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The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by KoCoKandy: 3:54pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
Is it a must to call your husband's younger siblings auntie or broda while they call you by your first name? Not even mummy/mama Bosun(my son's name) , I'm going through a dilemma and my marriage is at the verge of crashing ,I regret marrying into such family as my MIL is strongly in support of this useless culture. My husband is from the south-west. Please share your experience with in-laws from the south-west if you have any. |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by madridguy(m): 3:55pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
![]() ![]() ![]() Firstly, you don't have to regret marrying the family just believe nothing last forever. With time they will take caution and give you your maximum respect. 4 Likes |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by profmicky: 3:59pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
KoCoKandy:funny though but u should have stood against this since the very 1st day you stepped your legs into the family. 2 Likes |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by eph12(m): 4:02pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
KoCoKandy:So just to call someone auntie or broda is what want to crash your marriage? The things we see on the internet sha 6 Likes |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by Sophieah: 4:09pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
My candid advice _ Since you're married and you've been used to it before you got married, you'd have to continue what you started or discuss it your husband, he should be able to address the situation, I can't be a man and watch my wife get disrespected, nah, it'd be a lot better for the sibling to leave my house. |
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Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by samysmoothfresh: 4:10pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
eph12: my brother the thing weak me too o though it sounds absurd calling your husbands younger siblings broda and sista especially when you are older than them but na that one go con make a whole marriage (wey don even produce children) crash? Na wa o................op don tire for her husband but she no wan talk am direct na im make her talk say she regret entering the family, meaning say she regret marrying the man ![]() op don find new and better bobo ![]() #pride #ego #fvck 4 Likes
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Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by KoCoKandy: 4:15pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
madridguy: Thank you, I pray they do |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by KoCoKandy: 4:18pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
profmicky: I admit that was my mistake, I thought they'd come around with time. |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by KoCoKandy: 4:20pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
Sophieah: Thanks, mind if I pm you? |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by KoCoKandy: 4:21pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh: Smiles.. Miles from that. |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by eph12(m): 4:21pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh:I'm just shocked that it's something as simple as this is the excuse she's giving to leave the marriage. Obviously there must be other things she's not sincere about 1 Like |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by profmicky: 4:24pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
KoCoKandy:my candid advice is just focus on your marriage, aunty or mama was not included in your name at birth. |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by Sophieah: 4:25pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
KoCoKandy: Not at all |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by KoCoKandy: 4:28pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
profmicky: Neither was it included in theirs. |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by samysmoothfresh: 4:28pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
KoCoKandy: i see......... So what would you rather call then anyways................by their first name too? |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by KoCoKandy: 4:30pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
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Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by KoCoKandy: 4:30pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh: Exactly my point, yes. |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by Sophieah: 4:32pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
Op looks very familiar, like someone I met at a social function roughly 2 months ago. |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by samysmoothfresh: 4:35pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
KoCoKandy: you could sit your husband down and explain to him the situation or you can as well just call the youngest of them all by his/her first name........................he/she just might not protest personally though i wouldnt mind nor give a fvck what people call me or demand i call dem they are all bloody names............ |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by KoCoKandy: 4:39pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh: I'll do just that You've been very helpful, Gracias.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by ednut1(m): 4:46pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
When una no go shine una eyes. I am yoruba and if i marry a non yoruba she dare not call me siblings she is older than boda or aunty. By the way they have their lives and contact would be minimal . All this MIL and siblings ish self chai |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by Nobody: 4:55pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
I'm confused! So, you don't want to be called by your name? Your siblings in law don't want to be called by their names ![]() Why have a name if you don't want to be called out by your name? 1 Like |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by KoCoKandy: 4:59pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
@LivingFree, It should be done out of freewill but it got mandatory after we got married. |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by KoCoKandy: 5:00pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
ednut1: Especially the female siblings ![]() |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by mabea: 5:25pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
It's quite irritating really. I dont think you should allow it to affect your marriage seeing it's just a culture thing. |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by Caseless: 7:08pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
women are confused and really do not know what they want. This one is about to destroy her marriage because of pride. What does it cost to just simply address your husband's siblings as brother/auntie? NB: some of your mates or those you're older than are out there ready to call any man willing to marry them a god and also his siblings "grandfather/grandmother" or ancestors. |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by Caseless: 7:11pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
LivingFree:Africans have problems. |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by Ishilove: 7:16pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
What fuckery. They are the ones supposed to call you auntie, not the other way round. |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by Caseless: 7:29pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
Ishilove:what does that take away from her? 1 Like |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:52pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
Does calling then auntie and broda remove anything from you?. Truth be told,nobody forced you to start it. You were doing it to buy their hearts and feel loved by them and now you ve finally settled,so it has become a crime to address them a such. My dear,I ve never seen a family where one is forced to address the younger brother and sister in laws as Aunties and brodas.So if you want to destroy your marriage,go ahead. |
Re: The Issue Of Calling Husband's Siblings Auntie/broda by Nobody: 8:13pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
Call them by their first name. Reason why I love whites, they don't have time for pettiness. |
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