if you are waiting to get a good job is a good idea but pray first before you breakup you may not if your destiny is tired to her so you need to pray forget whether you have a stable job or not

ImaIma1:


That is where they will see you lefulefu. It is not always about more money. She could just be using that one to push the guy.

ehn i am just trying to let him see it through my angle.when a lady start issuing threats there must always be one malaysian or south african bigboy around the corner busting her head with venza

LaBozz:


That is what I have been preaching for the past 2 months now. She is giving me deadline till December and I hope to call it quit before then since she isn't listening to me anymore.

wait till she make the move. so as not to put the blame on you that u never love her in the first place and mind you marriage isn't one sided game, we must have two players who understand each other very well. taaaiiiinnnkkkk uuuuuuuuuuu

Tajbol4splend:
If deep inside you, you aint ready to marry, and she threatening to marry one of her suitors if you don't marry her on time, let go of her, she's worth it and don't let her get into your head lying that it is Yorubas' style, it is her style

na she know wer she go carry her yoruba style come meet u

It's a gen gen something

You will live long sir. God bless you for us. u are a man of wisdom

1StopRudeness:


You are talking of love, is she behaving like someone that loves the man either..??
You don't threaten a man just so that he can do what u want.. and then say if he didn't do it means he doesn't love u...what kind of wayo love is that?...this kinda lady will use sex, and other bargaining means even in marriage to make the man do things he won't do...or haven't u hear ladies say stuff like " chose between me and your mother, or your brother, family etc....is marriage by December a life /death situation for her.?
That's not how to cajole marriage out of a man....there are better and loving ways to do it..

lefulefu:

ehn i am just trying to let him see it through my angle.when a lady start issuing threats there must always be one malaysian or south african bigboy around the corner busting her head with venza

Your angle is always bias towards women...seeing only the worst most times

ImaIma1:


Your angle is always bias towards women...seeing only the worst most times

haba iyam not biased towards the ladies .just saying he should be prepared .anything can happen.

openmine:

This unintelligent generalization is getting very stale!
Not all men are "chop and clean mouth" and not all ladies are "olosho" as most people erroneously perceive!

Didn't you read the part where she even gave him a deadline to get married to her?
The worse thing that can happen to anyone is to get pressured or blackmailed into something that you are not prepared for!
It will be a disaster and the same lady will not only complain but pack her bags and walk away when the storm comes!

Where the generalization for my previous post wey make you write essay for my mention? Na op I talk to not all men

Jamariwolff:
Arrant nonsense!

I don't know why you guys think ladies are fools.
You've been fûcking here like constant K for the past 1 year, what is holding u from proposing?
Or you're waiting till u enlarge the whole area abi?!

My own is 3 months max, if you ain't talking marriage then bye boy!
I won't even allow you fûck me much in these 3 months.

carry your püssy n go, who e epp ?

darlenese:
op you don't want marriage

you dont want sex


what the FuRK are u doing in a relationship?

Lolzz.. Easy easy

Take your time, bro.

UncleNnamdi:
Mr Man. There's nothing to discuss about.

She's ready and want to get married as a woman she is, that's her major priority and goal in that relationship for now, and I believe you have yours aswell.

Path ways if you aren't ready to marry her yet so that she'll settle down with someone else, while you get busy with your hustling priority until you are ready to settle down
-Don't delay her and end up not marrying her.
-Also, don't let her drag and emotionally blackmail you into what you are not ready for.

It's a simple stuff. No time for Yama Yama.

Bless you Sir for this simple and honest reply.

Oyindidi:
Where the generalization for my previous post wey make you write essay for my mention? Na op I talk to not all men

You don't know him.....yet you concluded that he is a "chop and clean mouth" as if you knew him previously....
Have you dated him before now for you to come to such conclusion?
Please learn to comprehend words before reacting ma...okay?
No wonder you regarded my earlier post as an "essay"

openmine:


You don't know him.....yet you concluded that he is a "chop and clean mouth" as if you knew him previously....
Have you dated him before now for you to come to such conclusion?
Please learn to comprehend words before reacting ma...okay?
No wonder you regarded my earlier post as an "essay"

I no read that your small Bible wet you write earlier. I reply as you say I generalize. I no fit read watin wey no mean much to me. no time I no read this post too

Oyindidi:
I no read that your small Bible wet you write earlier. I reply as you say I generalize. I no fit read watin wey no mean much to me. no time I no read thus post too

come ohh u dey read wetin U dey type at all?
Hope u don take ur drugs this evening?

dingbang:
Sit her down and talk to sense into her

Which sense?
Sense dey una two head?

