H2Ossss:
who is slapping who again ohh

chuckling

ola12:

Missraine, thats not the way to do things, you're getting quite emotional. The ideal thing is to backoff at that moment, if the mil is a mad woman you dont need to drag yourself to her level at that point. Not saying you should tolerate nonsense like a househelp, but slapping her back in that particular moment would cause more harm than good. If you married a real man(not all these wussies claiming mama's chewinggum and protector), he should be able to handle the situation better and even get her to apologize to you and prevent reoccurence.
Your MIL didnot behave maturedly by slapping you, that does not make you any less matured and you should try to act maturedly at that point. You have no idea how much respect your man and mil would have 4 you if you just do the right thing.

And in such a hypothetical situation, so what if she was emotional? she is allowed to be emotional, she was slapped, assaulted. And What is the right thing to do? SMH. If she wants to drag herself down to the MIL level, and so what? Please.

It's quite irritating to see people try to tell a victim how to react. Keep the maturity, ideal acting and right thing to one side. If she was slapped, anyhow she reacts is ideal and is the right thing to do. It's that simple, you don't see someone get attacked and then give the person attacked, rules and guidelines on how to react. You just try your best to handle the fallout

Furthermore, the purpose of the slap is to cause harm. What else? The husband in the equation will DEFINITELY also handle the situation, get her to apologise and prevent reoccurrence, after I have slapped her back if I so wish to do so, MIL can be slapped back and can also be told to apologize. The 2 are not mutually exclusive events.
After all if MIL knows that not only will she be slapped back if she tries any nonsense but she will also be handled and told to apologize, she will think long and hard before doing any rubbish next time.

And PS,
MIL can shove her respect up her ass. The moment i get slapped, I lose all respect for MIL so therefore I also lose all interest in whether or not I have or will have her respect in future. MIL's problem will be how to get my respect back, not me caring about how to get hers. Afterall, for her to raise her hands to slap me shows she has no respect for me.

IamHeWrites:
A young lady's epic reply to a question on Twitter has made her go viral.

Igbo boy asked;
"Nah girls on a real, what would you do if your husbands mum slapped you?"

A lot of answers followed the question, but Shomi's answer stood out and has now gone viral.

She replied;


https://www.torimill.co/viral/9854/see-ladys-reply-to-what-would-you-do-if-your-husbands-mum-slapped-you.html

too many puberty age related comments here mehhnnn.... Social media i hail oooo....U will be able to tell a guy dat will never tolerate a marriage let alone leave with another woman a side the mum...And from here also u can just see all d future baby mamas and awon aunty church aladura regulars looking for who to tie down with divine spiritual love �����dat kind of love u will not know dat u are in...Because na adura run am..

HazzanTazzan:


Read again... This issue isn't abt a wife slapping her mother Inlaw... It's abt a mother slapping her daughter Inlaw

That's what I'm saying. If an elderly person slaps you, the reasonable thing to do is to walk away, especially if you have any form of relationship with the person. Any other reaction speaks of lack of self control.
If my wife's older sister, brother who is older than me should slap me, do you expect me to start fighting them? How much more her parents?. Even if they are mad, I don't have to be mad like them or aid them is abasing ourselves.

I believe under no circumstances must a woman or man raise their hands on an in law..it shouldn't even be imagined..that a woman said yes to marry a man n birth his kids doesn't mean she's lower than scum.. this treatment atimes is found where maybe girls marry into rich families n the men na mama's boy.
Any MIL that can do this has no regard or respect for her son, n automatically shows you that u made a mistake in marrying a boy..don't slap back but carry your cross..
A man's first priority is to protect n provide for his home (wife n kids)
Together with his wife they can then provide for their various in laws or parents..

She should smile and walk away na. Abi? The wife should walk away

Airforce1:
Marry this fat fool at your own peril .

The day you disrespect my mom will signal your end of days .

I will not only Unlove you , I will make sure you're seriously dealt with after which you will apologise to my mom for your misconduct.

My mom is a calm and loving woman , she no dey pass her boundary .
If she gets angry at you , thats because you've done something terribly wrong .


No man should condone a disrespectful house wife/girlfriend.

Why should your mum slap your wife in the first place? If your mum doesn't report your wife to you but decide to slap her, she deserve to be slapped back.

Airforce1:


I've got the best mom in the whole world .

She's soft hearted and caring to a fault .

Like I said in my previous comment , she no dey pass her boundary .

If any woman all in the name of love we shared disrespect my mom , I will punish her after which she will apologise .

If your mum is the best then she should report your wife to you. You should be doing the slapping not her.

Wilfredpat22:
I know a woman two compounds away from my apartment that slapped her husband mum. The husband mum called her man (The wife husband father) that one came and ordered the wife out of his son house. The son refused, broke bottles and wanted to stab the father after a very very serious shouting and argument. People separated them.the son now locked his wife in the house. Took the key and left to his friend place.

Seriously I am afraid of getting married if I don’t have my own money. I can’t and will never be a house wife. A lazy one for that matter

I've tried, in vain, to understand this.

If your mum is truly all that you just described her to be, then I don't think she ll raise her hand to slap your wife its simple. Slapping your wife no matter how vexed she felt is same as slapping you, not minding your age and status as a married man. She is expected to leave the punishment to you to dish out. Shikena

Airforce1:
Marry this fat fool at your own peril .

The day you disrespect my mom will signal your end of days .

I will not only Unlove you , I will make sure you're seriously dealt with after which you will apologise to my mom for your misconduct.

My mom is a calm and loving woman , she no dey pass her boundary .
If she gets angry at you , thats because you've done something terribly wrong .


No man should condone a disrespectful house wife/girlfriend.

