A lot of men out there dont care about courtships, relationships, matchmaking etc they approach a lady directly and propose marriage to her, yeah its weird considering we are in an modern era but some men will always be direct approachers.

I want to know how ladies handle such men, i mean how do you accept or turn them down.

What do you wanna do with this?

Islam , for instance...
There is no courtship in Islam ! If you want to have any intimacy with a woman ,then you go and marry .
Even though many Muslims today have deviated . Many Muslims now commit zina in the guise of dating or courtship.
Especially here in the southern part of the country.

It's not hard now.

If interested, you bring him back to the level of courtship.

If not, na to just waka pass.

Simply and politely tell him 'I'm not interested'.
Them nor tie your mouth

Its the best na abi you want the one that will waste your time and later Come up with a crazy excuse my ground mother cousin aunty said we don't marry from your side

folake4u:
Simply and politely tell him 'I'm not interested'.

Them nor tie your mouth

even if na footballer wey hold bar nko

ednut1:
even if na footballer wey hold bar nko

you wan shake the girl table

Premiumwriter:
you wan shake the girl table

yes o. See kanu e dey uk dem find am 18 year old babe to marry

ednut1:
yes o. See kanu e dey uk dem find am 18 year old babe to marry

nothing dey confuse naija babes like moni

ednut1:
even if na footballer wey hold bar nko

Even if oh

Flattino:
What do you wanna do with this?

Islam , for instance...
There is no courtship in Islam ! If you want to have any intimacy with a woman ,then you go and marry .
Even though many Muslims today have deviated . Many Muslims now commit zina in the guise of dating or courtship.
Especially here in the southern part of the country.

We are saying the same thing, that girl you want to marry must still give her verbal consent, whether yes or no?

Flattino:
What do you wanna do with this?

Islam , for instance...
There is no courtship in Islam ! If you want to have any intimacy with a woman ,then you go and marry .
Even though many Muslims today have deviated . Many Muslims now commit zina in the guise of dating or courtship.
Especially here in the southern part of the country.

u mean muslim guys in d south hide und r courtship to do zina? what? This is grand deception na. No wonder u see many yoba grls from d south telling u things like I'm single but I have two kids