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Why Is Life So Unfair? by shege45: 6:14am On Oct 04, 2018 |
Let me tell you guys a brief story. When i was in secondary school, i was the best student in my class. I was so good that I represented my school in any competition held. Going to university, i still had that flare. I was still very serious. I read like a mad person , but due to some factors , my gp was really bad in yr 2 and 3. Regardless of the fact that I studied hard. Other years were good but it was unfortunate i came out with a 2.2 degree. If a degrees were to be given according to your level of seriousness, I would have made a first class. However, i came out of school thinking that atleast its not like 2.2 is a bad result, It’s average. I tried looking for a job, but everywhere says minimum 2.1. I had to settle for a teaching job which i still do now. I have given up on looking for job because everyone says the same thing. 2.2 has made me believe i am no longer intelligent. People in my family, my friends , my colleagues at work all believe that i am intelligent. But my degree tells me otherwise. Now here is what saddens me. A friend of mine whom i knew i was better than academically back in school posted a picture of a car given to him by his employer. He came out with a 2.1 (p:s he got that job without knowing anyone in the company,he saw it online and applied).Everyone in the department knew how he always passed his exams. Although i am genuinely happy for him, but I am sad for myself. Do employers think that we 2.2 graduates are totally worthless? Coming out with 2.1 is a nice achievement and many people who got it worked really hard for it but many factors can make a bright student come out with 2.2. I have been teaching for three years now and I sometimes ask myself, would I continue like this? I don’t want to be like some of my colleagues who are way older than i am and still teaching. I am 25. An advice to people in universities. Do any thing you can to come out with a 2.1. Don’t let that no job thing fool you. Read , cheat or buy 2.1, but do whatever it takes to come out with it. Get it first then listen to the no job story because your story can actually change with it. As for 2.2, there is actually no job unless you have somebody somewhere. 132 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by boy16(m): 6:22am On Oct 04, 2018 |
Don't let life circumstances change your honesty... No Matter how much you study not everyone will pass. Probably God has a choosen path of success that you have not known yet. Just pray to God concerning your situation and he will guide you. Note: It might also be a spiritual problem(battle). Anyways just pray. 128 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by checkolatunji: 6:29am On Oct 04, 2018 |
Firstly, you have to understand that nothing is fare in this life that we are. Secondly, people think you are intelligent and you believe that also. Why don't you find that thing In you that will bring out the intelligence in you? Why don't you develop interest in something you love that you are not doing. Why don't you do research on something that will develop you aside what you learnt in school? Why don't you go for professional courses that will make your CV look interesting in the eyes of employers? Why don't you try something new? Work hard and use your brain then pray for luck. With all said I believe you will get there. You are not alone in this and I hope you understand that. 113 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by ehinmowo: 6:45am On Oct 04, 2018 |
shege45: Bro. Some 2:1 and first class are begging for job and can't still find. If some of us begin to open our 'can of worms' to you, you will find succour. But what I have learnt despite all is that, one should NEVER give up as long as you are still breathing. Discovered that when you give up, people and nature begin to give up on you. And it begins to show even in your physical body. When I set a target for a particular year and nothing comes up, I will only be pained for a while. Eventually, I set another one. I don't want to leave this world without knowing that I have exhausted all. Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmTPXL6C1uhb-F4bng7YCLQ 248 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by dahmie2013: 6:51am On Oct 04, 2018 |
ehinmowo:I love dis! Word! 67 Likes |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 8:06am On Oct 04, 2018 |
OP, irrespective of whether you graduated with 2.2 or 2.1,Nigerian environment treats us the same. There is no job everywhere you go in this country unless you have strong connection. I won't even advice any student to priotize grade.Go to school and develop your gifting even though it's affect your grade that is my advice to any student.One good thing about University is the community it's provide you with, it's left for you to take advantage of it.Explore the numerous option you have then when you find one you are passionate about try and commits. If you follow this formula my dear after graduation you will be an employer of Labour not the other way. 31 Likes |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by BMedia: 8:07am On Oct 04, 2018 |
Good luck. 387 Likes 46 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 8:17am On Oct 04, 2018 |
