Please I need matured minds to advise me on this. Positive and negative criticism are welcomed cause I need to see through other people's eyes. Thanks

I am a beautiful black lady with 1ft .63". I weigh 50kg and trust me have got natural curves. A real man will look at me twice. I have always loved my man Tall, dark and handsome with the most important being Tall. Since am not too tall, I have always wanted a man that can compliment my height. The truth is height and looks is the first thing that attracts me to a man. I hate short guys & guys that are just a little taller than I am. No matter how rich or good looking they are, I won't date them
I have been dating this guy for couple of months now and believe me we are in love. When he first asked me out I said to myself I can't date him, because he is just a little taller than me and he is IK Ogbonna type of man(bald), jeez, I have long hair and I always love men with nice hair so my kids can be hairy too. But one thing led to the other, I can't explain how the chemistry came to be and we started dating. He has been a good bf so far I swear, makes me laugh all the time, makes out time even in his busy schedule. He is in my thoughts all the time and I just want to be with him.
The problem now is anytime I see a tall man, be it picture or physically, I always wish my man is like that. I fear that my kids might be short and bald or less hairy too. At times I wonder if the love I have for him is strong enough to write off his physical looks so that when a tall, hairy man asks me out now or even after marriage I will say NO.
We plan getting married next year and he might pop the question sooner than I expect cause we fantasize about everything. Time is not on my side am in my late 30s.

Please should I just keep waiting for a tall guy? What can I do to look past his not been tall and bald especially not been tall. I want a man I will love unconditionally. Please help me.

P. S; I am okay with his looks, pockets and every other thing. My only problem is height and the hair cause of hereditary

maybe you should wait some more.

Anonymous1223:
Please I need matured minds to advise me on this. Positive and negative criticism are welcomed cause I need to see through other people's eyes. Thanks

I am a beautiful black lady with 1ft .63". I weigh 50kg and trust me have got natural curves. A real man will look at me twice. I have always loved my man Tall, dark and handsome with the most important being Tall. Since am not too tall, I have always wanted a man that can compliment my height. The truth is height and looks is the first thing that attracts me to a man. I hate short guys & guys that are just a little taller than I am. No matter how rich or good looking they are, I won't date them
I have been dating this guy for couple of months now and believe me we are in love. When he first asked me out I said to myself I can't date him, because he is just a little taller than me and he is IK Ogbonna type of man(bald), jeez, I have long hair and I always love men with nice hair so my kids can be hairy too. But one thing led to the other, I can't explain how the chemistry came to be and we started dating. He has been a good bf so far I swear, makes me laugh all the time, makes out time even in his busy schedule. He is in my thoughts all the time and I just want to be with him.
The problem now is anytime I see a tall man, be it picture or physically, I always wish my man is like that. I fear that my kids might be short and bald or less hairy too. At times I wonder if the love I have for him is strong enough to write off his physical looks so that when a tall, hairy man asks me out now or even after marriage I will say NO.
We plan getting married next year and he might pop the question sooner than I expect cause we fantasize about everything. Time is not on my side am in my late 30s.

Please should I just keep waiting for a tall guy? What can I do to look past his not been tall and bald especially not been tall. I want a man I will love unconditionally. Please help me.

P. S; I am okay with his looks, pockets and every other thing. My only problem is height and the hair cause of hereditary

The last time I checked the advantage of being tall is if you are an attacker expecting a corner kick. It seems you are looking for problems to have. Best of luck.

Why re u dating him then ....if i ask you to leave him will you answer me madam?

Sorry OP you aren't fair on the young man who I presume loves you so much, if at your age you can't let go of your dream husband looks then it's better you let him go and keep waiting for your dream hubby to come walk you down the isle cause the day you meet your dream man you'll most likely cheat on your husband.
Truth is we all had dreams of what our ideal spouse should be like but as we advance in age we realise that many of those things doesn't guareente happiness and bliss in a marriage.

It seems this one dey craze abi


No worry, u go wait tire


When ur mate don born finish, na den ur go begin regain ur senses



NONSENSE

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The last time I checked the advantage of being tall is if you are an attacker expecting a corner kick. It seems you are looking for problems to have. Best of luck.

Thanks but please I don't understand you

No, don't go ahead, Keep searching for tall man. By the time you re 45 and still searching, you will beg God to give you a dwarf.. He has been a good bf so far , what else do you want?

joceey:
Why re u dating him then ....if i ask you to leave him will you answer me madam?

