hmmm love palava

Dakota is obviously lonely n broke hence the blah blah blah blah....sha don't come back screaming like a raving loon ooo...cos cheats don't change

Biglittlelois:
It's really truly painful if you're loyal to the core and your partner cheats, no matter how strong your love for him is, once you found out he cheated, it will diminish, except you just want to deceive yourself.

The truth is that women are just selfish and stingy.

milemimi93:


Forgive but don't take him/her back..


Hoe gon be hoe

Facts of life

The problem this days is that women cheat as much as men but they are hardly caught. It seems they know the consequences, but men aren’t scared of the consequences.

toyetade:

A woman need to forgive the cheating husband if he is truly sorry. Life outside marriage for so many woman is nothing to write home about especially where children are involved. Just forgive and continue with your marriage to give your children and yourself the best possible chance in life

Of course you will say that, but if the woman cheated it will be a different ball game right? now imagine if the husband cheated and at the same time infected her with std or worse, what will be your advice? she should stay right? marraige is not a do or die affair, i would never advice someone to loose him or herself because of that institution no, people live well in life without their spouse's presence, success in life is not tied to marriage especially for the married ones.

toyetade:

A woman need to forgive the cheating husband if he is truly sorry. Life outside marriage for so many woman is nothing to write home about especially where children are involved. Just forgive and continue with your marriage to give your children and yourself the best possible chance in life

You made no sense and stop being primitive

Marriage doesn't define a woman's life.So if she is unhappy if her partner cheats she has every right to move on and not sacrifice it because of her children.She is also human and has a life her husband should have as well thought about the kids before he did what he did.
It is better she raises such children alone while being true to herself than fake it because she must stay with a cheat.

babyfaceafrica:
you are not serious..you cheat..you leave..even if 23 children are involved

Ride on sir.

Tinalex:

So a woman should forgive her cheating husband for her own sake? How cynical can you be, can you imagine the justification you wrote? It's your type that goes around stating women needs to be financially independent to bring something to the table in marriage, n when the marriage crashes; she decides to live her life with her kids with the resources she has and bleeps whoever she wants when Hot, you tag her irresponsible for not being with the cheating,lying bastard of a husband....life is no longer about you men you know...a woman can live independent of the so called husband and still be happy, some can't but lots are strong enough to do that than live with one over grown baby who constantly bring you pain and disrespect. He can see his kids anytime he wants but the woman can be happy without him ok...so bros grow up from this your cynical posit!

My opinion is borne out of my experience of women who have left their husband and now troubling me for relationship. There are too many women out there pestering men who have their own wife. Also for many women life can be miserable after parking out of their marriage. A lot of women cannot bring up good children on their own. Lone parent is not an easy option. It is better to forgive a cheating husband if he is forgivable and restore the home.

Who is that please ... Guys/girls please it is not ok not to forgive a cheating partner... B4 you quote me read again what i wrote

toyetade:

My opinion is borne out of my experience of women who have left their husband and now troubling me for relationship. There are too many women out there pestering men who have their own wife. Also for many women life can be miserable after parking out of their marriage. A lot of women cannot bring up good children on their own. Lone parent is not an easy option. It is better to forgive a cheating husband if he is forgivable and restore the home.

lone parenting is better than staying with a cheat

toyetade:

My opinion is borne out of my experience of women who have left their husband and now troubling me for relationship. There are too many women out there pestering men who have their own wife. Also for many women life can be miserable after parking out of their marriage. A lot of women cannot bring up good children on their own. Lone parent is not an easy option. It is better to forgive a cheating husband if he is forgivable and restore the home.

Oga u are still not making sense, u are saying women are not capable of bringing up good children, look around you plenty of women has brought up good n meaningful children, though some failed but plenty did well, compare that to the rate of men, it's low men, plenty of single men abandon their kids, drop Dem off for families or marry women who dont treat their children well, look around you very well and don't lie to yourself.....

U kinda sound like one of those men who thinks women are nothing or capable of being anything without a man

kullozone:


That's not true oga... People like you who take cheating partners back always end up falling in love all over again and getting cheated on over and over again.

