..... Dick

Good sex can do anything

Because the ones who beat them are the perfect fit.

good good dick mehnn

goldenpenny2:


Another testifier spotted.... lol

Mmm

Financial security like someone pointed out earlier

Stockholm syndrome

Ladies who act like dat are afflicted with the I-love-bad-boys-syndrome.

1 financial reasons
2 no hope of another boyfriend or husband

goldenpenny2:
A good number of ladies stay in relationships where the guy beats them up.

They complain and whine about the beating but you see them back with same guy even before you could say fetch.

What is the rationale behind staying with an abusive partner?

Why do Nigerians keep voting the same old, recycled criminal politicians and retired army officers and coupist into top leadership positions in Nigeria

The answer is here

I seriously don't know for them.

There's a popular Nairalander I know that beat his ex-girlfriend on a norms and anytime I see him, I simply shake my head

But sometimes when a guy slaps a lady, she'll become more respectful.


I've seen it happen. A lady who's always following this guy up up suddenly becomes very calm and obedient.

Just one resetting slap.

Funnily she's one of those type that often boast that "the day he'll lay his hands on me, it'll be over"

Ladies are weird.

MissRaine69:
1.I have heard this many times - “yes he beats you but does he not provide for his children?”
2.Pressure from family/church
3.Lack of financial independence on the part of the women.
4.Truly believing that no other men will want them ..if the man is violent and she is marked, scared and has teeth missing he will tell her that no one will want a “broken down woman like her!”
5.Shame
6.Hopelessness and Helpnesss - Depression
7.That narcissistic behaviour of the man who is abusing her. He will convcie her that she is the one that makes him angry and he does love her despite regulart beating her unconscious.

Makes sense.
You seem to have a lot of knowledge in this area.... Any personal experiences?

Ladies in this forum, oya over to u. Sadly, they might not tell u the Truth. I concur with others comments about financial security. I can't find any Union bank here...

goldenpenny2:
A good number of ladies stay in relationships where the guy beats them up.

They complain and whine about the beating but you see them back with same guy even before you could say fetch.

What is the rationale behind staying with an abusive partner?

If he fvks well or has good money they will always want to go back cos they love sex n money more than their lives.

Quote me wrongly and catch fire.

Most women beaters are people who are already married.
The women most times weighs the cons of finding another man having already become "second hand".

MissRaine69 :
1.I have heard this many times - “yes he beats you but does he not provide for his children?”
2.Pressure from family/church
3.Lack of financial independence on the part of the women.
4.Truly believing that no other men will want them ..if the man is violent and she is marked, scared and has teeth missing he will tell her that no one will want a “broken down woman like her!”
5.Shame
6.Hopelessness and Helpnesss - Depression
7.That narcissistic behaviour of the man who is abusing her. He will convcie her that she is the one that makes him angry and he does love her despite regulart beating her unconsciously.

I concur

Only Nigerian ladies do that. Can hardly blame them tho, the Nigerian terrain do not favor single ladies

folake4u:
I seriously don't know for them.

There's a popular Nairalander I know that beat his ex-girlfriend on a norms and anytime I see him, I simply shake my head

Who could that be then?

Nothing makes a woman more confused than
being in a relationship with a broke man who is
extremely good in bed.

oladele00:
ANALYSIS OF THE MASSIVE FINANCIAL CORRUPTION AT THE PDP PRIMARY/NATIONAL CONVENTION - A MUST READ!

Written by Sirajo Sabo Gassol.

There are at least 4,000 delegates participating in PDP's presidential primary election. Saraki is paying each delegate $1,000 (N350,000), that is potentially $4Million (N1.4 Billion) for delegates alone, his opening bid as at yesterday. Atiku opened his own bid at $5,000 (N1,750,000) per delegate, or $20,000,000 (N7 Billion) for all the delegates. Nyesom Wike was paying $10,000 per delegate, or $40,000,000 (N14,000,000,000) for delegates alone. These figures were part of the early bids as at yesterday. Nobody knows how much they finally paid, but some inside sources said it's been up to $15,000 (N5,250,000) per delegate.

There are at least 12 aspirants contesting in this election, and by the time they're done hundreds of billions of naira must have changed hands. Only that they're not spending it in naira, they're spending it in dollars. When we told you that the recession that happened due to the hoarding of dollars and depletion of our foreign reserves and excess crude account was caused by the PDP you denied...

