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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by ladyverere(f): 9:39am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Marriage is not and never will be an achievement. Yes, it is good to marry but that a lady is 35 and above and still unmarried does not reduce her. Its her life let her live it the way she deem fit. How is it anyone's business? Besides most single ladies are still single because they wasted years dating one mofo who may or may not be responsible. After all you can't force a man to propose and mean it. So make una leave single ladies. Those of us wey don marry, is the marriage an achievement for us? Are we not still out there pursuing one dream or the other? So we shouldn't look down on our single sisters. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by adedayoa2(f): 9:40am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Airforce01:No!!! she won't marry because she's 35 or over. She'll marry because she found her soul mate, that's very important. 1 Like |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by lordlugards: 9:40am On Sep 28, 2018 |
ladyverere:[quote Shugavee: BlaqCoffee109:author=donstan18 post=71592641]Shot fired!! What a bitter truth! After bashing her, you all will still log out and face reality of what she said Look at them, a lot of them up there wishing and saying she isn't happy with her family, all because she said the truth, all because the truth is bitter. Even without being told, an evening newspaper lady should know that she has no right to celebrate birthday because she has been biologically expired, psychological traumatized, sexually useless, maritally screwed and aboki-cally suyalized. A single lady still celebrating birthdays, going to wedding parties and still doing boyfriend/boo at 30+, is a disgrace and a big shame. Sensible evening newspapers will do nothing to end their predicament but............ [/quote]these guy is actually 18 and his comment makes more sense than u all. |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by DaddyNimo(m): 9:41am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Deltatoto:you're an honorable?? you're actually a disgrace. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Trendirabingi: 9:42am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:wit all d multitude of responsible guys around , its only yahoo yahoo guys an olosho n club girl sees, wat is the rigmaroling n flimsy excuses, hiding in gender truancy all about.?. Wen d truth face u ladies on d eyes like this , u begin to blab bull crap...na yahoo yahoo boys na im hold una no marry.,,..crappy excuses n totless defences.. 2 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by ladyverere(f): 9:43am On Sep 28, 2018 |
lordlugards: It made sense to you because you are still just a kid like him. 2 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by miib: 9:44am On Sep 28, 2018 |
ANGELMARVE: Chai!! Small pikin dey worry you! Is it only slaying ladies or ladies that club are unmarried at 35? Stop generalizing. Can u beat your chest that those your friends that married during your ND days are happily married as u postulated it?? Is it not better be unmarried at 35 than to be married to a devil at 25? 11 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 9:45am On Sep 28, 2018 |
donstan18:Heeeyyyy!!!
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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 9:46am On Sep 28, 2018 |
lordlugards:oh get lost...and you just assumed I must be single or I am above 35...that my friend is a re.tarded way of thinking. I just spoke against a societal anomaly and you just classified your assumptions on stupidity. 1 Like |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by myettiallah: 9:47am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Deltatoto:Loolzzzz!!! Jesu 1 Like |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Cocao(f): 9:47am On Sep 28, 2018 |
This one don't have sense obviously ANGELMARVE: 1 Like |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by blackgold2018(m): 9:48am On Sep 28, 2018 |
adedayoa2:Let me assume is your style of defending the above mentioned ladies the op was talking about. She was harsh n bias though but she's kind of right. |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by tintingz(m): 9:48am On Sep 28, 2018 |
donstan18:This is crap. So because a lady is above 35 and single, she's useless? Tell me does marriage guarantee happiness? Oprah Winfrey is above 35 and not married, tell me is she useless and a big shame? 1 Like |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:48am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Counter my opinions with maturity and do not tell me bullcrap the guy I quoted started using the examples I gave as an excuse to why guys are unmarried and I gave him an example with G boys,drug dealers etc as to why ladies are unmarried.Everyone has their version of the truth. Trendirabingi: 1 Like |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by MollyBank: 9:51am On Sep 28, 2018 |
donstan18: Time to take your meds. |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 9:52am On Sep 28, 2018 |
