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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by rampantlover: 9:13am On Sep 28, 2018 |
When you are a failure in life, things like marriage becomes an achievement to you. Do you know how many good women who have been unfortunate because they ended up with wrong men. We don't have the power to read the mind of people we enter into relationship with because someone can hide his character for long time and before you realised its too late. Will you still go ahead and marry that man just to please society and suffer in silence? If you are married just pray that your husband might be the right person and he is hiding nothing in his closet. I know so many women who have married and have deeply regretted and suffering in silence just for the sake of the children. That woman submission is very childish and totally senseless. If we have the power to read through the minds of our partners and their motives, no person will end up with the wrong person. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by MARKone(m): 9:13am On Sep 28, 2018 |
ANGELMARVE: Some of you guys the way your brain works is baffling. Why haven't you at your age become a millionaire or billionaire, with mansion everywhere or you think your age mates are not hitting it big, big time, you must be irresponsible then. Think deep before you spew out nonsense, some women above 30 might be held back because of one issue beyond their control or just a personal decision. I just tire for you people. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by goatandyam: 9:15am On Sep 28, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:how? |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:16am On Sep 28, 2018 |
blackgold2018:Same way no good man would marry an irresponsible lady so why do we still have unmarried men at 40?or should the men not also take the blame? It is not a fact good people meet bad people and vice versa + stated that in my post oga see life with a birds eye view not a one eye view. If something is wrong with the ladies something must be wrong with the gentlemen? This can stand as an opinion and a simple truth to others.You get it? 2 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by livinbygrace: 9:17am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: is it not Yahoo Yahoo men that are getting married these days?The country self is all about yahoo.Dey there dey deceive yourself. |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Dafreeguy(m): 9:19am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Anty, women have fixed time for marriage abeg..stop consoling urself 1 Like |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by ladyverere(f): 9:20am On Sep 28, 2018 |
donstan18: Grow up biko! Is marriage the main goal in this life? Nigerians with their silly mentality on this issue of marriage. Go to saner climes and see their young women achieving real goals in their lives. Many Nigerian wives are not even smiling in their so-called marriages. So what if a single lady of 35+ wants to celebrate her birthday, is it our business? Is it our money she's spending? Nonsense. People should learn to mind their business. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 9:21am On Sep 28, 2018 |
manikspears:lol so I need to get married before hving kids,?? I can hv kids anytime I want!! We all want to get married but if not,, i am one of the ladies That don’t give two hoots ,,, especially if u don’t meet ur match, the Society shouldnt force u to go for stupid men all in the name of marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:21am On Sep 28, 2018 |
livinbygrace: You are not living my life so you cannot tell me that I am deceiving myself so keep it to yourself. Also that is the problem we are talking about yahoo yahoo dey marry and no sane responsible lady would want to marry a yahoo boy because their acts are illegal and not responsible or would you advise your sister to marry one because she must marry and he has money? 1 Like |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by DaddyNimo(m): 9:22am On Sep 28, 2018 |
women like this just married so they can be called Mrs, I can bet my life she didn't marry that ugly he goat for love... she will still have a guy outside she loves who will be fvcking her daily. she's here forming advisor. 1 Like |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by omoharry(f): 9:22am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Deltatoto:and so fucking what if she is over menopause..how is that your business. Hard working men dont have time for this crap that you have dedicated your whole lives in doing.You are definately a jobless slow poke that have been rejected by so many ladies and you have become this bitter man on nairaland, that is why you are here bad mouthing women...tell me what have they done to you that you will focus all your energy in this forum lashing out at women when your mate are out there making money and preparing for a better future for themselves... Yes she is approaching Menopause, so am I and so others ladies. So, what if i get to 40 and dont get married how is that your business?..mind your business, go and get a job, work hard and look for a good woman to marry and let us be please. Stop lazying around and expecting a girl to start soaking Garri with you while you spend half of your life online doing nothing meaningful but bad mouthing women because you had had a bitter experience with them..so oga..I am not getting married nor interested in having into kids..I might adopt though if i wish..maybe later..I have nieces and nephews..all over the place..and it is a choice..deal with it. Ask most Nigerian married men and women how happy they are in their marriages..To me life goes beyond marriage and having kids but to some other, it very important..everybody with thier destiny and how they wish to live their lives..must everyone give birth? what happens to the children roaming street of Nigeria have they been properly taken care off?...Please if marriage is your sole achievement it is not for many people..so abeg mind your business and stop this menupause bla bla bla..It make you look bitter. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 9:22am On Sep 28, 2018 |
livinbygrace:that’s the reason some ladies r single, not all women want to marry fraudsters, no matter what. 7 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by sarcasticdude(m): 9:22am On Sep 28, 2018 |
ANGELMARVE: "Money is not everything,But everything needs money" |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Airforce01(m): 9:22am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Evablizin: Dis one you're firing from all cylinders over a harmless advice , seems she hit a nerve . If you're over 35yrs old, please go and marry. |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 9:24am On Sep 28, 2018 |
