GODPUNISHUNA:


So you will hide it even when it's glaring that you might be earning more than him and in the process continue being a parasite off him?

That's a poverty mentality. That's why you ladies are so backward. Go to the west and see how real women think and behave. Leeches everywhere

GODPUNISHUNA:


So you will hide it even when it's glaring that you might be earning more than him and in the process continue being a parasite off him?

That's a poverty mentality. That's why you ladies are so backward. Go to the west and see how real women think and behave. Leeches everywhere

MissRaine69:
Why is it difficult for couples to have honest discussions about finances? Especially women, why do you hide how much you earn from the person you are with? And for the guys do you actually know how much she earns?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
If you reveal how much you have, you might stop getting anything from the man.

ednut1:
Man- if she knows how much you earn she would start expecting more and wants to know how you spend it.
woman-if he knows how much u earn or have he can become lazy or scam u.
solution-both parties should bring something to the table.

milemimi93:


Drop your latter opinion.

Unless the lady is dating a useless jobless irresponsible man. No responsible hard working man will want to scam a lady..

milemimi93:


Drop this mentality please..

How much a lady earns can't change the amount I give her if I want to.

I dated a lady who earns than me yet I was doing the needful..

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Baba I only stated why many women do so naaaaa!!! Wtf is wrong with people! You throw a fvcking question and I fvcking answer based on my real life observations and you people be mentioning me like its my state of mind. You people should learn to assimilate before quoting pls.

MJBOLT:

i'm yet to see such couple

milemimi93:


Nigerian ladies will never tell you how much they earn..

I dated a Nigerian lady who works in the bank and was earning N120k.. She refused telling me how much she was earning..

When I asked, her respond was "It’s just peanuts"

Then I was earning 75k. This lady asks me for money for almost everything including her body lotion.

I got to know how much she was earning through one of her colleagues..

To me, it's bad for a man to tell his lady (including his wife) how much he earns.

Ladies wants rise once their men's earnings rise..

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
If you reveal how much you have, you might stop getting anything from the man.

MissRaine69:

And yet you obliged when asked for money, enable certain behaviours expectations arise and who really I s to blame? The person who enabled those behaviours.

Divay22:
I don't think so. Na cooperation dey make rice full pot.

Divay22:

I don't think so.
Na cooperation dey make rice full pot.

MJBOLT:

na starch and banga soup dae ya dp?

Divay22:
Yes

MJBOLT:

you be delta pikin?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
If you reveal how much you have, you might stop getting anything from the man.

milemimi93:


I had this belivd dat as a man, if u can't provide ur lady's wants, another man will. And when another man provides, u know the rest.

Someone Like me, I hate cheatin with double hatred.

I always make sure I provide all my lady's wants/needs so that another man won't.

Two of my ladies do threathen me if I act disturb to their demands. They will say sometin like 'well, If u don't give me I will go sort myself out' or ''since u don't have no problem, I will find a way out'.

During my days workin in the sea where I stay distance from my girl..

I always make sure I dropd more than enough cash with her before I go to the sea.

But u know, hoe gon be hoe. So I wouldn't blame @Jewel..

MissRaine69:

Don’t spend more on a girlfriend more than you would on your own mother.
If she is threatening you then cut her off what do you have to lose ? She has no loyalties to you.

ednut1:
Man- if she knows how much you earn she would start expecting more and wants to know how you spend it.
woman-if he knows how much u earn or have he can become lazy or scam u.
solution-both parties should bring something to the table.

MissRaine69:

Household expenses should be shared neither of you are each other’s parent so no one is there to look after that other. You are a partnership

milemimi93:


Drop your latter opinion.

Unless the lady is dating a useless jobless irresponsible man. No responsible hard working man will want to scam a lady..

RavenClaw:
If I talk now it would seem as though I am a misogynist. Why would a man give his woman money for her personal stuffs if she has a job. Depending on who earns higher that should bring more money to the table. Each one should take care of themselves and contribute money for the family needs.

milemimi93:


This is why the only thing I want from a lady these days is Loyalty.

I don't need their love.. They can save the love till when I'm death.

Loyalty over love..


@the bolded, once u are deeply in love, ur senses are gone..
Sense and love can't live in the same place..

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Pls shut it. A responsible man will take care of his woman.

funmisticqueen:
many nigerian men of today are iresponsible.

milemimi93:


Then go for the responsible ones.. If there's none, have a plan B

funmisticqueen:
what exactly do you have that would make a lady loyal to you? what have you done to deserve her loyalty? does she also have your loyalty? loyalty has to be earned.

funmisticqueen:
That is my plan o.

milemimi93:

What I have done or would do to deserve her Loyalty is based on who she is.

Telling you what I will do too get my Woman's Loyalty is needless Unless u are the woman in question.


What works for A might not work for B..