Hmmmm...... No actually because time is not on my side and I love him. Just scared I might turn to something else when and should in case the dream man comes

Are you for real? Or you just made up this story? I can't believe that you got a nice man for yourself yet here you are complaining of baseless and irrelevant things that wouldn't add value to your lives. We're truly one set of confused species ever liveth.
And to think that you are in your 30s and don't know what you really want still baffles me. Well here's the undiluted truth sweet:
Relationships/marriage ain't meant for feeble minded people, learn to differentiate between fantasy and reality. Too much of fairytale love stories doesn't exist so suck it up and be real.
Marriage isn't about meeting the perfect person, it's a union of two imperfect people coming together to complement each other.
It's your duty to mould your partner the exact way you want him or her to appeal to you.
Never forget that no one is perfect hence the reason why you are their other halves.
Note: get married when you are ready to look beyond your partner's physical built. Go into marriage with the mindset of staying married.

Olalan:
Sorry OP you aren't fair on the young man who I presume loves you so much, if at your age you can't let go of your dream husband looks then it's better you let him go and keep waiting for your dream hubby to come walk you down the isle cause the day you meet your dream man you'll most likely cheat on your husband.
Truth is we all had dreams of what our ideal spouse should be like but as we advance in age we realise that many of those things doesn't guareente happiness and bliss in a marriage.

Thanks alot. You are right about everything u said. Looks doesn't guarantee happiness it's just been hard for me to forget this look thingy. And God help me I don't want to cheat.. never done it and never will
Am so confused because I love him

This is either a fake story or you are not ready for marriage
If your only concern is the height, you can talk yourself into it.
Just keep looking at the positives.
Goodluck!

Cut your fantasies madam, no one is born perfect.

dbos11:
It seems this one dey craze abi


No worry, u go wait tire


When ur mate don born finish, na den ur go begin regain ur senses



NONSENSE

Thanks but you can be nicer than that . I clearly understand you tho

if u have problem with his height dont date him or else u will definitly cheat on him with a tall hairy guy

my sister no worry, JESUS is coming he has all the Qualities you want.

Anonymous1223:
Please I need matured minds to advise me on this. Positive and negative criticism are welcomed cause I need to see through other people's eyes. Thanks

I am a beautiful black lady with 1ft .63". I weigh 50kg and trust me have got natural curves. A real man will look at me twice. I have always loved my man Tall, dark and handsome with the most important being Tall. Since am not too tall, I have always wanted a man that can compliment my height. The truth is height and looks is the first thing that attracts me to a man. I hate short guys & guys that are just a little taller than I am. No matter how rich or good looking they are, I won't date them
I have been dating this guy for couple of months now and believe me we are in love. When he first asked me out I said to myself I can't date him, because he is just a little taller than me and he is IK Ogbonna type of man(bald), jeez, I have long hair and I always love men with nice hair so my kids can be hairy too. But one thing led to the other, I can't explain how the chemistry came to be and we started dating. He has been a good bf so far I swear, makes me laugh all the time, makes out time even in his busy schedule. He is in my thoughts all the time and I just want to be with him.
The problem now is anytime I see a tall man, be it picture or physically, I always wish my man is like that. I fear that my kids might be short and bald or less hairy too. At times I wonder if the love I have for him is strong enough to write off his physical looks so that when a tall, hairy man asks me out now or even after marriage I will say NO.
We plan getting married next year and he might pop the question sooner than I expect cause we fantasize about everything. Time is not on my side am in my late 30s.

Please should I just keep waiting for a tall guy? What can I do to look past his not been tall and bald especially not been tall. I want a man I will love unconditionally. Please help me.

P. S; I am okay with his looks, pockets and every other thing. My only problem is height and the hair cause of hereditary

huh?. You are 1 ft 63"... I am not understanding this your height oo

Xisnin:
This is either a fake story or you are not ready for marriage
If your only concern is the height, you can talk yourself into it.
Just keep looking at the positives.
Goodluck!

It's not fake. I opened a new account cause I need advice. Thanks a lot. I think I will start concentrating more on the positives.

Olalan:
Sorry OP you aren't fair on the young man who I presume loves you so much, if at your age you can't let go of your dream husband looks then it's better you let him go and keep waiting for your dream hubby to come walk you down the isle cause the day you meet your dream man you'll most likely cheat on your husband.
Truth is we all had dreams of what our ideal spouse should be like but as we advance in age we realise that many of those things doesn't guareente happiness and bliss in a marriage.

this is why lots of ppl cheat in their marriage.if she loves tall hairy guys then she should go for one.forget all these one about being nice or caring.

