Jamariwolff:
Nigeria men can imagine nonsense.

Well I would sense it before marriage, smh.

zinnyzee:


i.e.... If i later change my mind about not getting married o

xendra:
chai, see you here again. I talk am say this boy no go get sense, the question is not if you have a simple mother that doesn't cross boundary, the question is if she already crossed boundary and slaps your wife.

If your own no dey cross boundary then the post is not for you.

garripack:


I am very sure you want to get a slave

I don't think you need a wife....

Oga Oh your wife no be your pikin oòo..

No be say she(wife) retaliate to my Mama ooooo

My broda use ur sense... the bible said a Man would leave is father house and cliff to his wife...

All this Nigeria guys and mum.. mum


Oga as for me very simple..

I won't ask question... I would just beg my wife to please forgive me for being incapable...

After which... with immediate effect my Mama go pack her load to her husband house...

Yess ooo na my wife husband...

Broda ain't joking with the bone of my bone..

Any asunder holyghost fire...

My Mama must call me after dat before coming to my house..
And I go get approval from my wife before she go come..

Oga my one Kobo

1Sharon:


Why don't you marry and fvck her too?

ImaIma1:


I will apologize for being slapped? That is wrong of you. You should be able to caution your mum also. Now your mum will feel free to slap your wife and even get an apology for doing it.

You also need to consider your wife's feelings. The fact that your mum is elderly does not make her above respecting others and apologizing if she is wrong.

Be careful not to breed resentment in your wife. It may take a while but she will explode one day.

anitank:


You sound so dumb and stupid.

Did you even read the question or do you lack comprehension skills?

Jamariwolff:
Nigeria men can imagine nonsense.

Well I would sense it before marriage, smh.

HazzanTazzan:


The question didn't say "if she crossed her boudaries"...
Crossing her boundaries that was said by airforce1 means that the mother wouldn't do something to warrant a disrespect from the wife which will lead to the slap...

Now listen... Whether my mum is gentle or not, my wife must have disrespected her to deserve a slap and a man isn't supposed to question his mum for that action...

I'd simply apologize to my mum without asking any questions and when I'm alone with my wife, I will ask her what happened, talk to her, correct her, calm her and make her apologize to my mum even if she doesn't feel she has done a thing to deserve the slap...

Airforce1:


I've got the best mom in the whole world .

She's soft hearted and caring to a fault .

Like I said in my previous comment , she no dey pass her boundary .

If any woman all in the name of love we shared disrespect my mom , I will punish her after which she will apologise .

LordBabs:
Emotions aside, we all have the equal right to keep our hands to ourselves (except in act of self-defence). If your mom slaps first, she already passes her boundary and should be dealt with accordingly.

HazzanTazzan:


Very senseless...

You'd send your mum out of your house cos she slapped your wife for a reason you don't know?

And your wife must have a say in whether your mum shld visit or not ? Chai

U sure say ur mama no abandon you when you were young ?

Vickygarl:
Why on earth would the woman slap her daughter-in-law? If such was done to her own daughter, would it sit well with her?? It is called physical abuse and it is wrong. She deserves whatever she gets afterwards cos they didn't send the wife to their house to be beaten.
For those men that would allow that to be done to their wives, it's better u don't marry at all and stay tied to ur mama's clothe. That kind of behaviour is unjustifiable.

tech18:

Lolszz....you have to change ooo.I don start saving your bride price

IamHeWrites:
A young lady's epic reply to a question on Twitter has made her go viral.

Igbo boy asked;
"Nah girls on a real, what would you do if your husbands mum slapped you?"

A lot of answers followed the question, but Shomi's answer stood out and has now gone viral.

She replied;


https://www.torimill.co/viral/9854/see-ladys-reply-to-what-would-you-do-if-your-husbands-mum-slapped-you.html

zinnyzee:
I pray my husband's mum never slap me for anything in this world.