Just do the last fvck and let her go

try and understand me deeply..

you i meant the same thing

kriskristyne:


Oga u are still not making sense, u are saying women are not capable of bringing up good children, look around you plenty of women has brought up good n meaningful children, though some failed but plenty did well, compare that to the rate of men, it's low men, plenty of single men abandon their kids, drop Dem off for families or marry women who dont treat their children well, look around you very well and don't lie to yourself.....

U kinda sound like one of those men who thinks women are nothing or capable of being anything without a man

In the environment where I live and even in developing and developed countries, most never do well children are brought up by single parent whether men or women. Most women cannot hold themselve without seeing men later in their life. My opinion is that instead of rushing to park out of your husband house in the name of cheating, all avenues should be explored to settle things amicably, forgive him if he is ready to commit to the marriage than living a lonely life afterwards and children always need their dad. My own opinion

toyetade:

My opinion is borne out of my experience of women who have left their husband and now troubling me for relationship. There are too many women out there pestering men who have their own wife. Also for many women life can be miserable after parking out of their marriage. A lot of women cannot bring up good children on their own. Lone parent is not an easy option. It is better to forgive a cheating husband if he is forgivable and restore the home.

Thanks for using the word "if" ...that aside why are women with crashed marriages seeking You? Not single responsible ones ooo...bro you need an intervention Abeg or you change your company of friends...

Tinalex:
Dakota is obviously lonely n broke hence the blah blah blah blah....sha don't come back screaming like a raving loon ooo...cos cheats don't change

How old is this one?
DaVita is married with a child and owns one of the biggest cosmetic shops at Lekki

Earthbound:
Fact.


How can I forgive a woman who used the same mouth she used to say "I do" to blow another man while we're still married? It's just not possible. How can you expect me to forgive you and kiss that same mouth?

You'd never believe that you could tolerate a woman who cheated on you until someday when you'd be humbled by the fact that you have to.

Relationships these days are quite messy; even folks that cry fowl secretly cheat... I feel the type of partner that should be put away is the non-compassionate, recalcitrant, unrepentant cheat for the sake of your general well-being.

Lol. All the female monikers are out here screaming that they can never forgive a cheating partner. Hahaha. In reality I've never seen one single woman leave her husband or boyfriend because he cheated. In fact I've seen more women leave a man more likely not to cheat for flimsy excuses.
All my relationships were I was a bloody cheat, my exes struggled to keep me however the ones I tried to be a good guy, I was dumped. Lol.
Men reading this thread should not mind this ladies.
My advice: Even if you're not tailored to cheat or don't fancy cheating as a man, hint at it. At least show her other women seem to like you enough to want to take you from her....my one kobo

Chyxki:


You'd never believe that you could tolerate a woman who cheated on you until someday when you'd be humbled by the fact that you have to.

Relationships these days are quite messy; even folks that cry fowl secretly cheat... I feel the type of partner that should be put away is non-compassionate, recalcitrant, unrepentant cheat for the sake of your general well-being.

If my wife cheats on me, that's the beginning of the end.

Tinalex:

So a woman should forgive her cheating husband for her own sake? How cynical can you be, can you imagine the justification you wrote? It's your type that goes around stating women needs to be financially independent to bring something to the table in marriage, n when the marriage crashes; she decides to live her life with her kids with the resources she has and bleeps whoever she wants when Hot, you tag her irresponsible for not being with the cheating,lying bastard of a husband....life is no longer about you men you know...a woman can live independent of the so called husband and still be happy, some can't but lots are strong enough to do that than live with one over grown baby who constantly bring you pain and disrespect. He can see his kids anytime he wants but the woman can be happy without him ok...so bros grow up from this your cynical posit!

You sound like you're divorced or very close to a divorcee

Are you a woman? Were you a woman in your past life? If no, don't tell women to take back cheating partners if you won't do the same. Thanks.

toyetade:

A woman need to forgive the cheating husband if he is truly sorry. Life outside marriage for so many woman is nothing to write home about especially where children are involved. Just forgive and continue with your marriage to give your children and yourself the best possible chance in life

I don't have that Grace to sustain a relationship with a cheat ...forgive I may, but it can never be the same. I consider it a disrespect to myself to be in that relationship.I don't think I'd have respect for him either ...so he cheats, am out. It's non-negotiable,my piece of mind.

