleek.

How do we then appreciate the fun in Books?

By learning to read the right way, assimate the cool way and sharpen your retentive memory the sleek way.

If you are armed with this, you can cover large vol of books in a day or two. Consume novels in few hours and derive joy in the wonderful world of books.

Your friends would think your are super human. Ofcos, you are!

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:11pm On Sep 16, 2018
Luckily, I gained this insight a long time ago while I was in High School. And boy! How grateful I am!

I'm not an English master, so I cannot teach you.... The only thing I can do for you, is recommend good books that have helped me in this reading journey. Hopefully, after today, someone's academic and general reading life would spiral to the high heavens.

The list of books, in that particular order, I would recommend are:

1. How to read better and faster by Norman Lewis
2. How to study by Ron Fry
3. How to develop a perfect memory by Dominic O'Brien
4. Power up your mind by Bill Lucas
5. Power of your Subconscious mind by Joseph Morphy

Start with the first one, make sure you take all the activities. You would be glad you did! Call it my Sunday blessing to you! cool






Wise readers read with these three core goals : blazing reading speed, assimilation and retention

Why waste 3hours, with scraggy assimilation, on a book you can use 30mins to cover and understand even better?


SENSE PILL:
READING IS SO MUCH FUN WHEN YOU READ THE RIGHT WAY



Rich Regards
Don

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:17pm On Sep 16, 2018
Btw, if you haven't started the vocab accumaltion skills we stated in our blog, why delay?

If you haven't downloaded the astoundingly free vocab learning app: BBC Learning English nor visited the site: bbclearningenglish.com, you are on a long thing.

To live, we must first learn.... Don

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:19pm On Sep 16, 2018
Double Don
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:20pm On Sep 16, 2018
Read at least a novel and a book in relation to your field within a week.

At the beginning of every year, set a target of how many books you plan to read and be ballful enough to achieve it.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by EmeraldKing7(m): 11:45pm On Sep 16, 2018
Yeah keep up the good work OP
U see,I am having problems in striking up conversations with girls I meet especially in public buses.The thing is that we rapport well from the start but loose steam afterwards and i start asking WH questions since I don't much about her.But I observed girls don't like too much WH questions and since I can't discuss about myself,a strange silence usually commences and the flow is lost
Pls how do I engineer a LONG LASTING LIVELY conversation with a stranger....yeah especially in buses..
P.S-Some girls can be boring and have low sense of humor
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by BestDude: 9:13am On Sep 17, 2018
Baruchukwu:
Helo guys, theres this girl that we both assume we are in a relationship and everything is going smoothly like couples , we make calls everyday and most of the time she makes the move BUT we have never uttered to our selves we love each other but we send love smileys and call ourselves dear sometimes and she always me hint that shes my future wife. I’m confused I don’t know if it is love in another form cos I don’t want to make the first move to tell her I love her and you know by saying ‘I Love You’ gives more trust to the relationship . SO, do you guys think I should confront her and ask her of our relationship status or what do you think please? I know For sure she doesn’t have any hidden boyfriend and she’s a family friend that I have the intention of marrying. Thanks
don't even open that mouth or use that hand to say it. Instead imply it with something like a kiss and see her reaction. Yeah, kiss her or and romance her.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Emperor380(m): 3:13pm On Sep 17, 2018
Hi the big Don ,You really are a package of wisdom, how on earth won't anyone want to get close to u and maybe tap sum of the knowledge ? Well i count myself lucky to be in this thread,nt just fr the content of ur posts but ur use of language. If i say o want to speak absolutely correct English, its an understatement, mehn pls drop me ur WhatsApp no pls...I need u to connect to many things that will make me learn...thanks as i amticipate ur response

