KiZiie: Clear case of emotional blackmail. Been there, done that. [Wipes shoulders for invincible dust ] Well my playa' first and flowmost, you shouldn't have gone through her texts. Now I know how tempting this can be, Coming from a guy who had always been looking for how to hack accounts in the first place, hehe. But still... It's wrong. Total invasion of privacy.
Secondly, you not breaking up with her is letting your self down, invariably placing yourself second for someone who seemingly betrayed you! Yes she may still love you but wants to still be able to maintain a level of lifestyle you're currently not ready for... My good man, I say to hell with the relationship! And just like me... Date when you have your stuff together.
confused feminist. feminist with wide pvssy
continue fooling yourself there with your babysit comment
Hassan88: My guy, since u done Bleep her make u jst waka ur way except say u neva Bleep her b4 now. Meanwhile i will vehemently advice u to kindly but not gently give her the last cruel fucking of her life that she will neva forget in a hurry but no give am belle oo. I repeat, no score goal oo.
See advice,
So is people like you that are responsible for the clumsy way some ladies walk.
Pls qiut. Run away. If not she will keep using you as a back up. Whenever she breaks up other guy she will come crying to you cos she knows you love her. Let her make up her mind by letting her go.
You have a point but how would you manage such issues from ladies when it comes up after marriage?
nho4: Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.
To hell with ladies and those dating them. Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.
I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.
Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.
Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us. Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.
I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.
Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.
Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.
Real love only exists between mother and child...
I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.
You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.
Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.
I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.
Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.
I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.
If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.
All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...
Lol! She likes you because she knows you're the take home type. She equally wants to feel the street before she eventually takes u home. Let's say you're like her savings. Wise up and run for ur life
spyg1: The reason why i came here for advice is to avoid taking a decision that i will not regret in future.
There is a girl I met at a friend's wedding sometime last year, she is 24 years and a 200L student while I am 30 years old postgraduate student but an amateur when it comes to relationship.
We started dating, at first I wasn't serious because I don't have enough money to take care of a girl, as a student sponsoring myself, I hardly have enough money to take care of her needs, she always complain that I don't take care of her which her friend's guy use to take care of her, the girl in question always advice my girl to quit our relationship because I am a broke guy and even if I get a job in future I will dump her for another lady, that I am just deceiving her, nevertheless she do assure her that I will not disappoint her, despite her friend's advice the love grew even stronger, at times she will buy me some gifts, me too I do buy some for her, having seen the commitment in her, then I started paying attention to her hoping that if things work well I will take her to the alter.
But, there was a day she called me to come and meet her at a particular Junction, on my arrival to the place I saw her exchanging phone number with a guy in car, upon enquiry, I discovered that she did not know the guy before, then I left home quietly she later called and apologized which I accepted.
Another time I called her around 10pm and I discovered that she blacklisted my number, she did this twice which I confronted her and suggested that we should quit, she begged me and cry for Africa then I accepted her back again.
After that, sometimes she will not pick my calls in the night and the following day she will giving excuses that she was sleeping, her phone is on silence or she plugged in her neighbors house etc, I started withdrawing from her, she called me one day and started crying that what her friends were advising her was true, I was just using her, I am just like other guys, she know the reason why I am doing this, is because she asked me to go and see her parents bla bla.
To fast forward the story, she login her Facebook account on my phone and she forgot to logout, when I went through her chat I discovered that she use to give people they meet on Facebook her phone number and according to the chart I discovered that she met one yesterday, I also discovered that she is still having an affairs with her ex.
Note: Anytime i call her to come to my house she used to come.
I feel like quitting the relationship but because of sympathy and I don’t want it to look as if I disappointed her. Honestly I am seriously confused, now my question is this; is it wrong that I went through her chat?
Second, what should I do? should I confront her? or should I quit quietly?
Pls I need your sincere advice, insults are welcomed. I will appreciate if the modulator push this to the front page.
PLS IGNORE MY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS
Im happy u said ure an armature in relationships bt nobody is totally an expert.
Now it’s obvious u love this gal bt the big issue here is trust as usual with a lot of relationships. How do u know she’s for real? Well 1stly nobody is perfect bt there is a limit to certain acceptable behaviors in a relationship. If she over crosses those limits then pls know she not for u or worth the time.
Shud u check her Fb? No bt theres nothing wrong with it if ure planning to marry such person especially if u have reasons to suspect her. Note once there are too many suspicions it’s most likely not coincidence bt a red flag. Whatever u saw on her fb chat confront her with it calmly and hear her explanation if they are not satisfactory or she starts to apologize/beg, the issue is how many times will she keep doing so. My advice is if sm1 can’t truly change let them go so u have ur peace of mind. Also what to consider is her character, her frnds and the type of conversations. Too many lies is a red flag also.
spyg1: The reason why i came here for advice is to avoid taking a decision that i will not regret in future.
There is a girl I met at a friend's wedding sometime last year, she is 24 years and a 200L student while I am 30 years old postgraduate student but an amateur when it comes to relationship.
