So a friend of mine came to greet me at work today, a female friend....we were gisting and all this morning, then I went through her gallery and saw her friend's picture. I asked her to talk to that her friend if I can have her contact. She did immediately and the lady asked her to give me her contact.

Few moments later I messaged her on WhatsApp , she was so rude with her response.

I have a copy of the chat here, but the main reason why I brought the issue here is that the girl messaged my friend and was like she showed our chat to every member of her family and they all said she's not in anyway at fault. Shoo.....

Please just go through this chat and then make a conclusion out of it.

Take heart bro. That's how they miss opportunities due to pride

The harsh weather and economy coupled with the fact that Buhari wants to run for second term. That's the reason.

You too were rude


you should not have said that. Courtesy also demand that you introduce yourself formally to her, tell her where and how you got her contact. Simple.


BTW Nigerian girls are extremely rude. True.

I think you're rather impatient. Scammers have made a mockery of good meaning Nigerians so as a stranger, you're supposed to introduce yourself. That at least will make her comfortable to reply to whatever...

amaniro:
You too were rude


you should not have said that. Courtesy also demand that you introduce yourself formally to her, tell her where and how you got her contact. Simple.


BTW Nigerian girls are extremely rude. True.

the only thing courtesy demanded was that I greet first. Which I did.

How was I supposed to initiate the chat please.

You just took it way too hard nah... nothing stopping u from greeting & introducing urself first... were u trying to teach her courtesy or na woo u wan woo her

Na Nigeria we dey oh...most people are kinda suspicious of everyone. in falz voice~ [/i]everybody be criminal[/i]

Sorry sir,

Some people can be rude unnecessarily. Although you for just let it slide without trying to much to correct her. Maybe subsequently bring it up when you're well acquainted.

But the girl is rude. And such attitude stinks.

egorov:
the only thing courtesy demanded was that I greet first. Which I did.

How was I supposed to initiate the chat please.

Simple. Girls hate when unknown numbers text them. So you should have given her all necessary information.

amaniro:


Simple. Girls hate when unknown numbers text them. So you should have given her all necessary information.

I was there when my friend told her I was going to message her soon.
So a text from an unknown number was definitely coming in and she knew that. I'm not even concerned about her, I just think it's really ride of her to respond that way. What if it was an important life changing message someone was about giving her, she would have used her pride and ill manners to forgo it

gabinogem:
You just took it way too hard nah... nothing stopping u from greeting & introducing urself first... were u trying to teach her courtesy or na woo u wan woo her

Na Nigeria we dey oh...most people are kinda suspicious of everyone. in falz voice~ [/i]everybody be criminal[/i]

Lol. Not teaching courtesy, Im just this kind of person that take necessities seriously

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Send Her This Message "Dangote"

or


"30billion". Watch The Magic... She Will Humble Like Mumu

I think the both of you were rude to each other. when an unknown number messages me after responding to the hellos and greeting the next question I ask is pls can I know who am chatting with

egorov:


I was there when my friend told her I was going to message her soon.
So a text from an unknown number was definitely coming in and she knew that. I'm not even concerned about her, I just think it's really ride of her to respond that way. What if it was an important life changing message someone was about giving her, she would have used her pride and ill manners to forgo it

oshey life changing messenger

Xaos:
I think you're rather impatient. Scammers have made a mockery of good meaning Nigerians so as a stranger, you're supposed to introduce yourself. That at least will make her comfortable to reply to whatever...

Okay thanks. Yea, maybe I should have been a bit patient. Just that I can't let things go that way. I rather trash it now than pile it up for later

MrPlato:
...



Send Her This Message "Dangote"


or



"30billion". Watch The Magic... She Will Humble Like Mumu

so nah money they control us right

vanida6:
so nah money they control us right

apparently....

amaniro:



oshey life changing messenger

jessca048:
I think the both of you were rude to each other. when an unknown number messages me after responding to the hellos and greeting the next question I ask is pls can I know who am chatting with

The first thing I said was 'hello good afternoon'. Good afternoon, pls who's this? Would have been more appropriate

amaniro:



apparently....

take dis go clean ur asss up

egorov:


The first thing I said was 'hello good afternoon'. Good afternoon, pls who's this? Would have been more appropriate

maybe she was not in a good mood when you messaged.

Oga her reply fit dey based on her mood @ dat particular tym,so u 4 jst throw something 2 brighten her up 1st like jokes b4 u continue,dat is if u no wan rush explain urself as she demand.

jessca048:
maybe she was not in a good mood when you messaged.

Nothing was wrong with her mood. I wish I could get a copy of her chat with her friend when they were discussing me. She was okay. She just wanted to act like a typical Nigerian girl, no offence

She's just being cautious. U be honest with her and tell her how u got her number and maybe then she will loosen up.

egorov:

Nothing was wrong with her mood. I wish I could get a copy of her chat with her friend when they were discussing me. She was okay. She just wanted to act like a typical Nigerian girl, no offence

cool your temper bro,maybe she doesn't fancy you then.why not begin your search elsewhere.there are good and respectful girls out there

Both of you are meant for each other because you are both rude. I actually prefer hers it’s more direct, you mask yours with a holier than thou attitude.

vanida6:
so nah money they control us right

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You Know And You De Ask Me

Most of Our ladies are like that, Naturally. I don't know why..

CAPSLOCKED:
MOST RUDE PEOPLE SUFFER FROM INFERIORITY COMPLEX, AND TRY TO MASK THEIR INFERIORITY BY PRETENDING TO BE RUDE. THIS WAY THEY EASILY EVADE INTERACTING WITH PEOPLE.
MAYBE THIS ONE IS ACTING RUDE BECAUSE OF HER POOR COMMUNICATION SKILLS. MAYBE SHE CAN'T SPELL OR SPEAK A LANGUAGE YOU CAN UNDERSTAND. MAYBE SHE'S UGLY AND SUBSTANDARD AND FROM AFAR SHE HAS REALIZED YOU'RE ABOVE HER LEAGUE.
YOU CAN NEVER TELL WHAT'S WITH RUDE PEOPLE.. JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE.

simple!!!




Op u got nothing wrong bro, although u need to be a GMC.

You were condescending with your choice of words. Most persons (irrespective of gender) would likely react sharply too. This is especially so if they have a bruised ego or battered self-esteem and so are overly sensitive.

The right to set the price for a good or service lies with the seller and not the buyer, especially when demand is high. You are the one looking for fine babe and needing the conversation. It's up to you to try to get her to relax around you.