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Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by shineeye1: 5:10am On Sep 19, 2018 |
MissRaine69: You have a choice : change your view or remain single. |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by bigtt76(f): 5:10am On Sep 19, 2018 |
In marriage, resolution of conflicts should go like this 1. Wife and Husband's Mother (Husband and Wife's mother) Wife (husband) should complain to husband (wife) if any issue with his mother. Husband mediates between the two. Wife should not take the law into her hands and likewise his mother. 2. Wife and Husband's Father (Husband and Wife's father) As above 3. Wife and Husband's siblings (Husband and Wife's siblings) As above Wife or husband should never take sides against either the wife or against family (same with wife too) 3 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by ola12(m): 5:11am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Depends on a 1st strike or subsequent strike basis. 1st strike, my mom slaps my wife for the first time-Instant family meeting between 3 of us when I come back, words would fly and a consensus would be made. The person at fault would be cautioned and apology tendered to the other person. Shikena Subsequent strike - Haba, doesnt matter if my wife was at fault or not, my mum cant just go slapping my wife like that (ps. I love my mom more than most things, but still). If she is living in my house with us, new apartment straight, cant tolerate anybody who would give me issues with my wife (this is a woman I would spend possibly next 50yrs with). Too many people on this thread getting emotional for no reason, besides its just a hypothetical question. Now if my wife slap my mum back, that wan go hard, cos I go definitely get issues with my wife for not handling it the right way. The right way is to backoff right there and then report to me, and she should definitely trust me to handle the situation properly 5 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by lexy2014: 5:13am On Sep 19, 2018 |
folake4u:how do u no its only Nigerian men that imagine d "impossible"? Did u interact with men from d other 180 countries 2no this? 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by ola12(m): 5:22am On Sep 19, 2018 |
MissRaine69:Missraine, thats not the way to do things, you're getting quite emotional. The ideal thing is to backoff at that moment, if the mil is a mad woman you dont need to drag yourself to her level at that point. Not saying you should tolerate nonsense like a househelp, but slapping her back in that particular moment would cause more harm than good. If you married a real man(not all these wussies claiming mama's chewinggum and protector), he should be able to handle the situation better and even get her to apologize to you and prevent reoccurence. Your MIL didnot behave maturedly by slapping you, that does not make you any less matured and you should try to act maturedly at that point. You have no idea how much respect your man and mil would have 4 you if you just do the right thing. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by shineeye1: 5:31am On Sep 19, 2018 |
ola12: Ola 12, you are the man! KIU 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by mikejj(m): 5:31am On Sep 19, 2018 |
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Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by AdaNonye: 5:34am On Sep 19, 2018 |
[/quote] Now this is the only sensible post I have read on this thread..... If your wife shouldn't slap ur mum,then ur mum shouldn't slap ur wife. Your mum should respect you enough not to slap your wife.... 2 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by chimerase2: 5:38am On Sep 19, 2018 |
no mata what my mum cant even do it
am her character copy i cant imagine raising my hand against a female folks 2 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by fatiuogidan: 5:39am On Sep 19, 2018 |
It's wrong for a mother to slap her son's wife, for me I won't accept it from my mother at all. My mum must wait for me to come back home or call me on phone and report my wife to me, I married my wife not my mom.The way I was raise and brought up is different from my wife's own. IT'S WRONG. Let called a spade a spade. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by garripack: 5:48am On Sep 19, 2018 |
HazzanTazzan: I am very sure you want to get a slave I don't think you need a wife.... Oga Oh your wife no be your pikin oòo.. No be say she(wife) retaliate to my Mama ooooo My broda use ur sense... the bible said a Man would leave is father house and cliff to his wife... All this Nigeria guys and mum.. mum Oga as for me very simple.. I won't ask question... I would just beg my wife to please forgive me for being incapable... After which... with immediate effect my Mama go pack her load to her husband house... ![]() ![]() Yess ooo na my wife husband... Broda ain't joking with the bone of my bone.. Any asunder holyghost fire... My Mama must call me after dat before coming to my house.. And I go get approval from my wife before she go come.. Oga my one Kobo 2 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Awoo88: 5:50am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Wet in happen to that girl wen slap her mother in law back on her wedding night self? Nairaland to bring story dem no go do follow up. Seun, find out what happen and tell us |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by david22uu(m): 5:52am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Airforce1: No right mum in her sense will slap her daughter in law... if it her own mum that slaps u nko 2 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by ogundokun: 5:54am On Sep 19, 2018 |