We started dating, at first I wasn't serious because I don't have enough money to take care of a girl, as a student sponsoring myself, I hardly have enough money to take care of her needs, she always complain that I don't take care of her which her friend's guy use to take care of her, the girl in question always advice my girl to quit our relationship because I am a broke guy and even if I get a job in future I will dump her for another lady, that I am just deceiving her, nevertheless she do assure her that I will not disappoint her, despite her friend's advice the love grew even stronger, at times she will buy me some gifts, me too I do buy some for her, having seen the commitment in her, then I started paying attention to her hoping that if things work well I will take her to the alter.
But, there was a day she called me to come and meet her at a particular Junction, on my arrival to the place I saw her exchanging phone number with a guy in car, upon enquiry, I discovered that she did not know the guy before, then I left home quietly she later called and apologized which I accepted.
Another time I called her around 10pm and I discovered that she blacklisted my number, she did this twice which I confronted her and suggested that we should quit, she begged me and cry for Africa then I accepted her back again.
After that, sometimes she will not pick my calls in the night and the following day she will giving excuses that she was sleeping, her phone is on silence or she plugged in her neighbors house etc, I started withdrawing from her, she called me one day and started crying that what her friends were advising her was true, I was just using her, I am just like other guys, she know the reason why I am doing this, is because she asked me to go and see her parents bla bla.
To fast forward the story, she login her Facebook account on my phone and she forgot to logout, when I went through her chat I discovered that she use to give people they meet on Facebook her phone number and according to the chart I discovered that she met one yesterday, I also discovered that she is still having an affairs with her ex.
Note: Anytime i call her to come to my house she used to come.
I feel like quitting the relationship but because of sympathy and I don’t want it to look as if I disappointed her. Honestly I am seriously confused, now my question is this; is it wrong that I went through her chat?
Second, what should I do? should I confront her? or should I quit quietly?
Pls I need your sincere advice, insults are welcomed. I will appreciate if the modulator push this to the front page.
PLS IGNORE MY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS
it is better you quit now otherwise you will regret in future. Don't be surprised if you travel for one week and your neighbor as stated digging her before you come back.
God bless you bro you've said it all n that's the same ideology i take with mebeverywhere I go. Once ladies are around u they can tell when you're not influenced by them and this makes you more desirable because they can't have you. We as men need to focus on making sure we can stand for ourselves before anything else follows..
nho4: Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.
To hell with ladies and those dating them. Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.
I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.
Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.
Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us. Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.
I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.
Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.
Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.
Real love only exists between mother and child...
I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.
You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.
Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.
I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.
Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.
I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.
If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.
All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...
Young man... You will cry later if you don't dump that girl right now... I was in this shoe some 15years ago dated her for 5years.. I was in my finals... She was in 200 level. I caught her several times fucking a lecturer but I was still forming Ramson noah
I stayed back because lot of people told her I was going to dump her.. I wanted to prove them wrong.. gues what.. my sorry ass was dumped for someone I even know.
Nevertheless.. many ladies suffered it though.. I played Jim iyke all the time. I ate my cakes and have them back.
Guess the song I listened to all through : Eamon- Fu**CK it
The most important thing is to put your life in check... And not put it in a woman's hand. It's never worth it.
The rules
***Never promise a woman marriage ( when you are ready.. you will be surprised as to the kind of woman you will attract.. not all this awarawun)
nho4: Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.
To hell with ladies and those dating them. Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.
I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.
Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.
Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us. Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.
I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.
Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.
Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.
Real love only exists between mother and child...
I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.
You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.
Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.
I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.
Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.
I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.
If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.
All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...
nho4: Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.
To hell with ladies and those dating them. Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.
I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.
Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.
Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us. Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.
I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.
Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.
Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.
Real love only exists between mother and child...
I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.
You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.
Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.
I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.
Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.
I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.
If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.
All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...
Bros i need you to mentor me walahi... I need this your mindset Lawwwd.. This piece is an eyeopener for guys even me
spyg1: The reason why i came here for advice is to avoid taking a decision that i will not regret in future.
There is a girl I met at a friend's wedding sometime last year, she is 24 years and a 200L student while I am 30 years old postgraduate student but an amateur when it comes to relationship.
We started dating, at first I wasn't serious because I don't have enough money to take care of a girl, as a student sponsoring myself, I hardly have enough money to take care of her needs, she always complain that I don't take care of her which her friend's guy use to take care of her, the girl in question always advice my girl to quit our relationship because I am a broke guy and even if I get a job in future I will dump her for another lady, that I am just deceiving her, nevertheless she do assure her that I will not disappoint her, despite her friend's advice the love grew even stronger, at times she will buy me some gifts, me too I do buy some for her, having seen the commitment in her, then I started paying attention to her hoping that if things work well I will take her to the alter.
But, there was a day she called me to come and meet her at a particular Junction, on my arrival to the place I saw her exchanging phone number with a guy in car, upon enquiry, I discovered that she did not know the guy before, then I left home quietly she later called and apologized which I accepted.