My goodness!!! Shame on this ugly woman, shame on her! I never get to understand the rationale of single ladies desperate to marry and settle for anything other than their dreams or full filling self realisation, emotional stability, maturity, psychological preparedness, financial stability/independence before jumping into marriage but now! It is even disgusting to know that nearly most of the demography of young Nigerian girls do not have dreams or aspirations of their own lives other than marriage; when an ungodly and ugly person as this who have lived their entire existence on the thoughts of marriage and living their lives entirely just to be called married{the height of her achievement in life} are there to shame them into depression or possibly suicidal thoughts of unworthiness! Kai Marriage is for 2 people in love committed to being together...that is never enough sef! There are other factors or realities at play only a slowpoke as this will use her dirty standard of measurements for every body. If we were to get to her bedroom we may see how her husband uses her for kick boxing sef or how he can't stand her unattractive looks and run after these ladies she's busy shaming. 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by blackgold2018(m): 9:24am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:While to b sincere with you am one of the few there's planning on to marry within 35-40.. does that make me irresponsible? No. A lady can easily reach her menopause even at that age bracket. So there's why ladies tend to marry earlier on. Ask Linda ikeji why she decided to get herself pregnant. 4 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by DaddyNimo(m): 9:24am On Sep 28, 2018 |
DaddyNimo:wonder how their pikin nose go be |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:25am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Dafreeguy: You must think that I belong to that school of thought that believe children are for marriage. When I need kids I would get one the primary aim for marriage as far as I am concerned is to get a companion which I can get even at 50.So hold it right there I can be a mother at 25 oga and still be unmarried. This is my life and I do not live on false pretences so I am not consoling myself. 8 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 9:27am On Sep 28, 2018 |
rampantlover:exactly |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by breakeven: 9:29am On Sep 28, 2018 |
post=71592046:As if marriage is a sign of responsibility. 1 Like |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:30am On Sep 28, 2018 |
blackgold2018: But you forget sir that in this time and age children are no longer a prerequisite marriage.I can get a child at 25 and still be unmarried so to me marriage is companionship whoever I marry must be worth my companionship and vice versa so I cannot get married because of children only and then forget companionshipI would rather marry at 50 and be married happy than stay with a stranger at 26 all because I must marry and have children 3 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by breakeven: 9:30am On Sep 28, 2018 |
post=71592046:As if marriage is a sign of responsibility and an achievement |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Brightgem(f): 9:33am On Sep 28, 2018 |
donstan18:Do you understand the fact somebody somewhere will read ur comment and actually feel it's time to end their life and do it? That makes you a what? A silent killer. Do you understand that there are ladies in their 30s plus who are decent, living honestly but it just happens to be their life trial that they haven't found a companion yet, especially because men who make comments like you exist? Do you understand what the tag evening newspaper is doing to women who didn't choose to be so? Do you know the concept of keep quiet if you have nothing good to say? You are just a waste of air and space meant for other human beings. Ladies stay strong and true to ur selves o. Love is ageless, u can always find who is true. Please don't settle. 8 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Deltatoto: 9:34am On Sep 28, 2018 |
omoharry:mugu u are asking me to get married my first son is older than u and u are talking about working I have worked so hard that I can decide to fold my hands and legs for d rest of my life and I’ll be feeding Fat I’m a Honourable member in delta state so no worry.finally try and get married your family must be ashamed of u now. |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:34am On Sep 28, 2018 |
patjane: Thank you I do not reply all mentions but some people need to have broad minds so that we can exchange good opinions. |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Etuagievin(m): 9:35am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Shame on you if you celebrate birthday at all. |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by coldFLARES1(m): 9:36am On Sep 28, 2018 |
[quote author=Wilfredpat22 You are merely spending millions on wedding list for a woman that got disvirgined with a plate of 2 small onion chicken indomie and a boiled egg [/quote] Ah!!! Auntie pulease take it jeje with this kain harsh reality talk na. God is watching o |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by adedayoa2(f): 9:36am On Sep 28, 2018 |
blackgold2018:you sound like you've been classified boring. |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by djon78(m): 9:37am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Story story story You marry when you are ready. You have kids when you are ready. When you are well prepared to give them the best. So this topic is trash. Don't let anybody coerce you into marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 9:39am On Sep 28, 2018 |
HeyCorleone:...oga, everybody sane want to live their best life and be happy at it! Holding balloon to take pictures or doing a cake smash or getting male strippers to grind on herself while dancing...may not be appropriate to you but to that person it's what they know to do at having fun...uncle it has nothing to do with being married or not! 3 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by chris31(m): 9:39am On Sep 28, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:It's had time we stop deceiving ourselves We both no that a woman's life is like a flower Women mature early than men & also fade early than men also At 31 a mans life is even kicks starting while woman at the same age starts fading out 1 Like |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Evince(m): 9:39am On Sep 28, 2018 |
we need recallibrate this girl's head. its obvious that she lack sense . is marriage an achievement ? why didnt all the apostles and jesus marry , is giving to birth an achievement? it is all a personal choice. ppl at the age of 80 still celebrate life whether married or not. better go get sense. 2 Likes |
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