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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tatacherie: 9:12am On Oct 15, 2018
SwtDove:
Mother's/doc in the house pls help me
What can I use for withlow...

Pix attached..ejoor Ema binu for posting it
Am scared of loosing my finger..can't even carry my baby since I gave birth becos it's dat serious.. cry
Ah sorry oo!
Pls like others have said see a Dr immediately
Eku itoju
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tatacherie: 9:52am On Oct 15, 2018
A very Beautiful and sunny morning to y'all mamas
Sorry to serial the thread but lemme rant before I run mad

My 4 year friendship is taking another turn..
So I met this friend of mine 4 years ago while TTC and we have really been supporting each other. We got married same year . We pray togeda, share experiences and even eat together. She is really peaceful and haven't had any issues whatsoever with her for 4 years now. I do love and care for her

I noticed things started changing when early this year I told her I'm expecting. She only said congrats and went offline. Unlike my first preggie where she almost screamed down the building from excitement. Usually I'm not a fan of telling friends and family that one is preggie but she's so close that I couldn't help it, oweing to the fact that I was in another state running a program only for me to return almost due, I felt she would feel sad that I couldn't share my joy with her

So she started ignoring my chats. 6 months later she msgd me only to discover I was on admission.
I finally relocated back to base and delivered. I'm not even bothered that she didn't show up and naming even though her house is just a pole away.

Now the issue is the 1st day she came to see us she met me bathing my 1 week old and said my baby looks like a defeathered turkey.. I was so shocked that I screamed WTF! She apologized and said she meant no harm but that my baby really look funny
Fast forward to 6 weeks later. She came to say hello yesterday and repeated the same thing - holding my baby's two legs and admiring them she was like" Chicken dey hungry me oo "..
This time around I almost told her to leave but had to control myself. I asked her what inspired the thoughts of eating chicken that early morning and she said my newborn's laps inspired her cos they look like chicken laps without apology. I shouted " so full human being now looks like chicken that you want to eat abi?" She burst into laughter.
She has been TTC for 4 years now, 1 miscarriage, 7 failed IUI and currently considering IVF. I had managed my temper so she doesn't feel cos she has no seed yet I mocked her or something. This is someone I dont go a day without saying a word of prayer for. Someone should pls tell me if I'm trying to overreact cos Im already afraid of the friendship
If you were in my shoes how will you react to this statement?

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by zaynie(f): 9:54am On Oct 15, 2018
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by maradelkitchen(f): 9:57am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.
Akorede was born around 6am this morning.
Team October!
AlihamduliLlah

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tatacherie: 10:00am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!
Wow! Congrats mummy
Godbless you cutie

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Ammy5565(f): 10:03am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!

Yaayyyy! Congratulations mama. Kisses to Akorede.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Thehomemaker(f): 10:05am On Oct 15, 2018
Congrats Mama Zaynie!

Akorede is here.......Welcome beautiful baby

To God be the glory





zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by bukit05(f): 10:06am On Oct 15, 2018
[quote author=tatacherie post=72101679]
Wow! Congrats mummy
Godblessp
.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by bukit05(f): 10:08am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!


Omg! What if I told u ur name keeps coming through my mind in d mid night wen I woke up, I even prayed for u, only to open the pregnancy thread and saw ur BA, God is wonderful. Congrats ma.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by VannywealthDesi(f): 10:13am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!
awwwww. Congratulations Zaynie. smiley My love to the baby. kiss
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Ot4bdoo: 10:19am On Oct 15, 2018
Congrats ma'am n welcome akorede


quote author=zaynie post=72101510]Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October! [/quote]

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by VannywealthDesi(f): 10:22am On Oct 15, 2018
Tatacherie the way your friend has behaved simply shows you her heart. You are not overreacting at all. How can you call a baby a defeathered turkey's look alike. Haba! It's a very mean statement borne out of envy. She has no child and you already have 2. So don't be surprised she's not happy with your good fortune.

Be very careful with her around your home and children. And continue praying for her. May God have mercy on her and give you wisdom on how to handle her.

My little gold coin. smiley

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by VannywealthDesi(f): 10:24am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:



Ẹ pain am.
Don't worry, you and WhyworryPH can manage October 31st kiss
God help you say you don escape November. cheesy

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tatacherie: 10:29am On Oct 15, 2018
VannywealthDesi:
Tatacherie the way your friend has behaved simply shows you her heart. You are not overreacting at all. How can you call a baby a defeathered turkey's look alike. Haba! It's a very mean statement borne out of envy. She has no child and you already have 2. So don't be surprised she's not happy with your good fortune.