The point is getting physical. At some point there may be some friction and misunderstanding. The question is, why would ur calm n soft mother attempt slapping another human being? How about reining herself in and resolving the issues with maturity? Same applies to the wife, no adult should slap or hit another adult in the name of anger because it is absolutely wrong!

Airforce1:


I've got the best mom in the whole world .

She's soft hearted and caring to a fault .

Like I said in my previous comment , she no dey pass her boundary .

If any woman all in the name of love we shared disrespect my mom , I will punish her after which she will apologise .

O oh, ask them o

ThatKING:
To those supporting their mother, No physical abuse in whatever manner is proper...


What will you do if your wife's Father slapped you??

Stupid argument.

Why would a sane mom even think of slapping her daughter in-law?

hmn naso

why should your mum slap your wife,? men eho look forward to yhat event are crazy.

hmm

ThatKING:
To those supporting their mother, No physical abuse in whatever manner is proper...


What will you do if your wife's Father slapped you??

u deserve a permanent space in heaven

Airforce1:


I've got the best mom in the whole world .

She's soft hearted and caring to a fault .

Like I said in my previous comment , she no dey pass her boundary .

If any woman all in the name of love we shared disrespect my mom , I will punish her after which she will apologise .

Oga, do you have sense?

Tamarapetty:
Mum is soo gentle


Btw why would she slap me for no reason??

there must def be a reason for the slap...

ThatKING:
To those supporting their mother, No physical abuse in whatever manner is proper...


What will you do if your wife's Father slapped you??

Walk away final Answer

crispyvick:


Abegi ask them joor.

I'll apologise for whatever I did cos I know I did wrong to deserve such same is expected for the lady

Daeylar:


And in such a hypothetical situation, so what if she was emotional? she is allowed to be emotional, she was slapped, assaulted. And What is the right thing to do? SMH. If she wants to drag herself down to the MIL level, and so what? Please.

It's quite irritating to see people try to tell a victim how to react. Keep the maturity, ideal acting and right thing to one side. If she was slapped, anyhow she reacts is ideal and is the right thing to do. It's that simple, you don't see someone get attacked and then give the person attacked, rules and guidelines on how to react. You just try your best to handle the fallout

Furthermore, the purpose of the slap is to cause harm. What else? The husband in the equation will DEFINITELY also handle the situation, get her to apologise and prevent reoccurrence, after I have slapped her back if I so wish to do so, MIL can be slapped back and can also be told to apologize. The 2 are not mutually exclusive events.
After all if MIL knows that not only will she be slapped back if she tries any nonsense but she will also be handled and told to apologize, she will think long and hard before doing any rubbish next time.

And PS,
MIL can shove her respect up her ass. The moment i get slapped, I lose all respect for MIL so therefore I also lose all interest in whether or not I have or will have her respect in future. MIL's problem will be how to get my respect back, not me caring about how to get hers. Afterall, for her to raise her hands to slap me shows she has no respect for me.

I Luv ladies who are real. at d end everybody go apologize, case go settle

folake4u:
Nigerian men love imagining the impossible too much.

what's your view to life? How can the subject matter be an impossible mission. Common shit happens.

Airforce1:
Marry this fat fool at your own peril .

The day you disrespect my mom will signal your end of days .

I will not only Unlove you , I will make sure you're seriously dealt with after which you will apologise to my mom for your misconduct.

My mom is a calm and loving woman , she no dey pass her boundary .
If she gets angry at you , thats because you've done something terribly wrong .


No man should condone a disrespectful house wife/girlfriend.

lol typical mummy’s boy, so ur mom can’t be wrong?? Well I pity the woman u will marry, u n ur mother will surely maltreat her

ThatKING:
To those supporting their mother, No physical abuse in whatever manner is proper...


What will you do if your wife's Father slapped you??

man, if u get dished by your wife's father? You definitely know the best for u is to walk away. So what's all this rant around they are talking about.

ThatKING:
To those supporting their mother, No physical abuse in whatever manner is proper...


What will you do if your wife's Father slapped you??

u simply walk away. If you think otherwise negatively, remember u will someday become a father

Airforce1:
Marry this fat fool at your own peril .

The day you disrespect my mom will signal your end of days .

I will not only Unlove you , I will make sure you're seriously dealt with after which you will apologise to my mom for your misconduct.

My mom is a calm and loving woman , she no dey pass her boundary .
If she gets angry at you , thats because you've done something terribly wrong .


No man should condone a disrespectful house wife/girlfriend.

God bless u bro,we reason the same way

If my mother in law slaps me, i will walk away, cause she is meant to be like my mum, n if my mum slaps me I don’t slap her back.. but she must leave my house

ThatKING:
To those supporting their mother, No physical abuse in whatever manner is proper...


What will you do if your wife's Father slapped you??

Did u at any stage, lift up your hands against your mum because she did wrong? Where is the wife coming from....or who is she to stand the woman who gave birth to the hubby she cherish. If she respects u, she waits for me to return to report my mum. And see what i will do. Not engage my mum in some physical combat

Shugavee:
If my mother in law slaps me, i will walk away, cause she is meant to be like my mum, n if my mum slaps me I don’t slap her back.. but she must leave my house

talk more sense to them. First reasonable quote am seeing. How many of those dude beatup their mum because she did wrong? None. So the wife has no right in retaliating. All they should do is report the woman to their husband, fold hands and allow the man take a decision on who should remain in the house.

ThatKING:
To those supporting their mother, No physical abuse in whatever manner is proper...


What will you do if your wife's Father slapped you??

what will I do than to walk away,do u expect me to return the slap?Na to just walk away cos I know if I walk away he will realize his mistake

Shugavee:
If my mother in law slaps me, i will walk away, cause she is meant to be like my mum, n if my mum slaps me I don’t slap her back.. but she must leave my house

you go make better wife oh, are you married ?