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Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by zwonder: 6:15pm On Oct 09, 2018
abeg go sit down which kind devil u know Na d devil go kill am last last It is beta 2 searh for another devil dat will treat her beta
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by alizma: 6:16pm On Oct 09, 2018
goldenpenny2:
A good number of ladies stay in relationships where the guy beats them up.

They complain and whine about the beating but you see them back with same guy even before you could say fetch.

What is the rationale behind staying with an abusive partner?

how many of them are you willing to take home as your wife?
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by 1930revival(m): 6:20pm On Oct 09, 2018
My dick is tiny like carrot....will I ever find a faithful woman?
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Bellgal: 6:23pm On Oct 09, 2018
BetWinners:


If u beat a lady for the right reasons she will never leave. They love to be corrected, they love a man who's in control. That's how they are wired.

U better believe that cool
U r the only one that got the right answer to the question...... I just love ur point.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by tosyne2much(m): 6:24pm On Oct 09, 2018
Truth be told, women are more submissive to violent men

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Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by DammyGbade(m): 6:30pm On Oct 09, 2018
It's Turn-on for some... grin

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Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Differentials1: 6:32pm On Oct 09, 2018
Na the prick my brother... if better prick touch some ladies... no be small staying put on the matter!
goldenpenny2:
A good number of ladies stay in relationships where the guy beats them up.

They complain and whine about the beating but you see them back with same guy even before you could say fetch.

What is the rationale behind staying with an abusive partner?
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Oct 09, 2018
TarOrfeek:

Nothing beats Rough Seks.


It gives eternal life.....
mumu
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Acidosis(m): 6:36pm On Oct 09, 2018
You can't advise a woman in love, especially one that falls for a bad guy.
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Mariangeles(f): 6:38pm On Oct 09, 2018
BetWinners:


If u beat a lady for the right reasons she will never leave. They love to be corrected, they love a man who's in control. That's how they are wired.

U better believe that cool
Are you her father ??

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Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Acidosis(m): 6:38pm On Oct 09, 2018
BetWinners:


If u beat a lady for the right reasons she will never leave. They love to be corrected, they love a man who's in control. That's how they are wired.

U better believe that cool

You never jam a Choleric woman..lol
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by kunkelhanspeter(m): 6:42pm On Oct 09, 2018
Menh!!!!
Sometime this kind of stuff weakens me
D fat girl I am f**king now don’t want to leave her stupid poor boyfriend bcoz he disvirgin her
Always beating her
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by orumba(m): 6:44pm On Oct 09, 2018
nothing but M@#€¥
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by sarcasticdude(m): 6:44pm On Oct 09, 2018
Women are just enigmatic in mature!!! Till this day I never understand wetin women want for this life!! sad
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by ACE1010: 6:55pm On Oct 09, 2018
Because the fucking is sweet...... nothing more grin grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Tamarapetty(f): 6:56pm On Oct 09, 2018
kenddys:


you sha love game of thrones oh
Lol, so much
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by victorian(f): 6:58pm On Oct 09, 2018
Na dem dey rush awon beaters and boxers.

I wish them great luck in the beatings.

Ordinary shout! I don run! cheesy

I am allergic to loud angry voices cheesy
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Nobody: 6:59pm On Oct 09, 2018
Tamarapetty:
Lol, so much


still waiting for season 8 though
the white walkers


Jon snow and the of dragons been sibs


cercei's betrayal!
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Oct 09, 2018
victorian:
Na dem dey rush awon beaters and boxers.
I wish them great luck in the beatings.
Ordinary shout! I don run! cheesy
I am allergic to loud angry voices cheesy
come and be my gf
I hate shouting!

and detest beating
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Cyriloha(m): 7:01pm On Oct 09, 2018
Good diccccccck or Dike is equivalent to women's happiness
( for those weee sabi am)

But wait no be smoke de her mouth ?
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Oct 09, 2018
Moneyspeakingz:
I dnt think it is about having a gud sex but knowing eat women really want.. a gud number of women chase guys with dreams and ambition just becos of one guy is out dhr flaunting fake Riches and fame. gud guys knws what they want so they dnt get disturbed by riches or fame but vision

And can die without achieving anything in life
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Nobody: 7:04pm On Oct 09, 2018
Abusive men tend to be very manipulative. Hit her across the face this minute, then get on their knees the next. Acting all remorseful, swearing on your grandmother's grave you didn't know WTF came over you. Then promising to spend rest of your existence trying to make it up to her.

Of course she'll fall for it everytime cos they will always want to see the good in you. To be the one that tames that monster. It's their ultimate ego trip.
In that single act of abuse, he's managed to stir up a roller-coaster of emotions in her. Abuse, Anger, Pain, and then Love. Notice how it all ends up in love huh? love conquers all you see.. yeah hence why they keep coming back, not for the abuse nah, for the events which pan out post-abuse.

Such relationships are never boring.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by victorian(f): 7:04pm On Oct 09, 2018
kenddys:


come and be my gf

I hate shouting!


and detest beating








Eeyah too late.

I'm married smiley And fortunate to have a kind caring man as my hubby .

Am just in romanceland enjoying the views and thread here. Nothing more.
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Oct 09, 2018
victorian:








Eeyah too late.
I'm married smiley And fortunate to have a kind caring man as my hubby .
Am just in romanceland enjoying the views and thread here. Nothing more.

hml ma

you will enjoy your marriage still death
say amen
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Oct 09, 2018
victorian:








Eeyah too late.
I'm married smiley And fortunate to have a kind caring man as my hubby .
Am just in romanceland enjoying the views and thread here. Nothing more.

hml ma

you will enjoy your marriage still death
say amen
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by victorian(f): 7:09pm On Oct 09, 2018
kenddys:



hml ma


you will enjoy your marriage still death

say amen









I will enjoy my marriage til old age, NOT Still or Till DEATH. angry

But with lots of children, grand children and great grand children around me and my hubby in Jesus name Amen and amen.. smiley so shall it be.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Muzikluva(m): 7:14pm On Oct 09, 2018
goldenpenny2:
A good number of ladies stay in relationships where the guy beats them up.

They complain and whine about the beating but you see them back with same guy even before you could say fetch.

What is the rationale behind staying with an abusive partner?
Cuz they are stupid!
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by godunia(m): 7:15pm On Oct 09, 2018
They go back because they love weak men. You need to see where a woman beater is begging his woman. He promises heaven and earth, sometimes the kneel down and do all sorts of rubbish just to show they are sorry. At that point the woman's power comes into play, she decides whether to forgive or not. Because they exploit these weak men, they kept going back. The weak men kept beating, kept begging, she keeps using her power to forgive and the drama continues.i no de vex, that makes my women very frustrated

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Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by 3phase(m): 7:18pm On Oct 09, 2018
because most of dem ar lifeless
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Funkybabee(f): 7:19pm On Oct 09, 2018
Laziness
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by AreaFada2: 7:31pm On Oct 09, 2018
Exact reasons differ from woman to woman but they include in no particular order:

Economic dependence on the man, fear of the unknown, believing he can change him, feeling guilty that reasons for beating is her failure/shortcoming, low self-esteem, culture/what people will say, being used to the guy/attachment, sex, feeling that the man is in control, have kids together already, threat to harm her/her kids, religion, etc.

Most women who have a good income and or come from a rich/influential and supportive background will not tolerate abuse long term. At least in modern times.

But still it's complex to understand why even the most vulnerable/weak lady would tolerate some very vicious abuse for so long.

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