Be very careful with her around your home and children. And continue praying for her. May God have mercy on her and give you wisdom on how to handle her.

My little gold coin. smiley
Thanks ma'am for the advice
It's appreciated
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by 4realwoman: 10:31am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!
Oluwa Oshey oooooooooooo
Congratulations mama, welcome Akorede baby.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by wonyi: 10:47am On Oct 15, 2018
Congratulations to Zaynie. AKOREDE IS HERE.May she be everything you prayed for.


kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mummykyrti(f): 10:51am On Oct 15, 2018
Yay!! Akorede is here, congrats Zaynie..... Chey I told you tongue

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Messyodi(f): 10:51am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!


Yayyyyyy im screaming . Congratsssss mami

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by viettastitches(f): 10:54am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!
congratulations to our ever gallant mama.

Welcome to your new princess. May she always be gifted with the best in everything.



please what is Aina orosun
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Messyodi(f): 10:55am On Oct 15, 2018
tatacherie:
A very Beautiful and sunny morning to y'all mamas
Sorry to serial the thread but lemme rant before I run mad

My 4 year friendship is taking another turn..
So I met this friend of mine 4 years ago while TTC and we have really been supporting each other. We got married same year . We pray togeda, share experiences and even eat together. She is really peaceful and haven't had any issues whatsoever with her for 4 years now. I do love and care for her

I noticed things started changing when early this year I told her I'm expecting. She only said congrats and went offline. Unlike my first preggie where she almost screamed down the building from excitement. Usually I'm not a fan of telling friends and family that one is preggie but she's so close that I couldn't help it, oweing to the fact that I was in another state running a program only for me to return almost due, I felt she would feel sad that I couldn't share my joy with her

So she started ignoring my chats. 6 months later she msgd me only to discover I was on admission.
I finally relocated back to base and delivered. I'm not even bothered that she didn't show up and naming even though her house is just a pole away.

Now the issue is the 1st day she came to see us she met me bathing my 1 week old and said my baby looks like a defeathered turkey.. I was so shocked that I screamed WTF! She apologized and said she meant no harm but that my baby really look funny
Fast forward to 6 weeks later. She came to say hello yesterday and repeated the same thing - holding my baby's two legs and admiring them she was like" Chicken dey hungry me oo "..
This time around I almost told her to leave but had to control myself. I asked her what inspired the thoughts of eating chicken that early morning and she said my newborn's laps inspired her cos they look like chicken laps without apology. I shouted " so full human being now looks like chicken that you want to eat abi?" She burst into laughter.
She has been TTC for 4 years now, 1 miscarriage, 7 failed IUI and currently considering IVF. I had managed my temper so she doesn't feel cos she has no seed yet I mocked her or something. This is someone I dont go a day without saying a word of prayer for. Someone should pls tell me if I'm trying to overreact cos Im already afraid of the friendship
If you were in my shoes how will you react to this statement?



My sister you are not overreacting at all, I hardly get pissed but this got me really angry. Please try your best to avoid this woman, she is not a friend. Be very careful of her. I pray God blesses her with her own seed so she stops being bitter over Gods precious gift to u. Intensify your prayers too over your babies and if possible let her not carry the baby again abeg.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nimi22(f): 11:08am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!

Congrats mama. May she bring goodness and blessings.

That's how you escaped November and I was thinking Cole would have a birthday mate, very good Adele has her.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Trippleblessing(f): 11:11am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!

Congratulobiaaaaaaa

I must eat rice ooo, will have to cook a story for DH ooo, Monday must be free.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jumy16: 11:18am On Oct 15, 2018
tatacherie:
A very Beautiful and sunny morning to y'all mamas
Sorry to serial the thread but lemme rant before I run mad

My 4 year friendship is taking another turn..
So I met this friend of mine 4 years ago while TTC and we have really been supporting each other. We got married same year . We pray togeda, share experiences and even eat together. She is really peaceful and haven't had any issues whatsoever with her for 4 years now. I do love and care for her

I noticed things started changing when early this year I told her I'm expecting. She only said congrats and went offline. Unlike my first preggie where she almost screamed down the building from excitement. Usually I'm not a fan of telling friends and family that one is preggie but she's so close that I couldn't help it, oweing to the fact that I was in another state running a program only for me to return almost due, I felt she would feel sad that I couldn't share my joy with her

So she started ignoring my chats. 6 months later she msgd me only to discover I was on admission.
I finally relocated back to base and delivered. I'm not even bothered that she didn't show up and naming even though her house is just a pole away.