victorian:jealousy wan kill her! |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by blackgold2018(m): 9:54am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:You are right partially but don't believe what you see on social media. That's why I used numbers as a point.. I didn't say all ladies. |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Trendirabingi: 9:56am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:u are very pained, so u wld never see d truth, responsibility of a woman does not only lie on her not being an olosho...men naturally don't like n don't get close to overtly opiniated n "out of d handle" stubborn women..they don't even take them serious... |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Dafreeguy(m): 9:56am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Being a babymama is all u cud think of? does that define a responsible life? gudluck if u decide to thread that part..dnt 4get wizkid and his babymama saga |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Isobug: 9:58am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Ladycloud: Nice question dear |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:59am On Sep 28, 2018 |
blackgold2018: Thank you for being logical or seeing it from my angle. I don't use any social media site except whatsapp unless you would want to categorize Quora and Nairaland(it is only on Nl I get news about Nigerian celebrities) as social media as well.Do have a great day. |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Immorttal: 10:00am On Sep 28, 2018 |
donstan18:i wanted to ask you wetin you drink before making this comment, its bereft of reasoning. people are happy without marriage, disentangle yourself from African way of reasoning, be more openminded. thanks 1 Like |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by trustworthy1(f): 10:02am On Sep 28, 2018 |
[/b] ANGELMARVE: [b]The truth they say is very bitter. she is completely saying the truth. How can a responsible Lady not get married before the age of 35? If she is not married before her 35th birthday, then her responsibility comes into question. It's either there is something from her pursuing men away or her case has gone spiritual. You cannot tell me it's her career because as career minded as Beyonce and chimamanda are, "They are both happily married with kids" That is because their various husbands find them responsible with good woman characters. So as a Lady that is unmarried after 35, You seriously need to check your life and repair those traits that have drove men away. I know popular women defenders like cococandy and Dominique will come to defend their nairaland unmarried females as usual but the truth is that both coco and Dominique are married, So the unmarried 35+ ladies need not to be deceived by their defensive words, You better go check up your life, go get married and have kids. There is nothing more beautiful than seeing your Daughter or son calling you mommy, Mommy, mommy and your husband at your bed side every night. The truth is ANGELMARVE: [b]The truth they say is very bitter. she is completely saying the truth. How can a responsible Lady not get married before the age of 35? If she is not married before her 35th birthday, then her responsibility comes into question. It's either there is something from her pursuing men away or her case has gone spiritual. You cannot tell me it's her career because as career minded as Beyonce and chimamanda are, "They are both happily married with kids" That is because their various husbands find them responsible with good woman characters. So as a Lady that is unmarried after 35, You seriously need to check your life and repair those traits that have drove men away. I know popular women defenders like cococandy and Dominique will come to defend their nairaland unmarried females as usual but the truth is that both coco and Dominique are married, So the unmarried 35+ ladies need not to be deceived by their defensive words, You better go check up your life, go get married and have kids. There is nothing more beautiful than seeing your Daughter or son calling you mommy, Mommy, mommy and your husband at your bed side every night. The truth is [/b] ANGELMARVE:The truth is "LIVE AND LET LIVE". Married ones please don't insult the unmarried ones. likewise unmarried ones don't insult the married ones. No one knows tomorrow. You felt that the unmarried one's made mistake or their character made them not to be married. What of those married ladies that made mistake? Everyone has challenges both married and unmarried. What of those unmarried ladies with good character, but are not lucky enough to see someone that they felt suits them? let me tell you this real life story there is this woman of blessed memory who married on time (18 or 20 years), after so many years of marriage no issue. She brought d idea of adopting a baby, but d husband refused that it is against their traditions . I don't want to talk about the sufferings and torture this woman went through all in the name of marriage. It was later found out that this man was impotent. This man asked the woman to go outside and get pregnant but d woman refused. This man later married another wife he picked from beer parlor because he goes their often and that was when d main problem started. The second wife called d first wife all sorts of name including barren woman etc. The second wife being a kind of wayward person did not mind going outside to get pregnant. The first wife later died. Story 2: there is this woman 50+ unmarried, by mere looking at her, you will know she is unhappy. She always wears a sad look and she has a nasty character. Sometimes when one greets her, she doesn't respond. Story 3: There is this woman 40+, she is unmarried. She is always cheerful and very accommodating. Do you know what she did, she went and adopted a child and by God's grace this baby is doing well. She will be 6years this year. The