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Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by tunary(m): 6:48am On Sep 19, 2018 |
H2Ossss:chuckling |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Daeylar(f): 6:54am On Sep 19, 2018 |
ola12: And in such a hypothetical situation, so what if she was emotional? she is allowed to be emotional, she was slapped, assaulted. And What is the right thing to do? SMH. If she wants to drag herself down to the MIL level, and so what? Please. It's quite irritating to see people try to tell a victim how to react. Keep the maturity, ideal acting and right thing to one side. If she was slapped, anyhow she reacts is ideal and is the right thing to do. It's that simple, you don't see someone get attacked and then give the person attacked, rules and guidelines on how to react. You just try your best to handle the fallout Furthermore, the purpose of the slap is to cause harm. What else? The husband in the equation will DEFINITELY also handle the situation, get her to apologise and prevent reoccurrence, after I have slapped her back if I so wish to do so, MIL can be slapped back and can also be told to apologize. The 2 are not mutually exclusive events. After all if MIL knows that not only will she be slapped back if she tries any nonsense but she will also be handled and told to apologize, she will think long and hard before doing any rubbish next time. And PS, MIL can shove her respect up her ass. The moment i get slapped, I lose all respect for MIL so therefore I also lose all interest in whether or not I have or will have her respect in future. MIL's problem will be how to get my respect back, not me caring about how to get hers. Afterall, for her to raise her hands to slap me shows she has no respect for me. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Livefreeordieha(m): 6:57am On Sep 19, 2018 |
IamHeWrites:too many puberty age related comments here mehhnnn.... Social media i hail oooo....U will be able to tell a guy dat will never tolerate a marriage let alone leave with another woman a side the mum...And from here also u can just see all d future baby mamas and awon aunty church aladura regulars looking for who to tie down with divine spiritual love �����dat kind of love u will not know dat u are in...Because na adura run am.. |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by BabaCommander: 7:11am On Sep 19, 2018 |
HazzanTazzan:That's what I'm saying. If an elderly person slaps you, the reasonable thing to do is to walk away, especially if you have any form of relationship with the person. Any other reaction speaks of lack of self control. If my wife's older sister, brother who is older than me should slap me, do you expect me to start fighting them? How much more her parents?. Even if they are mad, I don't have to be mad like them or aid them is abasing ourselves. 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by missjane: 7:16am On Sep 19, 2018 |
I believe under no circumstances must a woman or man raise their hands on an in law..it shouldn't even be imagined..that a woman said yes to marry a man n birth his kids doesn't mean she's lower than scum.. this treatment atimes is found where maybe girls marry into rich families n the men na mama's boy. Any MIL that can do this has no regard or respect for her son, n automatically shows you that u made a mistake in marrying a boy..don't slap back but carry your cross.. A man's first priority is to protect n provide for his home (wife n kids) Together with his wife they can then provide for their various in laws or parents.. |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Samadict(f): 7:23am On Sep 19, 2018 |
She should smile and walk away na. Abi? The wife should walk away ![]() |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by oglalasioux(m): 7:23am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Airforce1: Why should your mum slap your wife in the first place? If your mum doesn't report your wife to you but decide to slap her, she deserve to be slapped back. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by oglalasioux(m): 7:25am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Airforce1: If your mum is the best then she should report your wife to you. You should be doing the slapping not her. |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by oglalasioux(m): 7:30am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22: I've tried, in vain, to understand this. 4 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Adadioranma79(f): 7:32am On Sep 19, 2018 |
If your mum is truly all that you just described her to be, then I don't think she ll raise her hand to slap your wife its simple. Slapping your wife no matter how vexed she felt is same as slapping you, not minding your age and status as a married man. She is expected to leave the punishment to you to dish out. Shikena Airforce1: 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by freeze001(f): 7:34am On Sep 19, 2018 |
The point is getting physical. At some point there may be some friction and misunderstanding. The question is, why would ur calm n soft mother attempt slapping another human being? How about reining herself in and resolving the issues with maturity? Same applies to the wife, no adult should slap or hit another adult in the name of anger because it is absolutely wrong! Airforce1: 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Adadioranma79(f): 7:35am On Sep 19, 2018 |
O oh, ask them o ThatKING: |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by EsteemHook(m): 7:41am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Stupid argument. Why would a sane mom even think of slapping her daughter in-law? 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Emeknightpeter: 7:43am On Sep 19, 2018 |
hmn naso |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Nobody: 7:46am On Sep 19, 2018 |
why should your mum slap your wife,? men eho look forward to yhat event are crazy. |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by donqx: 7:46am On Sep 19, 2018 |
hmm |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Nobody: 7:50am On Sep 19, 2018 |
ThatKING:u deserve a permanent space in heaven 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by cigaricon(m): 7:50am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Airforce1:Oga, do you have sense? 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by donblazer10(m): 7:54am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Tamarapetty:there must def be a reason for the slap... |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by dandollaz: 7:54am On Sep 19, 2018 |
ThatKING:Walk away final Answer |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by donblazer10(m): 7:56am On Sep 19, 2018 |
crispyvick:I'll apologise for whatever I did cos I know I did wrong to deserve such same is expected for the lady |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Nobody: 7:57am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Daeylar:I Luv ladies who are real. at d end everybody go apologize, case go settle 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 7:58am On Sep 19, 2018 |
folake4u: what's your view to life? How can the subject matter be an impossible mission. Common shit happens. |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Shugavee(f): 8:00am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Airforce1:lol typical mummy’s boy, so ur mom can’t be wrong?? Well I pity the woman u will marry, u n ur mother will surely maltreat her 1 Like |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:03am On Sep 19, 2018 |
ThatKING: man, if u get dished by your wife's father? You definitely know the best for u is to walk away. So what's all this rant around they are talking about. |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:06am On Sep 19, 2018 |
ThatKING: u simply walk away. If you think otherwise negatively, remember u will someday become a father |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by hollah123: 8:07am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Airforce1:God bless u bro,we reason the same way |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by Shugavee(f): 8:07am On Sep 19, 2018 |
If my mother in law slaps me, i will walk away, cause she is meant to be like my mum, n if my mum slaps me I don’t slap her back.. but she must leave my house 2 Likes |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:11am On Sep 19, 2018 |
ThatKING: Did u at any stage, lift up your hands against your mum because she did wrong? Where is the wife coming from....or who is she to stand the woman who gave birth to the hubby she cherish. If she respects u, she waits for me to return to report my mum. And see what i will do. Not engage my mum in some physical combat |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:14am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Shugavee: talk more sense to them. First reasonable quote am seeing. How many of those dude beatup their mum because she did wrong? None. So the wife has no right in retaliating. All they should do is report the woman to their husband, fold hands and allow the man take a decision on who should remain in the house. |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by hollah123: 8:14am On Sep 19, 2018 |
ThatKING:what will I do than to walk away,do u expect me to return the slap?Na to just walk away cos I know if I walk away he will realize his mistake |
Re: Lady's Reply To "What Would You Do If Your Husband's Mum Slapped You?" by zubinike(m): 8:15am On Sep 19, 2018 |
Shugavee: you go make better wife oh, are you married ? |
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