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Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Nobody: 11:10am On Sep 20, 2018 |
I'm a of dude of about 28 years, I just finished my NYSC program and I secured a job that pays me about 50k, my girlfriend who is about 25 years too just acquired a job that pays her about 60k per month too. Is it advisable I go for M.Sc. program or just settle down for marriage with my girlfriend and then follow my career later. We both stay at Ibadan, the city is averagely okay. What's your take ? 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Hopebringer: 11:13am On Sep 20, 2018 |
Go for a career so you can get a better job and save up .. this will also give you time to mature I advise men to get married from age 30 years minimum, that way you are more matured and less likely to act like a brat in marriage 117 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Omoekun931(m): 11:14am On Sep 20, 2018 |
Baba settle down jare. Master degree can come later 51 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Genesiszero: 11:16am On Sep 20, 2018 |
I'll advise you get married first, since you and your girlfriend have acquired to this extent, the good pay job and you're all living normally, I think you'll need to get married and then continue your masters career program....... It's not a crime to run masters after getting married..... I need babies, we need babies, I wanna see your wedding pics, no time to waste...... 76 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Nobody: 11:19am On Sep 20, 2018 |
Hopebringer:Thank You. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Nobody: 11:19am On Sep 20, 2018 |
Omoekun931:alright 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Nobody: 11:20am On Sep 20, 2018 |
Genesiszero:You will see them soon... thanks for the advice! 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Nobody: 11:28am On Sep 20, 2018 |
Lalasticlala Rocktation seun farano, pls help me move this to the front page. |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by ivolt: 12:42pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
It depends. Will an M.SC degree guarantee you a better career prospect or is it a requirement for career advancement in your field? If yes, go for it. If no, work towards getting a better job and delay your marriage till you are 30 or plus years old. 25 Likes |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by BruncleZuma: 12:43pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
A wise man once said some people get married to check off their bucket list... 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Balistic4: 12:43pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
She is already earning more than you and you want to settle down, many will tell you that it is no big deal, but just watch out as time teaches you lesson of all times. Very few ladies are worth the risk and I might bet my right stuff that she might not be among that few. by the way, why are there so many uncertainties in you statement? 37 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Dorcas212(f): 12:43pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
lol 50k job and you want to get married?? Combination of 110k are you kidding me? As a single i spend more than that in a month. How will you raise children? Depend on relatives? My brother think very well 41 Likes |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Rrankdonga(m): 12:44pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
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Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Nobody: 12:44pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
50k? and you want to rush into marriage its not even about the money from your comments your not even settled down yet pause marriage for now 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by JailBreaker(m): 12:44pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
hmm |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by McBrooklyn(m): 12:44pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Guy in my honest opinion, you can do both if you want to get married so bad... 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Kingjames(m): 12:45pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by agrovick(m): 12:45pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
A variety of options, 1) Go for career, who marriage help? 2) Get married, and get your masters but delay on the kids yet cos when kids come in, your life practically ends 26 Likes |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by wunmi590(m): 12:45pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
On my own little contribution, i would advice that you still hold on with both your marriage and MS.c for now, so that you can make more money. If you start your MS.c, you will still need money, so don't rush on MS.c now, or else you have somebody who wants to sponsor you, and beside, even with MS.c somebody still has to pray for God's favor to get job. I had my introduction 1st of this month, and preparing my wedding very soon, and i am earning 6 figures, but i am still not content, because of the high cost of Lagos. If you can get a better job with a better pay, you can go ahead with your plan, but with that 50k, bros, please be patience. 17 Likes |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by DoTheNeedful: 12:46pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
@op, I am not bothered about your salary as I believe a man doesn't need to earn 400k before he settles down as some teenagers here will make you believe. However, I am bothered that you want to settle with that amount at your age when you can still improve your finances and career. 16 Likes |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Nobody: 12:46pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
*sigh* If you guys really love each other, you should marry lowkey in court and end matters there. Do a quick projection into the future, say 3-5 years. Where do you want to be? Only you can answer that question. Truth is, even if this thread enters page 20, a bunch of strangers cannot influence and/or determine your own future. Only you can. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by emmabest2000(m): 12:46pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Kid Marriage is not about 50k / 60k salaries It’s all about maturity Be careful to avoid the story that touches 19 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Yewandequeen(f): 12:46pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Get married now that u know she is still urs then carreer afterwards. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Nobody: 12:46pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
instead go for Presidency in 2019. We're done with that lifeless duck 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by honestivo(m): 12:46pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Brotherly I will suggest you settled down 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by BedLam: 12:46pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Hmmm...A wise man once said nothing at all 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by babadee1(m): 12:47pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
thegentleman: Can you do both? Because one might not wait for the other. If you go for one out of the two you may lose the other one. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Florblu(f): 12:48pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Ask yourself the following questions: 1) Do you have enough fund to start and complete your Masters degree? 2) Is your babe ready to share costs and expenses with you equally? 3) Are you secure enough to watch your "wife" take more responsibilities at home(financially) than you do? Let me stop here. 15 Likes |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by Newboss(m): 12:48pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Guy, find your foot in life first. 50k and you just finished NYSC? And you dey think of a contract that has 99% chances of ruining your life? They use woman swear for you? 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by CriticMaestro: 12:48pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
Have u even proposed to the girl? How sure are u she will marry u? 13 Likes |
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