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Re: Why Do Men These Days Shy Away From ......... by nahzyla: 8:00am On Sep 25, 2018
Eketem:
Because women are adults with hands, foot and a brain who should also provide for themselves.

If there is no man will a woman starve to death? Why the need to rely on a man for needs to be met?

The only group of people to be provided for are children who are to young to work and older people who are too weak.

A grown woman will make herself so helpless begging for food, ice cream and recharge card. If she doesn't have a boyfriend she will beg from random men, if she has a husband who looses his job she will turn beggar online. If she becomes a widow she will be sleeping with men to eat. All these because she has been told somewhere that it is a man's job to feed a grown woman. This is why they will spend all their lives trying to trap a man with pregnancy juju etc instead of working hard to make their own money

Everybody else should provide for themselves. Same way men should cook and clean after themselves. Money doesn't come with a pen-is

Why did you focus your attack on women as if you don't know how things work in Nigeria. Women are raised to believe God ordained them as the ones to submit and obey while the husband provides.
All religions teach this so it isnt their fault for thinking like that.

Or are you atheist?
Re: Why Do Men These Days Shy Away From ......... by Eketem: 9:27am On Sep 25, 2018
nahzyla:


Why did you focus your attack on women as if you don't know how things work in Nigeria. Women are raised to believe God ordained them as the ones to submit and obey while the husband provides.
All religions teach this so it isnt their fault for thinking like that.

Or are you atheist?

Which of what I wrote is an attack? A woman is an adult and should be trained to take care of herself, the fact that women have been trained to be depending on men like their brains are handicapped in money making doesn’t make it right.

I like how both Nigerian women and men cling to Bible verses when it comes to issues that feed their biases.

Anyway I believe in full equality for both men and women and would certainly not contribute to raising daughters who think their role on earth is to cook and clean and be submissive. They are human beings with functional minds who can do anything and everything including feeding themselves.


The Bible was written 2000 years ago the reality was different then
Re: Why Do Men These Days Shy Away From ......... by nahzyla: 9:50am On Sep 25, 2018
Eketem:


Which of what I wrote is an attack? A woman is an adult and should be trained to take care of herself, the fact that women have been trained to be depending on men like their brains are handicapped in money making doesn’t make it right.

I like how both Nigerian women and men cling to Bible verses when it comes to issues that feed their biases.

Anyway I believe in full equality for both men and women and would certainly not contribute to raising daughters who think their role on earth is to cook and clean and be submissive. They are human beings with functional minds who can do anything and everything including feeding themselves.


The Bible was written 2000 years ago the reality was different then

Ok so youre an atheist.
Re: Why Do Men These Days Shy Away From ......... by Eketem: 10:26am On Sep 25, 2018
nahzyla:


Ok so youre an atheist.

No I am a Christian and no where in the Bible was it stated that men must provide and women must cook and clean.

Where it has been interpreted to mean this was when the Adam and Eve were cursed and thrown out but Christ came and redeemed us from every curse including the curse of division and inequality there fore as said in Galatians we are all equal in Christ.


Ephesians 5:21 actually says we should submit to one another how that first verse is ignored is beyond me :

Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

Galatians 3:28 ESV / 1,125 helpful votes Helpful Not Helpful
There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.



Galatians 3:13

New Living Translation
But Christ has rescued us from the curse pronounced by the law. When he was hung on the cross, he took upon himself the curse for our wrongdoing. For it is written in the Scriptures, "Cursed is everyone who is hung on a tree."
Re: Why Do Men These Days Shy Away From ......... by nahzyla: 10:31am On Sep 25, 2018
Eketem:


No I am a Christian and no where in the Bible was it stated that men must provide and women must cook and clean.

Where it has been interpreted to mean this was when the Adam and Eve were cursed and thrown out but Christ came and redeemed us from every curse including the curse of division and inequality there fore as said in Galatians we are all equal in Christ.


Galatians 3:28 ESV / 1,125 helpful votes Helpful Not Helpful
There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.



Galatians 3:13

New Living Translation
But Christ has rescued us from the curse pronounced by the law. When he was hung on the cross, he took upon himself the curse for our wrongdoing. For it is written in the Scriptures, "Cursed is everyone who is hung on a tree."

lol

your views are certainly not mainstream.

Thanks for all your contribution. I get your points.

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Re: Why Do Men These Days Shy Away From ......... by Eketem: 10:32am On Sep 25, 2018
nahzyla:


lol

your views are certainly not mainstream.

Thanks for all your contribution. I get your points.

People do not bother studying the Bible by themselves and only swallow what others interpret for them
Re: Why Do Men These Days Shy Away From ......... by divinelove(m): 3:58pm On Sep 25, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
A man can only struggle and provide for his wife if he wifed her as a Virgin. What is the use going from pillar to post because of one 27 or 32 year old woman that has slept with countless (54) men

But when he knows he married a rare gem even if she has character of a devil. That is better because for her to stay pure shows she is trustworthy and such a man knows if he leaves her for 8 years he will meet her same way.

No man wants to sweat in vain because of a Bore hole he ‘Mistakely’ married because of society

Jeez so virginity is all that matters smh

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