Postfut:


Damn! I wish I could like this post 1000 times. Anywhere you are I definitely owe you a bottle. Although I am not in Nigeria now so if you don’t mind can drop your account number.

OK baba thanks....should I drop the Acc. No for sure?

nho4:

OK baba thanks....should I drop the Acc. No for sure?

I kid you not go ahead. At least 4k to recharge your phone so you can keep advising these mumu boys who still believe in “love”

[quote author=Postfut post=72127651]

I kid you not go ahead. At least 4k to recharge your phone so you can keep advising these muni boys who still believe in “love”[/]

nho4:


0016482857
Stanbic IBTC

Thanks and God bless...I will be expecting it

Can I get your full name. Edit it out within 2min

@nho4 still waiting for your full name . Could you be fast?

nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...

#Ma Nigger

Abeg someone shl help me give this Guy 4 bottles of something chilled

@nho4, nho5 .

I don’t know why someone is hiding your posts. I can’t see your mention. Can you mention me on a dead thread?

Nigga, you see, when you encounter this kind of undisputed unfaithfulness and fraustrated excuses from this kind of Girl

I will advice that You call it Quit!

I have read some many stories that ladies will use their Man's device, log on to Facebook and forget to logout.
This gave the Guy in this story, the opportunity to uncover the lady's secret with other men. Example: either sleeping with them or sending them nude pictures to them and she receiving back theirs or sending them her phone number to start dating them behind the girl man's back.

All these little factors is responsible for Boyfriend and Girlfriend relationship being dashed to pieces.

So Nigga, do not let her use your 'Head to drink Garri'.
Leave her and let her Go.
It is well with You

spyg1:
The reason why i came here for advice is to avoid taking a decision that i will not regret in future.
There is a girl I met at a friend's wedding sometime last year, she is 24 years and a 200L student while iam 30 years old postgraduate student but an amateur when it comes to relationship. We started dating, at first I wasn't serious because I don't have enough money to take care of a girl, as a student sponsoring myself, I hardly have enough money to take care of her needs, she always complain that I don't take care of her which her friend's guy use to take care of her, the girl in question always advice my girl to quit our relationship because iam a broke guy and even if I get a job in future I will dump her for another lady, that iam just deceiving her, nevertheless she do assure her that I will not disappoint her, despite her friend's advice the love grew even stronger, at times she will buy me some gifts, me too I do buy some for her, having seen the commitment in her, then I started paying attention to her hoping that if things work well I will take her to the alter.
But, there was a day she called me to come and meet her at a particular Junction, on my arrival to the place I saw her exchanging phone number with a guy in car, upon enquiry, I discovered that she did not know the guy before, then I left home quietly she later called and apologized which I accepted. Another time I called her around 10pm and I discovered that she blacklisted my number, she did this twice which I confronted her and suggested that we should quit, she begged me and cry for Africa then I accepted her back again, After that, sometimes she will not pick my calls in the night and the following day she will giving excuses that she was sleeping, her phone is on silence or she plugged in her neighbors house etc, I started withdrawing from her, she called me one day and started crying that what her friends were advising her was true, I was just using her, iam just like other guys, she know the reason why iam doing this, is because she asked me to go and see her parents bla bla. To fast forward the story, she login her Facebook account on my phone and she forgot to logout, when I went through her chat I discovered that she use to give people they meet on Facebook her phone number and according to the chart I discovered that she met one yesterday, I also discovered that she is still having an affairs with her ex.
Note: Anytime i call her to come to my house she used to come.
I feel like quitting the relationship but because of sympathy and I don’t want it to look as if I disappointed her. Honestly iam seriously confused, now my question is this; is it wrong that I went through her chat?
Second, what should I do? should I confront her? or should I quit quietly?
Pls I need your sincere advice, insults are welcomed. I will appreciate if the modulator push this to the front page.

PLS IGNORE MY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS

please just leave her,i beg you, cos her friends were right.

[quote author=Postfut post=72128448]@nho4, nho5 .

I don’t know why someone is hiding your posts. I can’t see your mention. Can you mention me on a dead thread?[/qu

nh04:


Antispam engine keep banning my nairaland account each time I post my full name

Here is my full acc name in dashed format to avoid being banned

O-D-I-A-N-O-S-E-N I-Z-I-B-I-L-I

Done and dusted. You should have received it Have a nice day.

have not even seen any gal commented or replies on this trend,shame shame shame .

Postfut:


Done and dusted. You should have received it Have a nice day.

Wow this is unbelievable... I can't believe my eyes
God bless you in a million folds...I could not believe my eyes when I saw the alert on my phone..

Below is the attached image of the alert
Once again thanks and God bless you and your family. Amen

nh04:


Wow this is unbelievable... I can't believe my eyes
God bless you in a million folds...I could not believe my eyes when I saw the alert on my phone..

