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His Money Is Our Money by MissRaine69(f): 4:11pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
My money is not communal property when will women learn that this mindset is toxic to any relationship? 5 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by Nobody: 4:14pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
My dear from inception it has always been like that. I don't know where u are getting your idea from that it is toxic. Do whatever works for you. 2 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:14pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
If indeed they are gonna change that mindset.... |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:15pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:Embittered 1 Like |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by MissRaine69(f): 4:21pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:Do you just wake up in fight mode? 3 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:22pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:.. This one that talks from both side of the mouth. Ope that ur aunty in porthacourt,the one you were advertising and begging men to marry is still searching because of this same mindset. Keep it up. Tomorrow you will still be shouting equality. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by JasonScoolari: 4:26pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:Try and attend Shiloh, there's nothing too hard for our God. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by Lonestar124: 4:34pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
A real man will never depend on his wife money neither will a good wife fold his hand in time of monetary issue in the family especially when her husband is out of cash. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by MissRaine69(f): 4:46pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
Lonestar124:Let’s move away from this “real man” mindset all men are real the subject matter is women not contributing to the household they are part off that’s the bone of contention. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by CAPSLOCKED: 5:02pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
JONNYSPUTE: EQUALITY ONLY IN TERMS OF SHARING HIS MONEY AND PROPERTY. BUT WHEN IT COMES TO WHATEVER IS HERS HE NEEDS TO BE A "REAL MAN" AND BEAR ALL THE BURDEN ALONE. THIS REAL MAN TAG HAS BEEN USED TO MANIPULATE MEN FOR TOO LONG THAT NOBODY CARES TO ASK ABOUT THE "REAL WOMAN"... MAYBE BECAUSE IT'S WELL KNOWN THAT THERE'S NONE. NICE TOPIC AGAIN MISSRAINE69. YOU'RE A REAL ONE. 15 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by Nobody: 5:08pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:That is not true it depends of caliber of woman you meet and marry, my wife to be, bears at least 45% of our finances voluntarily,she even suggests joint purse for our income, women that cankerworm, parasite liability that marry to escape responsibilities different from women of diamond,great asset,inestimable values,they are just rare 2 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by Lonestar124: 5:23pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
MissRaine69:My comment correct everything that is needed to be corrected in the subjected issue. I'm not good in debating. speaking in term of marriage, No lady can give me cogent reason why she can't help her man when financial issue arise when fully she know is beyond his capacity at that particular time. Also, no man can give me tangible reason why he'll rely on his lady to cater for his responsibilities. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by dingbang(m): 5:25pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
I like you today |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:28pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED:...That's it bro. With such mindset,I wonder how they will claim to be equal with men. |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by pocohantas(f): 5:28pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
The arrangement fits the typical traditional Nigerian family. If a man crowns himself head and lord...then he has to do what lords do. Take charge of the provision without complains. Both sides of the divide are hypocritical if you ask me. So, to each his own. I like traditional men (aka) ultimate head of house. Slaves to their ego, hustle and give me money, while I massage his ego and call him "nna anyi". God punish feminism 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by Nobody: 5:29pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
Only an idiot will debate this topic. People will come online and say rubbish whereas their lives offline is typical of what they preach against online. |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by Kseafresh: 5:37pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
space booked |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by MJBOLT: 5:46pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
you go stingy well well NwanyiAwkaetiti: |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by MissRaine69(f): 5:48pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
SillyeRabbit:People will come online to comment on threads and be quite critical and dismissive but yet they still comment. Can you see the irony here? 5 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by MissRaine69(f): 5:49pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
pocohantas:Thank you. |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by MissRaine69(f): 5:49pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
dingbang:And not other days? |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by highpriestess: 5:52pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
This woman and her threads? I expect these guys to have engaged you by now, since you are the minister for men affairs 3 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:57pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
pocohantas:.. Hahahahahaha. So make " nna anyi continue to dey suffer abi?. |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by tivta(m): 6:03pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
MissRaine69: Will you Marry me? |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by MissRaine69(f): 6:42pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
tivta: |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by MJBOLT: 7:03pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by Uglymugg: 7:12pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED: A+ 1 Like |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by Saff(f): 7:12pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
Women want to be men by fire by force Men want to be women They want equality Bikooo, my money is my money. Simple as abc. I like the traditional household structure. You women want to pamper and baby these men, let the men be men. Jeeezzz 1 Like |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by MissRaine69(f): 7:20pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
Saff:So this is how you approach discussions by automatically personalising it? 7 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by MissRaine69(f): 7:21pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
highpriestess:I have had to build 7 eight bedroom houses to accommodate all of them. It’s hard work I tell you! 1 Like |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:25pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
MissRaine69,great post.
To me that kind of orientation should not be encouraged.
In this time and age. 3 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Our Money by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:34pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
Lonestar124: This unnecessary societal expectation of men could be toxic as it puts unnecessary pressure on men.A man who may not be able to provide at a certain period is not less a man so that real man talk makes no sense to me. Men should be able to do what they can and not unnecessarily pressure themselves to provide over 70%when they are not capable of it because of society. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
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