Oyindidi:
Which kind mumu list be this?

lefulefu:
Applicable in middle class? As in the child of a medical doctor or dat of a lecturer. Hope u know they belong to the middle class group as well. Most families that always hammer on their dauther to hook up a rich man is mostly frm the very poor families.they need a rich man to upgrade and escape the extreme poverty.

gloria34:
can u allow ur sister or future daughter marry a guy who is still under his parents?

lefulefu:
how many men have u seen living under their parents roof disturb ladies with marriage?

gloria34:
some impregnate girls and expect them to move into the home of their parents. I blame both parties tho

lefulefu:
except if the parents are well off such does happen. The parents could allow dem reside in the boysquaters before he furnishes a flat for them.mind u though these are with well off parents. But a very poor family living in face -me-i-face-u...if such a son from such a family who is jobless impregnates a girl in most cases the guy will run cos he no go fit carry load.thats why u see such ladies dropping kids in toilet and gutter.a guy dat knows he's not financially capable for d time being will never propose to a lady.

PrimadonnaO:
Call it whatever. But I won't marry a man who falls into any of those categories.

gloria34:
I have seen a case of a boy living with his parents in a 2 bedroom flat, 3 siblings, still impregnate girl come d house. his parents had no choice cos d girl's parents drove her out. she turn automatic house girl there. her parents couldn't bear it and had to call her back before her delivery. just imagine that d parents weren't considerate?

Rubbiish:

What if he is rich & living in his parent's house?

lefulefu:
na wao simple condom could have prevented dat wahala. So d guy wey give d girl belle is unemployed?

gloria34:
yep, a student with no means of extra cash. sometimes, when a person says I can't date someone who is broke, they have their reasons, its not just about being a gold digger. a girl might b working, having an affair with a guy who just graduated or maybe serving, still loves and respect him while some girls just can't do it. it doesn't mean they are gold diggers as guys like to term it

boiz2men:
1. Don't marry a lady who isn't semi independent
2. Don't marry a lady that stays alone
3. Don't marry a lady who can't offset her OWN bills.
4. Don't marry a lady that depends on a guy..

So we even

Broke ladies should marry broke guys

Independent guys should settle for semi independent

As for independent ladies...

gloria34:
funny, what's wrong with independent ladies?

boiz2men:


You talking about yourself.

I'm sorry the guy did what he did to

gloria34:
can u allow ur sister or future daughter marry a guy who is still under his parents?

boiz2men:


They tend to become too bossy. Almost all become feminist. No man wants another captain in his wife.

gloria34:
na u know. I just believe every 1 have their reasons 4 doing certain things. maybe past experience or lessons learnt from others

CAPSLOCKED:


NO.
SAME WAY I CAN'T "ALLOW" MY BROTHER OR SON MARRY A GIRL WHO IS STILL "UNDER HER PARENTS"

boiz2men:

Denying it doesn't take it away...
Your son is your treasure. Treat him right

gloria34:
yep, a student with no means of extra cash. sometimes, when a person says I can't date someone who is broke, they have their reasons, its not just about being a gold digger. a girl might b working, having an affair with a guy who just graduated or maybe serving, still loves and respect him while some girls just can't do it. it doesn't mean they are gold diggers as guys like to term it

gloria34:
shuo! where should d girl be?

boiz2men:


You talking about yourself.

I'm sorry the guy did what he did to

CAPSLOCKED:


THE GIRL SHOULD BE ON THE STREETS LIKE HER FELLOW ADULTS WORKING TOWARDS BEING INDEPENDENT.

lefulefu:
a working class lady dating a student or corper dude?..lol, how would she be able with such a guy cos such a dude would be obviously very young and living with his parents. Except maybe the guy is a matured student and probably has a job ..if not i dont see what a matured lady who's working would be looking for in a student.

lefulefu:
tough question