Another time I called her around 10pm and I discovered that she blacklisted my number, she did this twice which I confronted her and suggested that we should quit, she begged me and cry for Africa then I accepted her back again.
After that, sometimes she will not pick my calls in the night and the following day she will giving excuses that she was sleeping, her phone is on silence or she plugged in her neighbors house etc, I started withdrawing from her, she called me one day and started crying that what her friends were advising her was true, I was just using her, I am just like other guys, she know the reason why I am doing this, is because she asked me to go and see her parents bla bla.
To fast forward the story, she login her Facebook account on my phone and she forgot to logout, when I went through her chat I discovered that she use to give people they meet on Facebook her phone number and according to the chart I discovered that she met one yesterday, I also discovered that she is still having an affairs with her ex.
Note: Anytime i call her to come to my house she used to come.
I feel like quitting the relationship but because of sympathy and I don’t want it to look as if I disappointed her. Honestly I am seriously confused, now my question is this; is it wrong that I went through her chat?
Second, what should I do? should I confront her? or should I quit quietly?
Pls I need your sincere advice, insults are welcomed. I will appreciate if the modulator push this to the front page.
safarigirl: Some people are here bragging about how they are flirting with HIV in a bid to avoid women.
If all of you were not dating the wrong women, why would you think the only thing women have to offer you is sex? In the same way, women assume the only thing men have to offer them is money
All of you with such disgusting ideas of Tue opposite sex have psychological issues..... You all need to change your perspective and change your mentalities.
Relationships are not working because both men and women in this country have the wrong idea of a relationship. If women were not collecting money from men, nobody would take them for granted. And if men were not getting sex from women, nobody will take them for granted. Both men and women are in useless relationships filled with insults because of sex and money. A woman will insult you because you don't have money and a man will insult you because you are collecting his money.
All of you need to reevaluate your lives and ask yourself what the person in your life can do for you aside money and sex. There is more to a relationship than those things and it is only when you find that 'more' with someone that you will appreciate a relationship.
Maybe when you have finished smashing ashawo with 1k, she will listen to how your day went and offer you advice on your business venture. I don't even believe in the concept of love, but things like trust, respect and understanding are important in a relationship and most of you don't have that.
I feel sad for this generation
Hmmm,well said, the guy made sense in some part but belittle women in some part, I pity the women satisfying his urge with 1k, chai some women dey fall our hands i swear
gabinogem: smh...woman just dey use u play ping-pong, u are here asking careless question... guy focus on ur future & minimize her, cuz that's exactly what she's done to you.
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gabinogem: smh...woman just dey use u play ping-pong, u are here asking careless question... guy focus on ur future & minimize her, cuz that's exactly what she's done to you.
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gabinogem: smh...woman just dey use u play ping-pong, u are here asking careless question... guy focus on ur future & minimize her, cuz that's exactly what she's done to you.
nho4: Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.
To hell with ladies and those dating them. Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.
I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.
Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.
Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us. Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.
I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.
Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.
Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.
Real love only exists between mother and child...
I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.
You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.
Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.
I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.
Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.
I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.
If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.
All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...
Man! You took this out of my mind!
when I tell them love doesn't exist they think, i lack emotion, or something, honestly, if you are a guy and you let a woman control your life like she is the boss, and play you around and laugh behind you, my brother you are a big fool and a shame to men in general.
To the OP, if after all these revelations you are still asking if you should leave her, then you have a problem, what do you mean by "I pity her", "I don't want to disappoint her"! are you kidding me, maybe until she fries your balls and eats before you will understand!
To all the Men in wombed-men clothes, Don't and I repeat Don't ever stay in a relationship because of pity, Most of those girls, if you know half of what they have done to guys like you, you won't want to greet them talk of dating them! If any man in this age is still be used as a backup, then that man needs deliverance!
My bro,,, small doctor have said it all,, "if u nor get money, hide ur face" in everything, including relationship,, u r preaching love and anoda person is providing for her needs,, my guy reason am Na,, it's Wen u ar broke u struggle in a relationship,, but if dere is cash,, u can date 5 gals,, but none will complain, set will b commited,cos dey know Wat dey will lose if dey mess up,,, so d tin is,, focus on how to make money,, dats my motivation, don't av a gal friend myself,, cos of d kind of trauma u r in,, don't wanna experience dat shit again,,, just wanna b happy n control my life,, don't want any gal to b complaining,, giving excuses to cheat becos I couldn't meet up with her needs,, den I will b indoors thinking,, maybe crying,,, depressed,,,, n wallowing in pain for a bitch,,,,I don't do dat no more bro,,, I control everything around ME,,,
But make money bro,, make money,,, n u will know dat love is sweet,,, even Davido said it,,, "Wen money enter love is sweet""
Triniti: Baba, forget about this girl and move on, your life presently does not need divided attention. You should focus more now on having stable source of income
ur brain is functioning well today what happen?lol