Anonymous1223:


Hmmmm...... No actually because time is not on my side and I love him. Just scared I might turn to something else when and should in case the dream man comes

Pls dont make that mistake think deeply and ask yourself lots of question cos there is nothing worst than marrying out of self pity or regret

Michelle55:
Are you for real? Or you just made up this story? I can't believe that you got a nice man for yourself yet here you are complaining of baseless and irrelevant things that wouldn't add value to your lives. We're truly one set of confused species ever liveth.
And to think that you are in your 30s and don't know what you really want still baffles me. Well here's the undiluted truth sweet:
Relationships/marriage ain't meant for feeble minded people, learn to differentiate between fantasy and reality. Too much of fairytale love stories doesn't exist so suck it up and be real.
Marriage isn't about meeting the perfect person, it's a union of two imperfect people coming together to complement each other.
It's your duty to mould your partner the exact way you want him or her to appeal to you.
Never forget that no one is perfect hence the reason why you are their other halves.
Note: get married when you are ready to look beyond your partner's physical built. Go into marriage with the mindset of staying married.

Thanks a lot Sis. Your words are powerful. I appreciate

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I don't believe your story let's assume its true.

Today it's easier to find meaningless relationship than a proper relationship, you have someone that cares for you, and is financially set and makes you happy but you have issues with the height. If that's a problem then its simple dump him and look for your spec. There's a saying that goes you can only complain when you don't have any option. However mind you , ladies will take him up in an heart beat. Besides If he is bald so, Common is bald and he's still sexy. I doubt you are 30, a 30 year old lady usually see beyond the physical. Anyway sha like I said you don't have problems you are just looking for problems to have.

Goodluck with finding a suitable person with all the fvckboys around.

ok, just give him 6more years, by then, he would have grown taller and also grow enough hairs too

joceey:



Pls dont make that mistake think deeply and ask yourself lots of question cos there is nothing worst than marrying out of self pity or regret

Thanks

Grab your copy now or never

I am tall so you can pay me to act as part-time husband for you when you want to go outing after your wedding

Anonymous1223:


Thanks a lot Sis. Your words are powerful. I appreciate

You are most welcome.
Give yourself this chance to be fulfilled and loved by this young man for a lifetime..
Always remember that what we(humans) pray for will definitely be given to us but not in the exact package we want but in the package God thinks is best for us.
You have gotten yours, don't throw it away for fantasy OK.
Stay blessed.

pcguru1:


I don't believe your story let's assume its true.

Today it's easier to find meaningless relationship than a proper relationship, you have someone that cares for you, and is financially set and makes you happy but you have issues with the height. If that's a problem then its simple dump him and look for your spec. There's a saying that goes you can only complain when you don't have any option. However mind you , ladies will take him up in an heart beat. Besides If he is bald so, Common is bald and he's still sexy. I doubt you are 30, a 30 year old lady usually see beyond the physical. Anyway sha like I said you don't have problems you are just looking for problems to have.

Goodluck with finding a suitable person with all the fvckboys around.

Thanks a lot for your time. I just don't wanna marry cause am almost 30. I think I will work more on mindset cause he is a good man

Michelle55:

You are most welcome.
Give yourself this chance to be fulfilled and loved by this young man for a lifetime..
Always remember that what we(humans) pray for will definitely be given to us but not in the exact package we want but in the package God thinks is best for us.
You have gotten yours, don't throw it away for fantasy OK.
Stay blessed.

God bless you. You told me what my mum would have told me if she is alive.

Mklanceee:
I am tall so you can pay me to act as part-time husband for you when you want to go outing after your wedding

You are a clown Common, am serious here please

Anonymous1223:


Thanks a lot for your time. I just don't wanna marry cause am almost 30. I think I will work more on mindset cause he is a good man

You missed the point , I said at 30 you should be looking beyond physical attributes not that you should be marrying because you approaching 30. But you can dump him though since you are the one wearing the shoe anyway, so you know where it pinches. A lot of tall guys around anyway. I kinda pity the guy he thinks he's the one lol

Biology 101: it's possible for two short people to have tall kids if you both have dominant tall genes. anyhoozle, let me not bore you with mendelian genetics.

//you're in your late 30s and from what you wrote he's a good man who cares for you. as long as he's not a dwarf, his height should be frivolous to you. if you dump him now, it might not be until you're 45 before another good man comes your way, so be very careful.