Now the issue is the 1st day she came to see us she met me bathing my 1 week old and said my baby looks like a defeathered turkey.. I was so shocked that I screamed WTF! She apologized and said she meant no harm but that my baby really look funny
Fast forward to 6 weeks later. She came to say hello yesterday and repeated the same thing - holding my baby's two legs and admiring them she was like" Chicken dey hungry me oo "..
This time around I almost told her to leave but had to control myself. I asked her what inspired the thoughts of eating chicken that early morning and she said my newborn's laps inspired her cos they look like chicken laps without apology. I shouted " so full human being now looks like chicken that you want to eat abi?" She burst into laughter.
She has been TTC for 4 years now, 1 miscarriage, 7 failed IUI and currently considering IVF. I had managed my temper so she doesn't feel cos she has no seed yet I mocked her or something. This is someone I dont go a day without saying a word of prayer for. Someone should pls tell me if I'm trying to overreact cos Im already afraid of the friendship
If you were in my shoes how will you react to this statement?


my sis. Ur not overreacting, how can someone call a precious gift chicken...I think there's more to it, coz according to you she repeat it each time she cm visit..she might be looking for a way to get you angry for you to abuse her and she will hold it against you.

Just avoid her and still keep prayer for her till she HV her own baby, then you can start ur close friendship again..

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tatacherie: 11:22am On Oct 15, 2018
Messyodi:


My sister you are not overreacting at all, I hardly get pissed but this got me really angry. Please try your best to avoid this woman, she is not a friend. Be very careful of her. I pray God blesses her with her own seed so she stops being bitter over Gods precious gift to u. Intensify your prayers too over your babies and if possible let her not carry the baby again abeg.
Thanks ma for this one. I'll avoid her for now that way she won't get to carry baby cos same yesterday she told baby she'll be coming to carry her every Sunday based on godmother wey she be
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by whyworryPH(f): 11:23am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!

Congratulations my troublina grin
So you finally twerked Akorede out like you promised. Anyway, I just pitied you and allowed you give birth in October. Please kiss baby for me kiss

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by lioha(f): 11:23am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!

Wow congratulations

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jumy16: 11:24am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!
congrat mama, God bless our Akorede...he will always korewa for the family....

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by atumomo(f): 11:28am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!

Congratulations Ma'am Masha Allah. May Allah's blessings be upon her always.
Congratulations to all the October Mamas, May God bless our Los for us.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tatacherie: 11:28am On Oct 15, 2018
jumy16:
my sis. Ur not overreacting, how can someone call a precious gift chicken...I think there's more to it, coz according to you she repeat it each time she cm visit..she might be looking for a way to get you angry for you to abuse her and she will hold it against you.

Just avoid her and still keep prayer for her till she HV her own baby, then you can start ur close friendship again..
OK ma thanks for your advice
I'll sure keep praying for her
Few weeks ago I dreamt a close friend initiated me into a cult just so I can destroy my home with my tongue, and before it will be clear the deed has been done, 1 out of my 3 fresh eggs broke in same dream. Since then I've been on vigil
So seeing this yesterday got me really worried
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mum2bsoon: 11:31am On Oct 15, 2018
zaynie:
Early Monday Goodness.

Akorede was born around 6am this morning.

Team October!
Congratulations mama, may she continually bring fortune to your live. Welcome baby Akorede

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by JGracious: 11:36am On Oct 15, 2018
tatacherie:


My 4 year friendship is taking another turn..

If you were in my shoes how will you react to this statement?



Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.

Every negative intent over your baby is hereby nullified.

Your friend needs joy and peace that only God can give. Her state of mind has gone haywire I think.

You don't need such bad energy/aura around you or your home.

If she comes around again and dares says such bad comments, confront her and tell her to speak words only seasoned with grace.

cheers.

Read beyedew's diary post about last month or so. She shared a similar occurence and how she overcame. Prayer, discernment and wisdom is very key.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by talltosyne: 11:38am On Oct 15, 2018
tatacherie:

OK ma thanks for your advice
I'll sure keep praying for her
Few weeks ago I dreamt a close friend initiated me into a cult just so I can destroy my home with my tongue, and before it will be clear the deed has been done, 1 out of my 3 fresh eggs broke in same dream. Since then I've been on vigil
So seeing this yesterday got me really worried

U Ve to be very careful and vigilant, she is up to some and God has revealed it to u in ur dream.
We shall not mourn over little ones IJN.

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