Below is the attached image of the alert
Once again thanks and God bless you and your family. Amen

You are welcome. Please accept my widow’s mite. I wish I had more to give

[quote author=nho4 post=72114297]Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...



this nigga u deserve one bottle of trophy abeg.. u av nailed it for that op already...a word is enough for d wise

Did you bring a thread, when you were dating her? Or did you require our input when u were enjoyin the kpomo and things were rosy.

Why stressing our brain to make things better for you?

Ok

You better follow your instinct

Did you see a cheating sign??

Bro I will tell you this once.
















Go and...






























Make money and see how she will foolishly and willingly start bowing down to you.

Go and make money my friend and stop wasting your time with empty headed girls.

What I realized abt u was that you knew she was cheating on you but you soft to her n she is now taking you for granted. If you knw vr well that she is a lady you want to start your life wit, u need to act now.. How do u do that? you have enough evidence to confront her already and make sure you table those evidence rite on her face. Then, tell her if she refuse to amend her way totally, you are quitting. From there beginning to watch her ways.. Never pity a woman you have in mind to have as your spouse.

anochuko01:
lol. one of the reasons I'm not in a relationship. I just hate drama

where is the address to your Seminary?

In banks, they use KYC. It means Know Your Customers.
But in your own case, you better know your girl friend if u want peace of mind.
The truth is u don't know the girl and u must learn that...

spyg1:

spyg1:
The reason why i came here for advice is to avoid taking a decision that i will not regret in future.

There is a girl I met at a friend's wedding sometime last year, she is 24 years and a 200L student while I am 30 years old postgraduate student but an amateur when it comes to relationship.

We started dating, at first I wasn't serious because I don't have enough money to take care of a girl, as a student sponsoring myself, I hardly have enough money to take care of her needs, she always complain that I don't take care of her which her friend's guy use to take care of her, the girl in question always advice my girl to quit our relationship because I am a broke guy and even if I get a job in future I will dump her for another lady, that I am just deceiving her, nevertheless she do assure her that I will not disappoint her, despite her friend's advice the love grew even stronger, at times she will buy me some gifts, me too I do buy some for her, having seen the commitment in her, then I started paying attention to her hoping that if things work well I will take her to the alter.

But, there was a day she called me to come and meet her at a particular Junction, on my arrival to the place I saw her exchanging phone number with a guy in car, upon enquiry, I discovered that she did not know the guy before, then I left home quietly she later called and apologized which I accepted.

Another time I called her around 10pm and I discovered that she blacklisted my number, she did this twice which I confronted her and suggested that we should quit, she begged me and cry for Africa then I accepted her back again.

After that, sometimes she will not pick my calls in the night and the following day she will giving excuses that she was sleeping, her phone is on silence or she plugged in her neighbors house etc, I started withdrawing from her, she called me one day and started crying that what her friends were advising her was true, I was just using her, I am just like other guys, she know the reason why I am doing this, is because she asked me to go and see her parents bla bla.

To fast forward the story, she login her Facebook account on my phone and she forgot to logout, when I went through her chat I discovered that she use to give people they meet on Facebook her phone number and according to the chart I discovered that she met one yesterday, I also discovered that she is still having an affairs with her ex.

Note: Anytime i call her to come to my house she used to come.

I feel like quitting the relationship but because of sympathy and I don’t want it to look as if I disappointed her. Honestly I am seriously confused, now my question is this; is it wrong that I went through her chat?

Second, what should I do? should I confront her? or should I quit quietly?

Pls I need your sincere advice, insults are welcomed. I will appreciate if the modulator push this to the front page.

PLS IGNORE MY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS

Forget about her patapata, face your PGD program & garri supply business. Its difficult to keep healthy relationship with small girls of her age

nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...

Real bitter truth mehn!

Some people are here bragging about how they are flirting with HIV in a bid to avoid women.


If all of you were not dating the wrong women, why would you think the only thing women have to offer you is sex? In the same way, women assume the only thing men have to offer them is money


All of you with such disgusting ideas of Tue opposite sex have psychological issues..... You all need to change your perspective and change your mentalities.


Relationships are not working because both men and women in this country have the wrong idea of a relationship. If women were not collecting money from men, nobody would take them for granted. And if men were not getting sex from women, nobody will take them for granted


All of you need to reevaluate your lives and ask yourself what the person in your life can do for you aside money and sex. There is more to a relationship than those things and it is only when you find that 'more' with someone that you will appreciate a relationship.


Maybe when you have finished smashing ashawo with 1k, she will listen to how your day went and offer you advice on your business venture.

The first mistake you made was dating an undergraduate. They have never hustled to make their own money before. So, they don't understand how hard it is to make money.

My advice: next time, date a girl that has finished youth service and is working or looking for a job. These ones understand the struggle out there.

Bro, at 30, you don't need this kind of woman.