If na ur sister, u for allow one unserious element to jus dey Bleep her for free like dat?

rosalieene:

really?
25yrs is the best to get married.

is it when she gets to 30 and be jumping from one church to another that's the best?

I would rather get married at 30, how can a woman at 25 figure out where her life is headed and use that to enter the pot of soup called marriage

openmine:


come ohh u dey read wetin U dey type at all?
Hope u don take ur drugs this evening?

Na you get the drugs wey I buy. Olodonista

Oyindidi:
Na you get the drugs wey I buy. Olodonista

abeg try take your drugs daily before you turn your english upside down olodostina

openmine:

abeg try take your drugs daily before you turn your english upside and down

Olodolistic somebody

Oyindidi:
Olodolistic somebody

olodostina take your koko drugs and alagbim syrup before you tear shirt run outside ohh

openmine:

olodostina take your drugs and alagbim syrup before you tear shirt run outside ohh

Go away! I no get time

Oyindidi:
Go away! I no get time

you no get time but you dey nairaland 247
over-Olodoism will not kill you

openmine:

you no get time but you dey nairaland 247
over-Olodoism will not kill you

Na your mama data I take dey online? No insult me because I reply you. You know all the times I dey online but I no notice your moniker before. Now get lost! Oyebe!

Op it's like I know you..... Cos.........

LaBozz:
I have been dating this girl for almost a year now and things have been going smooth with us until recently. I just don't know were the desperation for marriage came from. Now we barely have a normal conversation without the marriage issue coming up.

Though I don't have a steady job per say, I am a business man and am able to make myself a good some of money every week which isn't so bad. She is also working and makes around 60k every month. I have been telling her to relax a little bit so we can plan properly and get ourselves ready for the life time journey together, but she won't listen.

Her own is that in her place once a girl has graduated from school everyone is expecting her to get married. She will even bring up issues of the young girls getting married in her church and she is the only single were she works even though she is actually the youngest in her office.

She is just 24 years of age and almost 25 so she keeps saying she set a deadline for herself to get married before 25. The worse part is that sometimes she tries to threaten me that so many guys are asking for her hand in marriage but she doesn't want them, its me she wants.

This whole desperation is getting on my nerve and I really don't want to rush into marriage because her people want her to get married. So am thinking of calling the relationship off so that she can go and marry one of those men she said is asking her hand in marriage and I will wish her all the best.

Just so you know, am not trying to be tribalistic here, she is Yoruba and said that's how things are done in their culture so I don't know if that's true or she is just making all that up.

Oyindidi:
Na your mama data I take dey online? No insult me because I reply you. You know all the times I dey online I no notice moniker before. Now get lost! Oyebe!

Kids masquerading as adults:When they get cornered,they react by stupidly and shamefully resorting to personal or family attacks!
U really had a phD in olodoism
No wonder you behave like what you call others!

openmine:


Kids masquerading as adults:When they get cornered,they react by stupidly and shamefully resorting to personal or family attacks!
U really had a phD in olodoism
No wonder you behave like what you call others!

I'm done playing around with you. Elder, good night. You no see my signature? No trouble today, come tomorrow.

Oyindidi:
I'm done with playing around with you. Elder, good night. You no see my signature? No trouble today, come tomorrow.

....and the kid still speaks illogically
go take your drugs before you do some thing stupid!
eleyi gidigan

openmine:


Kids masquerading as adults:When they get cornered,they react by stupidly and shamefully resorting to personal or family attacks!
U really had a phD in olodoism
No wonder you behave like what you call others!

See person wey dey call me kid make I no talk about watin I see for your dp

openmine:

....and the kid still speaks illogically
go take your drugs before you do some thing stupid!
eleyi gidigan

K