BMedia:The op is really funny he doesn't know that Nigeria does not care about your class of degree.it's all-out connection here. I graduated among the best in my department since 2015 and concluded service last year may but I'm not even bothered about job because I know the country I live. My only mistake in life is not taking advantage of my gifting in school to build my future by now I would have been an employer of Labour but I'm working on that.I regretted ever channeling too much energy trying to graduate well. 90 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Aremu01(m): 9:04am On Oct 04, 2018 |
Oga 2,2 or 2.1..... U think naija cares?.... Don't blame yourself for coming out with 22. There are many 21 out there without a job..... And asides.... Go. For your masters or something... And if you can get out of the country..... Nigeria owes you nothing.... It's left to you to decide your future 35 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by balaclava: 9:35am On Oct 04, 2018 |
Life is unfair to you because you are destined for greatness. Don't give up. Your time will come. Believe. 40 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by jonath0012(m): 10:08am On Oct 04, 2018 |
Lol... You are a very funny Op. We wey we get first class come join with Master's stil find it very difficult to get a job... we are still breathing To be candid as I type I live on 20k teaching job per month. Don't give up, Op! 107 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by kennybelle: 10:33am On Oct 04, 2018 |
Op, u still have to give thanks. Stop comparing yourself to your friends, we all CANNOT get rich at d same time. Keep an open and positive mindset, make friends, tell people u need a job (u dnt know who can b of help) , register on several job sites, NEVER stop applying (at least one will invite you for an interview) and NEVER stop praying. I WISH YOU THE VERY BEST! 18 Likes |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by kennybelle: 10:34am On Oct 04, 2018 |
Op, u still have to give thanks. Stop comparing yourself to your friends, we all CANNOT get rich at d same time. Keep an open and positive mindset, make friends, tell people u need a job (u dnt know who can b of help) , register on several job sites, NEVER stop applying (at least one will invite you for an interview) might not be as big as your dream job, but you can always start from smtin small and make big connections and NEVER stop praying. I WISH YOU THE VERY BEST! 7 Likes |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by cjeriia: 10:34am On Oct 04, 2018 |
@ 25 you are still young. If it means so much to you, go back to skool. Do a different course & make sure you come out with either a 2.1 or a 1st class. 15 Likes |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by benabbey(m): 11:11am On Oct 04, 2018 |
Funny boy. life is high way over taking is allowed. Some are even looking for the teaching job you are doing and Dont have it because they graduated with pass. If you are efico go back for your second deegre and cap it with a Phd further more you can choose to establish something to benefit other 8 Likes |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Hisduchess(f): 11:17am On Oct 04, 2018 |
shege45:my dear am gonna be very realistic with u here.I graduated with a 2.1 in one of the paramedical courses from one of the Good uni around but I can't even boast of a good permanent job much more a good paying one but some of my classmates who graduated with a 3rd class and a 2.2 are fairly doing well. not like am having a kinda self pity for myself, Mbanu! cos I believe in people having different destinies. am a strong believer of legitimate hustle, so I ll advice u to hustle hard,develop urself, take legit risks,forget self pity, learn one of these I.T professional courses that are hot cakes.put that certificate aside and man up cos the truth is that no one really cares except u decide to care for yourself. in Nigeria today going to university is just for one to be literate and nothing more.gone are those days people go to school to evade poverty simply with their certificates. u see some people with 2.1 or 1st class certificates, that is what is limiting them cos oftentimes what we have limits us, especially here in Nigeria where we have this default mentality of entitlement in every sphere of our lives. some graduates lavishing in poverty might have been rich if they are caterers, business men e.t.c cos they are naturally good cooks or a good salesperson but no oooo their certificate limited them and they are wallowing in poverty waiting for our yeye govt to give them job or a rich sugar mummy to come their way. so my dear use that ur natural intelligence gift to walk urself into success and forget that certificate grades cos the end justifies the means. bless up!!! 61 Likes |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by ednut1(m): 11:25am On Oct 04, 2018 |
My friend graduated with a 2.2 and is way richer than me dat had a 2.1 and was able to get a fairly good job. A nairalander selling roofing sheet did house warming yesterday, most of us with white collar jobs no even get land. Change ur mindset bro. another friend who is on nairaland too started with 40k job in techno ikeja( he swallowed pride) and learnt on the job, later moved to Yudala (konga now) with beta pay and grade. life no get manual 76 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Pojomojo: 11:34am On Oct 04, 2018 |