So where did they get the dollars they're spending now from? How many of them have any private business that generates so much wealth? Or are they simply spending money belonging to poor people? What exactly are they buying that they have to spend so much? Is it only vote they're buying or our future with it? Are these the same bunch of hypocrites who like to release press statements condemning vote buying when election does not go their way but who are shamelessly buying votes right under our noses? Can we honestly expect anything good from this same characters who said they have repented and that we should forgive them their sins but who have not shown any sign of repentance at all? How exactly will they "change the change" if they have not even changed their own corrupt ways?

The signs are always there, right before our very own eyes. Everything to show that the one who promises El Dorado is nothing but a fraud, but we almost always chose to ignore them because of our own prejudice and personal interests. How exactly is a Saraki, a Tambuwal, a Kwankwoso, an Atiku who is being sponsored by money stolen from poor people better than a Buhari who was voted in by the ordinary masses of Nigeria without a single dime changing hands? I trust some of you would like to remind me that when Buhari first came into power that he was sponsored by stolen money too, but you're saying that that Buhari should give way for someone better... So how exactly is the one you're supporting today better? Would you not rather stick with the "devil" you know than the wolves in sheep clothing that we all know are even far worse?

If you think Buhari is bad then wait for Kwankwoso, wait for Atiku, wait for Saraki and wait for Tambuwal. These are people who have no pity for the poor. At least Buhari pities the poor, which is why he pays them NPOWER, gives their children free feeding in school, gives them conditional cash transfers, invests heavily in food production through his agric revolution, gives bailouts to state governments to pay salaries, and refused to devalue the naira...

So, if you see all that and say Buhari is bad then wait for a people who have no respect for poor people. Saraki is today the Senate President, what has he done to restructure the country which is a constitutional matter? What has he done to improve the welfare of poor people? Tambuwal is today the governor of Sokoto State, should he not first transform Sokoto State before coming to ask for a bigger responsibility? When he was speaker of the House of Reps, what did he do about the restructuring he's deceiving us with today? That one called Atiku was the most powerful Vice President in Nigerian history, yet only used his powers to enrich himself and his cronies at the expense of the poor masses.

Listen to them talk today, none of them says anything about corruption... Is that because corruption is dead in Nigeria or because they simply do not have the moral ground to speak against it? None of them tells us what they're going to do to strengthen institutions like the police, judiciary, INEC etc... None of them has any clearcut plan on the economy, security, restructuring, power supply, job creation, education, healthcare, restructuring. The only thing they say is "Buhari has failed, we're going to do better because he who failed woefully before have repented", even though there is no evidence to that.

I just pity the gullible wailers who don't know their left from their right, this is why these people are playing them like football.

Sirajo Sabo Gassol.
7th October 2018.

Including you. They play us like football Mr Perfect.

Na wa o!

BetWinners:


If u beat a lady for the right reasons she will never leave. They love to be corrected, they love a man who's in control. That's how they are wired.

U better believe that

I hope you change the way you think.

Jahwinaboy:
MissRaine69 :
1.I have heard this many times - “yes he beats you but does he not provide for his children?”
2.Pressure from family/church
3.Lack of financial independence on the part of the women.
4.Truly believing that no other men will want them ..if the man is violent and she is marked, scared and has teeth missing he will tell her that no one will want a “broken down woman like her!”
5.Shame
6.Hopelessness and Helpnesss - Depression
7.That narcissistic behaviour of the man who is abusing her. He will convcie her that she is the one that makes him angry and he does love her despite regulart beating her unconsciously.

I concur

You covered everything.

Tamarapetty:
Good deek

you sha love game of thrones oh

Okafors's law states that once there and properly done, no matter how far or how long the sojourn, your work will continue to live on, and would always yearn for renewal
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Ayam nor feeling fine please, no harsh words

It is all about money.

folake4u:
I seriously don't know for them.

There's a popular Nairalander I know that beat his ex-girlfriend on a norms and anytime I see him, I simply shake my head

mention hin name na

foreign ladies- once beaten twice shy
Nigerian ladies- once beaten ....... if you know you know

it's simply because they are captives to them don't you people know that among two people there will be a master and a servant, or let me put it this way we all have hierarchy in spiritual realm so if the stronger one doesn't want them to be free they won't be free. i used to have females in the past who couldn't let go and sometimes it's the "flesh" sometimes she doesn't wanna try another one because she's contented with yours.