chris31:Baby husband ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by kokomaster3d: 6:00am On Sep 19, 2018 |
chris31: Your wife is somebody's mum too. Respect women my friend. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Amberon: 6:03am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Honestly, Nigerian MILs feel too entitled. They should marry their sons. 1Sharon: 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Amberon: 6:05am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Typical foolish Nigerian alpha male. lloyds: 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by freedomchild: 6:09am On Sep 19, 2018 |
As for me, I'll calm my wife down and settle the issue amicably 2 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Amberon: 6:15am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Is it your wife or mother that is the hoe? akilo1: 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Amberon: 6:16am On Sep 19, 2018 |
But your wife can receive slaps from your mother, right? Elparaiso: 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by garripack: 6:18am On Sep 19, 2018 |
MissRaine69:Dats not pretty mature... just keep quiet nd wait for d guy that married you... Den tell it all with tears all over u... If u shud retaliate it makes u a thug... Nd an unfit wife... Buh if I come back nd u gist me with a sad face nd a broken spirit.... I am very sure my mother would live the house the next morning.... no explanation... Nd I would make sure it never happens again... never nd I mean never... U no kon marry me.. na me kon marry you... So I won't allow anybody treat my soul mate in such manner... Believe me if you retaliate u must apologise to my mum very well.. in short we would have problem... cause I would never retaliate to your parents no matter wat.. Imagine Me slapping your mum or dad.. e no make sense... In conclusion I don't i can have a Wife dat would slap my mum... Nd I don't think my mum would have courage to slap my wife... I know how much I love my mum nd how much I wud love my wife to be... Buh no matter wating happen.. My wife would remain my wife nd my mum remain my mum.. Nd my mum must understand why she has to leave me with my life plan agenda... My Wife.. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Ghnaija(m): 6:20am On Sep 19, 2018 |
First of all what we should always have in mind is to avert any problem that can be solved by walking away than to do something that will bring unforgettable scar in the marriage. I think there is an adage that goes like this " the elders are always right" what we should also think is this, is that the only solution? at that moment as in slapping back. Issue wey dem suppose use a day solve make e no come be say e go come be generational fight which may pass on to great great grand children and cousins dem MissRaine69: |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by usebog: 6:23am On Sep 19, 2018 |
If my mum slapped my wife,it is non of my concern.Dem go settle am But other way round na DIE |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by henrysam(m): 6:27am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Airforce1:Why should your mum slap your wife in the first place? How would your mum have behaved if she was slapped by your dads mum? Kindly imagine too that your daughter who yiu adore well is slapped by her husband mum. How would you feel. I think the most important thing is to imagine things and look at the pros and cons before we push it out 2 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by excellgraphics(m): 6:28am On Sep 19, 2018 |
ThatKING:this one weak me sha |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by apotek: 6:30am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Airforce1: Why don't you just marry your mum then.. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by bewla(m): 6:35am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Alejod:C ur life u done take side already I bat u never married b4 u say u no no devil until u get wife u come bk come tell us the order side of d story |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Mustiboy(m): 6:40am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22:not intelligible |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by frugal(m): 6:41am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Nobody should slap anybody please. No matter the provocation, there should be no raising of hands. 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by MobilityExpress: 6:43am On Sep 19, 2018 |
ThatKING: Take it like a man and walk away. It’s just a slap, not an execution. If you slap my mother, for whatever reason even if my mother is in the wrong, I will beat the living daylights out of you. If the marriage ends, then so be it. 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Themandator: 6:45am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Airforce1: I am not sure you are married to learn first hand what marriage and wife means in practical terms . The only person who doesn't need to knock your door before entering your bedroom is your wife. That woman can send you six feet and still cry over your corpse or cadever. As for slapping , I can't imagine that scenario . My mum doesn't live with me. And she has not finished slapping her own daughters to now been on a transfer mission to iniate my wife into the acts .... That won't happen. My mum is a patient and understanding woman. Even when my wife went to her house, she never called for once to complain of anything misconduct. She wants happiness for everyone 2 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Greyworld: 6:47am On Sep 19, 2018 |
ThatKING:God bless you. I hope they receive it in good fate and say "Thank you sir" 1 Like |
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