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by DavidTheGeek: 4:46pm On Sep 17, 2018
futurevizi:
Here lies my problem
I really bleeped up yesterday ..
A gal in my uni,different dept sha came and paid a visit for the second time ,my roommates were out. I know deep down ,I need to Bleep her as I have pressed all her keys, she so much into me she wants to date me (she told me she has heavy crush on me) she wants a relationship with me .. My friends all around likes her, she's social, playful the kind of gal I love to be around... Yesterday after playing games, she lie on my bed forming sleep(i knew that was a green light) , I couldn't make a move on her with all the signals she was oozing.. I knew I bleeped up.. I tried playing around with her, it really didn't work.. After she got up, she playfully told me she hates me, that I hurt her and I am never serious with her and she have told me everything emotional about herself and I have for once told her anything emotional about my self..
Suddenly she switch how she so much love and why I don't wanna ask her out.. I have to make up a story to confuse her which didn't work . I just have to tell her that asking a gal out kills the fun, she said I should try her. Which I didn't.. I knew my body language was really oozing to Bleep her. Suddenly she switch again when I told her to give me a dance she told me she's not like other gals out there, when she's my wife she will give me that.. After everything we didn't have sex...I feel I have really blown my chance of making her gal. I know sex=love.
How do I go around this situation next time..
To be sincere I love that gal and really wanna date her.
I have an inner feeling that after what happened between me and her yesterday she will start avoiding me, because I believe deep inside me she getting tired how do I go about this also?
I didn't Bleep her and I am not showing any sign of seriousness with her...
Secondly using your drills makes some women afraid of me or hate me.
I don't know why?
Can one ever defeat the fear of approaching new women??
With words, you'll warm a girl's heart, with action, you'll warm a girl's panties cheesy

Clearly, you have learned words, now you need to learn action.

It's difficult to teach what to do when you're alone with a girl in a room. Different scenarios, different moves.

If you've done your homework well with words, know that by coming over to your place, she expects/wants you to make a move on her. So feel free to make a move or else she's going to be disappointed.

On how to go around this next time....

Next time you have a girl over, let your hand WANDER to her laps, her butt, her boobs, anywhere, just touch something "you're not supposed to touch". Don't think about it, just touch.

If she asks you "what are you doing?",
answer with: "Nothing. Oh! Don't mind my hand, it likes touching fresh laps" and keep touching.

If she objects, you should know the difference between a girl playing hard to get and a girl who is rejecting your advances and act accordingly.

NOTE: Right from when she knocked on your door, "the game" has started. You deploy words and innocent touches to warm her up. Hug her at the door. Tell her the way she's dressing so sexy, it's like she came to seduce you..... bla bla bla.

On the issue of you want to date her...
I've addressed this issue of officially dating a girl before.

We say don't ask a girl out so you don't make her too comfortable and kill the fun. If you can maintain the fun while you guys are dating, you're free to make her your girlfriend.

NOTE: Just because a girl is now your girlfriend doesn't mean you should stop using the drills on her.

Usually, it's just best to keep things going without making the relationship official.

On the issue of the drills making girls afraid or hate you...

You're doing something wrong.

It's likely you're being just cocky and not being funny so it makes you sound arrogant.

Learn to blend the two.


futurevizi:

She's acting funny now
HARDDON
DavidTheGeek

This is expected.

DON'T go begging her or being nice.

Just ignore her funny behaviors and act like you guys are totally fine. You need to get physical with her asap.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:05pm On Sep 17, 2018
EmeraldKing7:
Yeah keep up the good work OP
U see,I am having problems in striking up conversations with girls I meet especially in public buses.The thing is that we rapport well from the start but loose steam afterwards and i start asking WH questions since I don't much about her.But I observed girls don't like too much WH questions and since I can't discuss about myself,a strange silence usually commences and the flow is lost
Pls how do I engineer a LONG LASTING LIVELY conversation with a stranger....yeah especially in buses..
P.S-Some girls can be boring and have low sense of humor

Charity begins at home.
Start small.
Learn to start and keep a fun conversation with your female course mate/co-worker first. Then gradually move up the ladder.

We have dealth with how to keep a convo fun and flowing freely before. Kindly locate the pages within the thread.

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