summary of my whole story is everybody should live and let live. Do not judge anybody whether married or unmarried because you might not know what d person is passing through. Marriage or no marriage shouldn't define a woman's worth. Thanks 5 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by omoharry(f): 10:03am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Deltatoto:Then dedicate that time to see how you can help you community or human kind ..that is the bane of the black man..they dont think beyond their nose but only them self..this time you are suing to spill out bitterness on the internet can be use it to champion a cause that will be beneficial to young Nigerians and society..that is why the white man will continue to be better than us because we do not see beyond our nose..you life end with getting married and having children and securing a political position for yourself to steal money.. while in the western world, people that have less work to do are thinking of how life than be much better and easier for mankind to live in..You are a Honorable member of Delta state..how have you affected your community positively with the position that you have.. ? you are not honarable mr man because no Nigerian politician deserve that name honor to their name because they are the problem of the country..so why wont you have all the time to castigate women because you have all the time in you hand because there is free to take home at the end of the month.you don't deserve that name. Shame on me!!?..if you have given birth to my age mate and you can reason like this, then I appalled that an elderly man can reason like this.I expect wisdom to come with age but I can see it has eluded you.My parents are dead, soo I own nobody and society any explanation.. So Mr honorable member of Delta state, instead of you to think of how Delta state can become the active booming place that it use to be because of the restiveness of the youth by seeing how meaningful development and peace can be restore back to the state so that companies can start operating there, you are here wasting your time making mockery of unmarried women and you self. I am ashamed that a mediocre like you will hold such position and display your foolishness blatantly for the world to see...Now I know why we will continue to remain backward because we have your kind in the corridors of powder .You are not honorable in any way..you are just a political hustler slinging to any scrumps that falls on you table as long as you continue to be loyal to who ever you call oga. If you are married then I feel sorry for your wife because its only a man that have no regard for women that would come here and exhibit that.I dont envy her at all.Bye Mr Dis-honorable 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by manikspears: 10:05am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Shugavee: ok,so by your standards everybody is free to have children out of wedlock with whoever they like as long as the other person meets your specs,ok.so that is part of the feminism ideal.if i may ask those feminism comes with child support from the man who impregnates you or it is just a one woman thingy? |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 10:06am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Brightgem:That guys comment is way too harsh sha.. People keep forgetting everyone faces a particular type of challenge in life & trying to make one feel less of a human being isn't the best way to go about it. 4 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:06am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Dafreeguy: Yes I would rather be a singlemother and happy with my kids walk down he aisle at 50 with a good companion. Than be a wife at 25 living in misery with a stranger. Also if I become a singlemother the children are for my benefit along with my last name and so I do not expect the man to play a part so no wizkid saga I decided to play the role alone he only donated the sperm. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Boyooosa(m): 10:06am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Even as a divorcee or widow |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by adedayoa2(f): 10:06am On Sep 28, 2018 |
blackgold2018:she's not right, we all have plans for our lives. I planned getting married age 25 but I met my fiance age 27 and he wasn't ready till I was 33. Man proposes but God disposes. There are so many things you've planned but you've not been able to achieve. Its not because you're a good or a bad person. There are some ladies who are waiting for their fiancée, some don't even want to settle down, some are tired of jumping from one relationship to another all in the name of settling down, some are tired of trying, some want a man with a particular trait. No late comer for marriage o, everybody on your own. E just be like judgement day. 2 Likes |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by djon78(m): 10:07am On Sep 28, 2018 |
omoharry: [b] |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by theewhy: 10:07am On Sep 28, 2018 |
Shey them don dey catch late comer for marriage ni?.....because what is the shame being unmarried at 35+, in which book is it written that you must get married before 35 or which law states that marriage is compulsory...biko i no understand again ooo |
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by TadM: 10:09am On Sep 28, 2018 |
donstan18:ah you be witch shall (in a funny way). See as you weak me like dodo. |
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