But if for one reason or another she does... Well, as pikin wey get mama and wey my own mama don give me brain re-setting slaps countless times before, na to just cool down fa. It takes a lot to be a wife and mother. So after watching you for close to 1 month now and planning on how to make my move, only to see that you don't have the desire to get married



But with my level of future success and influence, my mother-in-law will definitely think twice before raising her hands to me.










i.e.... If i later change my mind about not getting married o

missjane:
Hmm..lol..well as long as it's not a habit..if not I can get my dad to return the slap to my husband..till we both start wearing helmet around our in-laws

HazzanTazzan:


Very good composition...

As I said, I will sit my wife down and ask her what happened, if from her story, she didn't do anything extreme, I will sit my mum down, talk to her and caution her...

missjane:
Hmm..lol..well as long as it's not a habit..if not I can get my dad to return the slap to my husband..till we both start wearing helmet around our in-laws

ola12:
Depends on a 1st strike or subsequent strike basis.
1st strike, my mom slaps my wife for the first time-Instant family meeting between 3 of us when I come back, words would fly and a consensus would be made. The person at fault would be cautioned and apology tendered to the other person. Shikena

Subsequent strike - Haba, doesnt matter if my wife was at fault or not, my mum cant just go slapping my wife like that (ps. I love my mom more than most things, but still). If she is living in my house with us, new apartment straight, cant tolerate anybody who would give me issues with my wife (this is a woman I would spend possibly next 50yrs with).
Too many people on this thread getting emotional for no reason, besides its just a hypothetical question.


Now if my wife slap my mum back, that wan go hard, cos I go definitely get issues with my wife for not handling it the right way. The right way is to backoff right there and then report to me, and she should definitely trust me to handle the situation properly

Airforce1:
Marry this fat fool at your own peril .

The day you disrespect my mom will signal your end of days .

I will not only Unlove you , I will make sure you're seriously dealt with after which you will apologise to my mom for your misconduct.

My mom is a calm and loving woman , she no dey pass her boundary .
If she gets angry at you , thats because you've done something terribly wrong .


No man should condone a disrespectful house wife/girlfriend.

Jamariwolff:
Nigeria men can imagine nonsense.

Well I would sense it before marriage, smh.

Themandator:




I am not sure you are married to learn first hand what marriage and wife means in practical terms . The only person who doesn't need to knock your door before entering your bedroom is your wife. That woman can send you six feet and still cry over your corpse or cadever.


oga!!! Why nah...its an imaginary question. With the word "If". All this long comprehension no matter. If it happens what will you do? Simple answer shows who u are and not all this lectures that one wont learn anything from


As for slapping , I can't imagine that scenario . My mum doesn't live with me. And she has not finished slapping her own daughters to now been on a transfer mission to iniate my wife into the acts .... That won't happen.

My mum is a patient and understanding woman. Even when my wife went to her house, she never called for once to complain of anything misconduct. She wants happiness for everyone

Themandator:




I am not sure you are married to learn first hand what marriage and wife means in practical terms . The only person who doesn't need to knock your door before entering your bedroom is your wife. That woman can send you six feet and still cry over your corpse or cadever.





As for slapping , I can't imagine that scenario . My mum doesn't live with me. And she has not finished slapping her own daughters to now been on a transfer mission to iniate my wife into the acts .... That won't happen.

My mum is a patient and understanding woman. Even when my wife went to her house, she never called for once to complain of anything misconduct. She wants happiness for everyone

Greyworld:

God bless you. I hope they receive it in good fate and say "Thank you sir"

Adadioranma79:
If your mum is truly all that you just described her to be, then I don't think she ll raise her hand to slap your wife its simple. Slapping your wife no matter how vexed she felt is same as slapping you, not minding your age and status as a married man. She is expected to leave the punishment to you to dish out. Shikena

HazzanTazzan:


Very senseless...

You'd send your mum out of your house cos she slapped your wife for a reason you don't know?

And your wife must have a say in whether your mum shld visit or not ? Chai

U sure say ur mama no abandon you when you were young ?