nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...

stupidity:
Lol. Seriously?

Geenosko:
I understand that everyone has the right to air their views but it's very disturbing that men can actually reason like this and people actually support this line of thought.

One significant reason is that certain people (male and female) have reduced relationships to being transactional.

As a lady pray to avoid men like the person who was quoted and as a guy pray that your sisters never come across men like him.

It's terrible to have such a mindset.

Dillusionist:
That boy and the rest of them that liked that post are disappointment to humanity

Earthquake1:
The guy said nothing but the truth

Once men learn to control their sexual urge they start controlling all the girls around them

emmyN:
I actually read through to the third page of that thread but was surprised no one came out to challenge that statement. The encomiums rather kept pouring in. He's entitled to his opinion though.

I guess it's the values we've adopted in the society plus unpalatable experiences in the hands of some ladies, who seem to have of late taken on the majority, that have shaped men to reason in this way.

Life is not all about sex and money. We were created to love.

itsmeurLady:


Bros sorry oo, but if you don't have esteem issues, why do u need to control a lady? God gave her to you as a partner. A helpmate not a slave that u need to have control over. She is your friend not your opponent...

Oreofepeters:
why the thing cum pain you like this nau.?

However There are some truth in What he said, considering the fact that Nigerian ladies are becoming more and more materialistic day after day. It's becoming more like "the pvssy goes to the highest bidder".

Do you think it worth the stress?.

Earthquake1:


Women are meant to be controlled, forget your enlightened 'internet' stance

Earthquake1:
The guy said nothing but the truth

Once men learn to control their sexual urge they start controlling all the girls around them

N0favors:
I support him 100% and I’m heading to the thread to like his post

MariaLavina:
Two things change men like this:

Love

Time.

No time for argument.

Fierce11:
Any guy that undergoes emotional stress, trauma and anxiety during or after any relationship is a weak sissy and an unhealthy and dying vagabond..

Ladyhippolyta88:
OP you try.
All I can say is that may genuine ladies not jam or meet these kind of men(the one who made the post plus those that liked and shared it)with such a mindset.

Earthquake1:


Women are meant to be controlled, forget your enlightened 'internet' stance

itsmeurLady:


Like my post first before you gaan like his post so that we will know your type

Ladyhippolyta88:


No human being is meant to be controlled.

You must have issues with self respect on your part to think it is appropriate to control a woman.

Earthquake1:


Everybody undergoes emotional stress

Illiterate

N0favors:
If as a man, I can’t control my woman then it’s better I quit.

itsmeurLady:


Do you know why? Because tomorrow he will raise a child and this child with funny upbringing might be my child's classmate... Nigeria is becoming a corrupt country but because Nigeria is corrupt, will you now say you want to be corrupt because it is the order of the day? There are still Good men and women out der but our problem is, we don't want to be patient and wait for the right partner... We want to rush everything and when we get the wrong results, we play victims but for how long

GOFRONT:


Dude should be drunk by now, going by the way people are ordering crates of beer for him......

Infact he received a credit alert from somebody ontop that comment

Who saw that part where someone suggested to him to share the money with some other less privilege guys online?

Well, as for me, I have done all he wrote on that comment before, that is, (staying without having a girlfriend because of the trauma that is involved). But I came to a point, I couldnt continue that way. I gave it up, cos I couldnt cheat nature. I need a woman.

We must need a woman, we cant cheat nature, We must need a woman, I repeat we must need a woma