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Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by princfred(m): 4:42pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
gloria34:Yeah the issue is if women start competing with men in these things, it's likely the women will suffer more for it. And like I tell people, the spender in a relationship feels more pain at break-up. In most cases men are the spenders hence more dangerous if they unleash there beast side given the greater physical and financial strenght with which they can muster in executing. Also men have a longer time range to play the game and emotionally men can easily get addicted to terrible things since their is less restrain on them- a husband can beat the have to restrain her but want can a woman do to a player man? The most is to leave his house while he continues in his ways. |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Nobody: 4:43pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
Oreofepeters:don't worry, don't force it. it will all fall in place at d right time |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Nobody: 4:47pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
princfred:spender? Lol, I work 4 my cash, I take my bf on outings. at first he didn't like it but he got use to it. now I don't even know who spends more. well, girls should go out and work, men will respect them more yet its no reason 4 a guy to disrespect a lady (respect is reciprocal). 1 Like |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by garryi: 4:48pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
This is really sad. There is a way that seemeth right to a man but the end thereof is destruction. 1 Like |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by princfred(m): 4:50pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
gloria34:Your case is about 10% . Now if he cheats on you I bet your pain will be double than if you were not doing soo much spending. That's what men generally face. This is why sugar mama's are more offensive to their sweet boys than normal gf's to their bf's. |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Nobody: 4:52pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
princfred:hmmm, won't deny. yet I won't go around calling all guys bastards and cheats 1 Like |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by princfred(m): 4:54pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
gloria34:Soo many don't play by that rule but you may not be too sure of what you will become given/after repeated terrible relationship experience with number of guys overtime. It's not going to be a few guys joining that pattern of behavior but many as you can see from the number of likes on that post because its an almost involuntary bend for self-protection at least of their mind and money. |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Eyeness: 4:55pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
Oreofepeters:no it isnt worth it, especially when you have nothing to offer |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Eyeness: 4:57pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
emmyN:isnt it the other way round. Men use ladies and dump them, so.they are all after qhat they can get 1 Like |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Eyeness: 5:00pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
gloria34:hahahaha, you couldnt be more deluded, mark my words that man will leave you to another woman who wont spend a dime on him, even if u marry him, it is only delayimg the inevitable. It is his in DNA to go after the woman he needs |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Oreofepeters: 5:06pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
Eyeness:This an example of ladies we are talking about. #Bytheircommentyoushallknowthem... |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by anochuko01(m): 5:09pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
aside sleeping with prostitutes, i believe the guy has a very good point.
nowadays the "truest" love would die when theres no money 3 Likes |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Nobody: 5:16pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
anochuko01:this is what I am saying sir 2 Likes |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by princfred(m): 5:21pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
Oreofepeters:Exactly. Anyone sharp guy who has anything to offer on finding out she is only/mainly after offers will have little choice but to dump her if he has been using her and thinking otherwise or keep using and dump her later then she will complain that men are bad meanwhile her orientation made the man change his mind towards her. Most men who dump ladies don't plan to initially but overtime gets to notice their selfishness or other ugly characters but just hangs on since they are already addicted to the juice jug and berries until a better (more compactible) lady comes along. |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Oreofepeters: 5:29pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
princfred:Only if their ass will learn.... |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Eyeness: 5:34pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
Oreofepeters:thank you dear |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Nobody: 6:20pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
I knew this was coming. nho4 thanks a million times for dropping that post. In fact, during Christmas sef, mention me I have something for you again. Never knew there were mavericks on Nairaland. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by princfred(m): 6:28pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
Eyeness:Where my own thank you and dear? #Epainme |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Raalsalghul: 6:29pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
Oreofepeters:As in ehn, e pain them no be small. To even open a thread on it, na wa oh. 1 Like |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by princfred(m): 6:33pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
DeckXavier:Lol . Guy sex what a Gf whose promiscuity is unascertainable to a good degree of certainty is almost as, if not more, risky health wise. The main difference is psychological i guess. |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by 2buffagain(m): 6:43pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
princfred: Very true. At least with olosho, you know what you are dealing with so you can wrap that thing twice. Some of you who have wakawaka girlfriends only wrap once or don't even wrap at all because you think you're in some exclusive ish 1 Like |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Nobody: 6:50pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
itsmeurLady:If you were expecting me to asslick you by sharing this post,you are better wake up,cos real men do not asslick...plz help me pass this to your asslickers "If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex,women will respect you"...Btw,stop begging for shares 2 Likes |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by princfred(m): 6:50pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
