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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by luminouz(m): 10:29am On Oct 16, 2018 |
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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by McCoy662(m): 10:30am On Oct 16, 2018 |
nigga just tell her what u saw and ask her how the situation can be handled. for me, I love cos of sex. any day I'm denied of it, I find my way. I don't care how many bfs she has. so, u better not trouble urself... |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by luminouz(m): 10:31am On Oct 16, 2018 |
princfred:Not me dou...she can have d rest!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Chris2006: 10:32am On Oct 16, 2018 |
Bros, I will advice you to run away from this lady. I am currently in a marriage with similar antecedents to what you described above. My wife has made life miserable since the day we wedded. I wouldn't wish what I am going through. on any man. Bros, safe yourself from future unhappiness. Call it quits with this lady. Ladies even in marriage can not stop cheating once they have done it before. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Afodami: 10:32am On Oct 16, 2018 |
Please confront her, let her know what she is making you pass through nd quit the relationship. Something like that is happening to me now as well. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by midehi2(f): 10:33am On Oct 16, 2018 |
luminouz:Exactly why I blame them, why stoop so low to sex for 1k, why will men even indulge in sex with 100k to women, they are both sick. the bottom line: he should make money first before girlfriend, if not someone with money will boyfriend her under his nose ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by tejiri4(m): 10:33am On Oct 16, 2018 |
midehi2: And dis one will accept less than 1k, girls can form like kilode 7 Likes |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by eraankusam07(m): 10:34am On Oct 16, 2018 |
You sounded A good man but a fool in human relationship. When it come to matter of woman partnership, there is nothing like sympathy especialy the one has to do with marriage. Donnot keep a relationship for pity, rather builds it on trust. Through this one will have peace,joy etc, Actually i donot know the agreement between you, whether there will nothing as such! but i don't think that her behaviour will be tolerated in a sucessful relationship. Pls Bros don't build a house on a weak foundation,because it give no credit rather displeasure if not death. Already she is displaying her character(cheating) indirectly for you, of which i don't think you can bear, meanwhile, let her know about your discovery. If she admits or confess and accepted to apologise-promise not to repeat it for you,then you can decide, to forgive. If she fail to apologise or rather denied it, bros withdraw, note: don't accept or compromise her apology base on sympathy. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by safarigirl(f): 10:34am On Oct 16, 2018 |
Skepticus:1k per night prostitutes barely have time to listen to your troubles. They have theirs. Married men are the biggest patrons of prostitutes because they enjoy running away from their troubles, rather than confronting them..... And really, they married their trouble. Married women also have troubles, but the difference is, women are emotionally and mentally stronger than men. Some months ago, someone came to NL to tell us how he contracted HIV from visiting prostitutes, so, when you people are dishing out such strange advise, rather than encouraging abstinence and basic self control, remember that nothing is 100%. And I don't know who you tag "good girls".....but just because someone doesn't work in a brothel, doesn't make the person any less of a prostitute. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Babaj02: 10:34am On Oct 16, 2018 |
Cheating women are professional pretenders. Sit her down, confront her and quit. It will be painful at the initial stage but bear. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. If you marry her, she will cheat on you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by spyg1(m): 10:34am On Oct 16, 2018 |
Acidosis:tanx bro |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by hermesprogidy(m): 10:34am On Oct 16, 2018 |
Sissies everywhere. What is it with sissy arsed men these days? You need Nairaland to tell you you're being used? Please grow a ball and dump her. Or keep straffing her for fun and dump her later. Use a condom though. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Oponel1962: 10:35am On Oct 16, 2018 |
Say BYE BYE to nonsense. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by midehi2(f): 10:35am On Oct 16, 2018 |
tejiri4:God forbid bad thing, can never exchange |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by spyg1(m): 10:35am On Oct 16, 2018 |
Tinalex:Tanx sis |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by dejonathan(f): 10:37am On Oct 16, 2018 |
emerged01:He's not saying one shouldn't marry...He only said one shouldn't make himself slave to nowadays ladies 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 10:38am On Oct 16, 2018 |
spyg1:Marriage based on sympathy does not last. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by princfred(m): 10:39am On Oct 16, 2018 |
luminouz:Grammar matter soo much to her than the matter at hand. The guy is talking were e dey pain am, she is weighing his grammer. Lol ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Snow87(m): 10:39am On Oct 16, 2018 |
midehi2:Himself dey try abi 1k no plenty to use and enter dat fish smelling bank, me na Eva soap, water and my left hand dey rush me. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 10:39am On Oct 16, 2018 |
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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Aarondan(m): 10:40am On Oct 16, 2018 |