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Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by jesmond3945: 11:49am On Oct 04, 2018 |
Go and upgrade your 2.2 and your story will change. |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Martinez19(m): 11:53am On Oct 04, 2018 |
Good and do your post graduation studies and try to graduate with good grades there. |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by SeedofDavid: 12:38pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
jonath0012:all is well... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by jeff1607(m): 12:52pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
hmmmm |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by 0955eb027(m): 1:36pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
jonath0012:Hmm... I think it's best to stop complaining, and give thanks for the Little I have. You ll definitely come good. It's just a matter of time. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by FunnyDude(m): 2:30pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
Some people don't have the opportunity of going to school, here you are talking about 2.2 bullshit. For the record, I'm even regretting why I went through school and wasted FOUR years.. Bullshit Instead of going into entrepreneurship earlier and employ people like you, pay you like 100k monthly.You'll be happy right? You think 2.1 is the end of it all? If you don't have the creativity and brain you may die poor even with your salary as 2.1 holder. Bullshit graduate I graduated with a 2.2, but my colleagues with 2.1 are not better than me. Why? I developed myself to be a better person. It got to a stage I no more look for a job because I'm not happy being locked down from 9-5. Registered my company name with CAC recently. Get that freaking Skill-->Save Up--> Start a business. You better open your eyes to opportunities around you, till then I wish you success. 60 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by eleojo23: 3:19pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
OP, the less you compare yourself with others, the less depressed you will be. Your time will come. Just keep trying.. I know that this may sound like a cliché but let's learn to look beyond our certificates. The idea that certificates are the only path to success is a lie that we have all believed and despite many instances of people who have proved otherwise (entrepreneurs), we still believe the lie. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by nams77: 3:36pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
BMedia:This is a nice story. I'm inspired. These are the kind of persons I like to meet 17 Likes |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by BlueScholar(m): 4:12pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
BMedia: I'm glad you shared this, as my failure in school was also due to ignorance and as you put it" uni policy and juvenile deliquency. " I spill but manage to come out wit a 3rd class. The regret still hunt me cos not only was I from a poor home I was actually sponsored by my sister. The fare of God is the only reason I didnt off myself as being unemployed and approaching 3 decades in this world with nothing to show not even a good certificate kills almost everything in you. Post like yours though makes one remember he/she is not alone in this. And may be the story might change some day. Thank you for sharing 53 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Ay04z(m): 4:38pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
benabbey:he would be 29 or 31 by that time. U no dey hear below 27 years of age. Wat a waste nation. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Namady(m): 4:42pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
BMedia: Bro our story is like 80% the same. I graduated at 21 with 2.2 degree. It felt like the sweetest thing ever. Finished serving since Feb 2014 and I have been teaching ever since. Good thing is, I managed to do my M Sc despite all the financial odds plus I’m into some extra lessons. Bad as e bad I dey make like 70-80K monthly. ONE ADVICE: Never give up � 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Ay04z(m): 4:44pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
Wat Abt some people dat came out with pass and are counting Abt 500k to 700 k monthly. Now. U see dis life. Just sit down and pray try many tinz and fail. At the end. One will work out. With God. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Mhyketh(m): 5:14pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
don't let ur exam results decide fate, don't let ur gp or life pull u down. there are so many 2.2 grauate out there who are doing well.... making enough to earn a living... bro what i'll just advice u to do is keep learning 7 Likes |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
shege45: look at you! you think its 2:1, first class that put you in this predicament. I have a friend that's a first class, extremely intelligent even got a recognition from the governor no job for 8 years now!! a couple of classmates who graduated with 2:2 are working in multinationals. dude the way is entrepreneurship now cos that teaching you are doing will waste your time. the older you get the harder it gets to get a job. if however you still insist on job search, upgrade acquire new certifications and skills. 12 Likes 1 Share |
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