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I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by Beke2020: 9:18pm On Sep 27, 2018
Good morning Lively Stones,

I need your advice on my relationship. I have been dating a girl for seven years now and we both love each other to the extent that some of our families has know each other but the problem there is that I am not financially okay and I don’t want this girl to suffer because I want her to be happy and you know money is the source of happiness.

Age is not on this girl side anymore. She is almost 31 years soon. I am planning to end the relationship by telling this girl that if she see any guy that is ready to settle down and financially okay that she should marry him. I don’t want to waste her time any longer because she’s the first born of her parents , and all her younger ones are married with kids.

I am 34 years old and I can marry at anytime things better but....see more



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Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by jumpandpas(m): 9:22pm On Sep 27, 2018
"I have been dating a girl for seven years now.................. I don’t want to waste her time any longer"




When you marry and have a daughter, karma will tell you what to do.

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Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by Rubbiish(m): 9:25pm On Sep 27, 2018
Tell her your mind, instead of stringing her along...but why didnt u tell her this all these while? that u had to wait after 7 yrs?
d way it stands now u dont know when u will get married...because u dont know when money will come...but what if money comes when u are 50....

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Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by jumpandpas(m): 9:29pm On Sep 27, 2018
Rubbiish:
Tell her your mind, instead of stringing her along...but why didnt u tell her this all these while? that u had to wait after 7 yrs?
d way it stands now u dont know when u will get married...because u dont know when money will come...but what if money comes when u are 50....



The dude seems to be suffering from heavy lust. People like that are unstable in relationships.
Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by madridguy(m): 9:32pm On Sep 27, 2018
Marry her make una dey struggle together.

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Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by Nobody: 9:33pm On Sep 27, 2018
Its not going to be easy but Instead of breaking up with her directly, Call and tell her as it is.. Then u recommend she finds som1 else... My ex family was super reach 4rm the south east. i knew i was no match. I had to make her understand and call it quit because i didnt want to waste her in the name of my hussling for money
Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by id4sho(m): 9:33pm On Sep 27, 2018
That babe na evening market joor, story for the gods. she could have broken your heart if suitors were flocking around her, don't expect her to just let go easily.
My case is different ,Bae is 26 & am 28. I just secured a FG job but am breaking up with her cause of her attitude .
Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by Oreofepeters: 9:34pm On Sep 27, 2018
just tell her, she might consider it as levity.
Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by id4sho(m): 9:38pm On Sep 27, 2018
madridguy:
Marry her make una dey struggle together.
Story, u na guy Man. if she had the opportunity she could have dumped his sorry ass since. Naija babes wey no get chill.

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Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by MrLankeeee(m): 10:36pm On Sep 27, 2018
Die dey hungry you abi?

After seven years, a whole seven years of digging n pouring you want to break up with her....

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Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by VanillaIce5(f): 12:33am On Sep 28, 2018
u didn't know u were not ready when u dated her for that long abi but u know how to Bleep her for 7 years, she known u have nothing and she still stayed with u because of love
Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by Beke2020: 8:24am On Sep 28, 2018
Hmnnn
madridguy:
Marry her make una dey struggle together.
Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by Beke2020: 10:27pm On Sep 28, 2018
cool
VanillaIce5:
u didn't know u were not ready when u dated her for that long abi but u know how to Bleep her for 7 years, she known u have nothing and she still stayed with u because of love
Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by Nobody: 8:10am On Sep 29, 2018
VanillaIce5:
u didn't know u were not ready when u dated her for that long abi but u know how to Bleep her for 7 years, she known u have nothing and she still stayed with u because of love

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Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by Samuelgr8: 1:38am On Sep 30, 2018
so profound[quote author=WORDWORLD post=71624608][/quote]
Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by romenna: 6:13am On Sep 30, 2018
VanillaIce5:
u didn't know u were not ready when u dated her for that long abi but u know how to Bleep her for 7 years, she known u have nothing and she still stayed with u because of love
wat brought bleep into dis matter?
Re: I Do Not Want To Break Her Heart But I Am Not Financially Ready by Samuelgr8: 9:22am On Oct 01, 2018
dont mind him, boyz talk i call it
romenna:
wat brought bleep into dis matter?

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