7[/color][color=#000099] nho4: I became the victim of circumstance after she got to know the depth of my love for her. She's now taking advantage of my weakness. I think I have to consider quitting. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by general09: 10:40am On Oct 16, 2018 |
No! Don't leave her yet. Help her to live the life that she want. How do you do that? 1. Control your heart from loving her 2. Convert that love to anger 3. Channel that anger to your di*k 4. If you do the item 3 sincerely, you will notice the reaction on your di*k. It will become aware of your pain thereby becoming malicious that when you look at it when it's charged, you will see the malice written all over it. It will be thick, strong, full of veins..that's your weapon bro. That's your weapon! 5. Now use it to attack her kpekus vigorously Note: when attacking, don't do it for you to enjoy. Tell yourself that your doing it for her ie that your trying to liberate her from a curse. 6. Keep doing it at every opportunity. Boy! She will take off and will never blame you. Instead, when ever she sees you she will be like good afternoon bross. Try this and thank me later. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Deepfreezer(m): 10:41am On Oct 16, 2018 |
The girls I roll with know I don't have time, If I need you, I will place a call, once you done with ur duty, I will settle you and off you go. No time for chitty chat or sweet talk.. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Deepfreezer(m): 10:41am On Oct 16, 2018 |
The girls I roll with know I don't have time, If I need you, I will place a call, once you done with ur duty, I will settle you and off you go. No time for chitty chat or sweet talk. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Danielsjnr(m): 10:41am On Oct 16, 2018 |
[quote author=nho4 post=72114297]Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend. To hell with ladies and those dating them. Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy. I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets. Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing. Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us. Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round. I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment. Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist. Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend. Real love only exists between mother and child... I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex. You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies. Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily. I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend. Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady. I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime. If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex. All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...[/quote Ride on sir Speak into their medulla... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by luminouz(m): 10:42am On Oct 16, 2018 |
midehi2: So he should make money first?? Why?? Cuz A poor guy can't find love or is love tied to money now? I still don't get that mentality from naija babes....WHY CANT U ALL FVCKING WORK FOR UR OWN MONEY ![]() What's really ur value to the relationship naaaaaaaaa...midehi? The guy didn't want any emotional bullcrap and bought sex n the olosho got paid,everyone is happy I get ur point of buying sex.. But hey,ur lucky u haven't been emotionally fvcked like OP before! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by error4040: 10:43am On Oct 16, 2018 |
Postfut:At the Bolded oga take ya time o which kind intemidation be this ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by princfred(m): 10:44am On Oct 16, 2018 |
emerged01:A mans life is more in danger from gf since most times they make the man believe he is the only one soo overtime he starts bleeping raw (thinking he is the only king of the jungle ) unlike with Olosho where both parties are always careful and on their toes (like a midget at the urinary) to play safe (especially the guy knowing fully well that he is in no man's land). Spiritually, both are bombs range away from righteousness. Note: This is not advocating or advising people to go to ashawo because thise one i believe have their huge problems abd inherently heinous spirits and mindset that turned then into whores. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by pocohantas(f): 10:45am On Oct 16, 2018 |
nho4: Surprisingly what you typed is the perfect formula for anyone, male or female who wants to develop a cold mentality to the opposite sex. But then, them dey finally tire. Except they gat no conscience. All the guys hailing you, get babes o. They will still logout to call her for 27mins. ![]() By the way, if you were a female. You would have been called a bitter, frustrated, sex-starved feminist ![]() ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 10:46am On Oct 16, 2018 |
haconjy: Regret what...?? Taking charge of ur emotions ?? and not allow a woman determine ur happiness like the OP is what he will regret....?? U are the one that deserve slap cos u didn't see his message.....U might not agree with his idea of visiting prostitutess because u have customized one lady to urself in the name of marriage in Dec 8.... Weda in marriage or just sexxual relationship, a man still needs to get a grip of himself and not allow sexx-drive rule him.....because women will always use sex as a weapon against u weda outside marriage or legally in marriage, even though they want it as well, but will make it look like it's a favour they are doing for u...The Op is clearly letting pvssy confuse him...He can see clearly he's been used and cheated on but he can't reason anymore Happy married life in advance anyways 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by luminouz(m): 10:47am On Oct 16, 2018 |
safarigirl: Lmaoooo N women are emotionally and mentally stronger eh?? Yet u lots don't just wanna WORK FOR UR OWN MONEY!!! 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 10:48am On Oct 16, 2018 |
Run out man like a mad man |
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