2buffagain:Yeah most Gf especially the wakawaka ones encourage, convince and deceive their guy overtime (that he is the only monkey with access to the banana basket) to go raw (especially if they believe the guy to be financially capable on event of any eventuality) so she can have someone to plausibly hold/blackmail if she gets pregnant in the course of her merry-go-round thereby putting the naive addicted ones at great risk of STD's HIV etc Note: This is not advocating or advising people to go to ashawo because thise one i believe have their huge problems abd inherently heinous spirits and mindset that turned then into whores. 1 Like |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Nobody: 6:53pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
Now let's break down this golden post. My parts in bold Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend. Agreed he is not a smart one. Getting worked up over a woman. Who does that? To hell with ladies and those dating them. Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy. Despite the age difference he still acts slavish to a woman's whims. Pathetic. I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets. Exactly!. Relationships today are strictly transactional. Men have all to lose and nothing to gain from these cum dumpsters. Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing. True. Men today allow their emotions do the thinking. A corollary of entering a relationship is the loss of logic and independent thinking. He puts in all the efforts just for sex. Yet what she brings to the table is only sex, nagging, ability to cheat surreptitiously, fianancial and emotional demands. Who wants that? Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us. Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round. Truer words have never been said. We go through hell to please them yet never get a tangible return. Thanks to the desperate men they now feel they are doing us a favor by dating us. Silly statements like "you used me", "be a man and do this for me" reflects the hubris demnstrated by women. But of course sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive to them since they have lots of suitors on the table they are free to behave as they wish. I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment. Only if all men behave like this the world would be a better place. Developing abduance mentality and never showing care emotion or "love" is the only solution. Only with these behaviors can we reset their heads and the toxic dating culture that abounds in today's society Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist. Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend. Real love only exists between mother and child... [b]Here is the gold in this post. This is where Men make mistakes. They think women will love them like their mother. They seek the same affection their mother provided to them from women. How mistaken they are. The only woman that will love you unconditionally on earth is your MOTHER. Women are incapable of showing the same affection as your mother. Men love Women, Women love children, Children love puppies or toys. This is how it works. Love does not exist. I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex. You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies. This what they don't get. You don't have to commit to a relationship to have sex. Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily. Since the beginning of the world and forever, the only bargaining chip women have his sex. As soon as you show them that sex is nothing then your freedom comes. I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no bleeping girlfriend. The only realistic solution is to stay away from any form of commitment. Instead, commit to your goals and prioritize your mission Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any bleeping lady. A visit to the red light district helps to demystify sex and make you aloof. I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime. If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex. All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness... Enough said. The above tells the story. Freedom from the bondage of glorifying sex enables you see things in a new light and learn to put women in their place and call them out on their bullshit. Thank you once again for this post. I bookmarked it. 11 Likes |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by 2buffagain(m): 6:56pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
itsmeurLady: That emboldened phrase only works on the idiots of this generation TBH Men of this generation couldn't give 2 shits about what your ever-morphing, self-serving, parasitic definitions of what a real man is. They make their own definitions, and are enjoying their lives free of such obvious societal scams...to the detriment of y'all who have little to nothing to offer anyway. Go and cry if ee too pain you 8 Likes |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by princfred(m): 7:01pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
Postfut:Looking at the sheer number of likes and shares which will keep increasing before tomorrow and in the coming days, its gonna be red as lots of guys appreciate and use that wholly/ partly as template and go into beast mode towards women. Anarchy on womanity is finally upon us as warned. DEJA'VU unloaded.#Sad 1 Like |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Nobody: 7:07pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
princfred: True. I hope the awakening begins. All hail Nho4 2 Likes |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Nobody: 7:08pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
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Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Nobody: 7:23pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
As a woman, I agree with that guy and I'd send my son to him to get educated. This generation is full of pussy worshipping, weak men! Most of them don't even know themselves because if they did, they'd understand that they don't like women. I prefer a man who covers and controls his sexual urges. Men like him love when they love and bust a nut when they need to; instead of confusing some poor woman with lies and deceit. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by itsmeurLady(f): 7:49pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
2buffagain: Lmao stop deceiving yourself... Why did u now emphasize that u are one, hypocrite 1 Like |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by itsmeurLady(f): 7:50pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
morningstar55: U talk like a lady, I am surprised u are a man, oh I meant boy I forgot to add, real men respect women and they don't talk like cowards Secondly I am not begging for shares, I was only telling real men who support my views to share my post so that people can knows that we don't only hav men like you, there are better men out der. 1 Like |
Re: A Reply To Nho4 (it's A Thread) by Nobody: 7:58pm On Oct 16, 2018 |
itsmeurLady:madam rest abeg, real man this, real man that.. You no dey tire? I'd say a real man is someone who lives above societal norms.. Someone who steers his life in whatever direction he so wishes.. So madam keep your "real man" to yourself 6 Likes 1 Share |
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