chloride6:
Very right?

A lot of folks in Europe and the US are not not married and are doing fine.

Simplep:
As for me,its nt a bad idea,infact any man I'm to get married to,we will stay togeda for at least 3months,lets see hw we handle and tolerate each other before going to d big institution
Btw,I'm only talking abt people who are ready for marriage ,not teens please

odinga1of:


Everyone shouting "Wrong" so who are those lodging girls in school and my neighborhood??

Naija girls and hypocrisy

Smartini:
I don't know why people co-habit before marriage. I feel its a mixture of impatience, greed and quite disgusting (in my opinion)


Every single man deserves to enjoy his life as a bachelor to the fullest; If a lady wishes to visit, let her COME AND GO.

Brightgem:
NO

Twoclans:
Its a capital NO for me,not because I am morally upright but because I love my space

Cocao:
Depends on a whole lot of factors. A lot could go wrong with choosing to cohabit before getting married. On the flip side, you should'nt marry someone you have not spent sometime with.

How does the man behave? This question is important because most men will definitely see you finish if you stay with them for a long time with no serious commitment. To avoid this, get a commitment. However, be advised not to be caught with that kind of man because marriage is looooonnnnggg.

How does the woman behave? Are you the we don catch am crew? If because you stay with a man, you think and act like you already have the ring, your case is longgggggg.

What are the circumstances? Are you with a man/woman because you dont have money to stay on your own? Get a job. Don't let anyone throw you out in the middle of the night.

Cohabiting is best done between MATURE men and women that are independent emotionally and financially. In this case, you will be verryyyyy happyyy.

Brightgem:
That's how ladies get tagged hoes! And when it dn't work out? You cohabit with the next 3men again before finally getting married. Let me tell you, heard of the serial killer who was married many years, yet was killing women around his town and the towns people found it hard to believe his wife of many years didn't know. My point, some behavior can still be hiden and many with keen observation can still be detected without living together. Why cohabit? Even the word sounds ugly and wrong.

jauntty:
Port Harcourt is the center of Co-habitation.

Most of these slay mama can't afford any accommodation.

Just be a Bachelor with a small room, food and TV

Then Bam!! PH girls will start hassling to come visit you.

To comot na wahala

From there Co-habitation have started by force

I cover my house with the blood!

jauntty:
Port Harcourt is the center of Co-habitation.

Most of these slay mama can't afford any accommodation.

Just be a Bachelor with a small room, food and TV

Then Bam!! PH girls will start hassling to come visit you.

To comot na wahala

From there Co-habitation have started by force

I cover my house with the blood!

Impregnable101:
As for me, i don't entertain it. U can not come spoil my bachelorhood for me

Man gats wipe many girls before marriage

Simplep:
Ur opinion,,,and does cohabiting means sex to u?,u don't hav a point,so get off my mentions,i know of a lady,she married a virgin and she stayed with her hubby for 6months bfore dey got married,nt all men are sex starved,cohabiting with ur man is necessary especially when u are really matured(25 upwards) like i said bfore,nt for babies...dats my opinion, so deal with urs

Simplep:
Ur opinion,,,and does cohabiting means sex to u?,u don't hav a point,so get off my mentions,i know of a lady,she married a virgin and she stayed with her hubby for 6months bfore dey got married,nt all men are sex starved,cohabiting with ur man is necessary especially when u are really matured(25 upwards) like i said bfore,nt for babies...dats my opinion, so deal with urs

MrBigiman:


There I always exceptions. That virgin that cohabited was an exception. But the norm is free bleep. All the gals I cohabited with were well bleeped, also those my guys stayed with. I am not proud of it now, but I stand with truth.

cover9ja:
Cohabiting is simply “living together with”. So, should unmarried folks live together?

Generally, married people live together, except for some rare exceptions of course. However, people seem to be divided in opinions when it comes to the question of whether or not couples that are not legally married should live together, for varying reasons.

It has become common to see young people who are engaged or merely dating cohabiting, and this seems either awkward or straight out wrong to certain people. For these people it either crosses their conservative boundaries or it runs against their logic.

According to Halima: “People who aren’t married yet shouldn’t be staying together. Cohabitation is for married people because they are more equipped to deal with the consequences, not unmarried couples.”

She also argued that people who aren’t married yet should create certain spaces for themselves to make the relationship more solid. Moreover, she added, if they get married they will have a whole lifetime to live together. So why the rush?

In agreeing with Halima, Blessing, a hairdresser said that a girl staying with her boyfriend or any partner she’s not legally married to only makes her a mere possession of her boyfriend and that locks her away from other potential relationships with the right people. According to her, young people should have the space and freedom to explore for themselves and living with a partner robs them of that.

However, Peter disagreed strongly. He argued that people who are hoping to get married could live together in preparation for their marriage. He insisted that living together builds a tighter bond between the couple and that they also learn more about themselves. He said too that living together will give them a glimpse of what being married to each other would be like, and with that they can decide whether or not they are willing to tie the knot in the long run. Moreover, he added, living together saves the cost of rent.

So, here’s a question for the readers: Is it appropriate for unmarried couples to live together?

Source: https://cover9ja.com/on-cohabiting-right-or-wrong/

viccgm:
Ask ur ancestors.

Brightgem:
haaahaha! Cohabiting doesn't mean sex! Standing ovation for you! I can see your wisdom. Even from the way you type, your maturity is way up there, I can't even begin to compete.

Simplep:
As for me,its nt a bad idea,infact any man I'm to get married to,we will stay togeda for at least 3months,lets see hw we handle and tolerate each other before going to d big institution
Btw,I'm only talking abt people who are ready for marriage ,not teens please

Brightgem:
so u are not morally upright? And if u love your space how will u now still marry later and share the space?

cover9ja:
Cohabiting is simply “living together with”. So, should unmarried folks live together?

Generally, married people live together, except for some rare exceptions of course. However, people seem to be divided in opinions when it comes to the question of whether or not couples that are not legally married should live together, for varying reasons.

It has become common to see young people who are engaged or merely dating cohabiting, and this seems either awkward or straight out wrong to certain people. For these people it either crosses their conservative boundaries or it runs against their logic.

According to Halima: “People who aren’t married yet shouldn’t be staying together. Cohabitation is for married people because they are more equipped to deal with the consequences, not unmarried couples.”

She also argued that people who aren’t married yet should create certain spaces for themselves to make the relationship more solid. Moreover, she added, if they get married they will have a whole lifetime to live together. So why the rush?

In agreeing with Halima, Blessing, a hairdresser said that a girl staying with her boyfriend or any partner she’s not legally married to only makes her a mere possession of her boyfriend and that locks her away from other potential relationships with the right people. According to her, young people should have the space and freedom to explore for themselves and living with a partner robs them of that.

However, Peter disagreed strongly. He argued that people who are hoping to get married could live together in preparation for their marriage. He insisted that living together builds a tighter bond between the couple and that they also learn more about themselves. He said too that living together will give them a glimpse of what being married to each other would be like, and with that they can decide whether or not they are willing to tie the knot in the long run. Moreover, he added, living together saves the cost of rent.

So, here’s a question for the readers: Is it appropriate for unmarried couples to live together?

Source: https://cover9ja.com/on-cohabiting-right-or-wrong/

Yaba4sure:
one who is into cohabiting with girlfriend spotted

jauntty:
Port Harcourt is the center of Co-habitation.

Most of these slay mama can't afford any accommodation.

Just be a Bachelor with a small room, food and TV

Then Bam!! PH girls will start hassling to come visit you.

To comot na wahala

From there Co-habitation have started by force

I cover my house with the blood!