toyetade:

A woman need to forgive the cheating husband if he is truly sorry. Life outside marriage for so many woman is nothing to write home about especially where children are involved. Just forgive and continue with your marriage to give your children and yourself the best possible chance in life

narrowpathy:
Lol. All the female monikers are out here screaming that they can never forgive a cheating partner. Hahaha. In reality I've never seen one single woman leave her husband or boyfriend because he cheated. In fact I've seen more women leave a man more likely not to cheat for flimsy excuses.
All my relationships were I was a bloody cheat, my exes struggled to keep me however the ones I tried to be a good guy, I was dumped. Lol.
Men reading this thread should not mind this ladies.
My advice: Even if you're not tailored to cheat or don't fancy cheating as a man, hint at it. At least show her other women seem to like you enough to want to take you from her....my one kobo

Bruh any woman that stays with a man mistreating and cheating on her, has no option in her life or just some person with low self esteem or just some other person cumbered with "what will people say"...in reality some of us treasure having a good and peaceful life over pleasing folks we care nothing about.

So how will the last fvck better your life?

kullozone:


That's not true oga... People like you who take cheating partners back always end up falling in love all over again and getting cheated on over and over again.

Just do the last fvck and let her go

Tinalex:

So a woman should forgive her cheating husband for her own sake? How cynical can you be, can you imagine the justification you wrote? It's your type that goes around stating women needs to be financially independent to bring something to the table in marriage, n when the marriage crashes; she decides to live her life with her kids with the resources she has and bleeps whoever she wants when Hot, you tag her irresponsible for not being with the cheating,lying bastard of a husband....life is no longer about you men you know...a woman can live independent of the so called husband and still be happy, some can't but lots are strong enough to do that than live with one over grown baby who constantly bring you pain and disrespect. He can see his kids anytime he wants but the woman can be happy without him ok...so bros grow up from this your cynical posit!

well sha

forgiving a spouse should be at his/her discretion

not societal standards or any other pressures

My friend left her bf when he not only cheated but started dating another girl publicly. I was in the house when he came to beg her to take his back. Girl stood her ground. She rejected him.

narrowpathy:
Lol. All the female monikers are out here screaming that they can never forgive a cheating partner. Hahaha. In reality I've never seen one single woman leave her husband or boyfriend because he cheated. In fact I've seen more women leave a man more likely not to cheat for flimsy excuses.
All my relationships were I was a bloody cheat, my exes struggled to keep me however the ones I tried to be a good guy, I was dumped. Lol.
Men reading this thread should not mind this ladies.
My advice: Even if you're not tailored to cheat or don't fancy cheating as a man, hint at it. At least show her other women seem to like you enough to want to take you from her....my one kobo

toyetade:

A woman need to forgive the cheating husband if he is truly sorry. Life outside marriage for so many woman is nothing to write home about especially where children are involved. Just forgive and continue with your marriage to give your children and yourself the best possible chance in life

*rolls eyes*

I no just get una time now

Earthbound:

You sound like you're divorced or very close to a divorcee

So?

kriskristyne:


Oga u are still not making sense, u are saying women are not capable of bringing up good children, look around you plenty of women has brought up good n meaningful children, though some failed but plenty did well, compare that to the rate of men, it's low men, plenty of single men abandon their kids, drop Dem off for families or marry women who dont treat their children well, look around you very well and don't lie to yourself.....

U kinda sound like one of those men who thinks women are nothing or capable of being anything without a man

These men have another thing coming; they just don't know it yet or do I say accept it?

Pls what does the bolded mean?

Clarence Peters was raised solely by his mom. Yung6ix too. So many American stars you know we're raised by single mothers. Single Parenthood is not to blame. So many armed robbers you see here in Nigeria were raised by both parents. The issue is , are the kids being raised right? Are they taught good morals and brought up properly? Thats what you should be on about.

toyetade:


In the environment where I live and even in developing and developed countries, most never do well children are brought up by single parent whether men or women. Most women cannot hold themselve without seeing men later in their life. My opinion is that instead of rushing to park out of your husband house in the name of cheating, all avenues should be explored to settle things amicably, forgive him if he is ready to commit to the marriage than living a lonely life afterwards and children always need their dad. My own opinion