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PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by iLegendd(m): 10:36am On Oct 17, 2018 |
You'll learn a lot from this short post. This is what I observed about creating a thread on Nairaland, especially, in Romance Section. There are two people on Nairaland. 1. The leader (thread creator) 2. The readers (thread viewers) Let's assume there are 100 people. Out of these 100, one of them is the thread creator, the leader, and the other 99 are the viewers. There is something about the viewers — they are united at first. When the leader creates a thread, the readers come as a union. One of the readers will pick a fight with the leader to see how he or she will react. When this happens, the remaining 98 of the viewers are watching and waiting to judge the leader based on what he or she will reply. If he attacks back, 90, out of the 98 will attack by defending the first attacker who attacked the leader. The remaining 8 will feel sympathetic and align with the leader to make him or her not to feel bad. Now, here is the tricky part. If the leader refuses to ignore the attacker, the thread will become a war zone. It will become 9 people vs. 91 people. The negative comments made by the attackers will be liked by some of the attackers allies. This "Like or Share" make the attacker feel validated and appreciated. At the end of the thread, the attacker(s) will move to another thread feeling fulfilled because his co-attackers supported him by clicking the like button of his comment. This is the reason most of these attackers are addicted to Nairaland. There is a chemical called dopamine. It makes attackers strive for success and what is that success? The success is: their fellow attackers supporting them with likes and share. What does these "likes and shares" do? They secrete serotonin in the membrane — a feeling of love, fulfilment, happiness, and content. These attackers feel fulfilled because they were loved and supported by their union. This feeling is what make attackers waste hours online without realizing it. When they wake in the morning, the first thing they think about is their phone and the website where their unions are. I want to advised these attackers: at the end of the year, you'll look back without achieving much in life except the LIKES & SHARES your "union" bestowed on you or the ones you bestowed on your union members. On the other hand, when the leader looks back, he has achieved a lot. The next year, the attackers will start to envy the leader for achieving more than them — they forgot they wasted their time attacking people online. So, be a leader, not an attacker. Leaders get attacked the most, but they rule. You should rather be a leader and be attacked than an attacker, but depressed at the end of the year for not achieving much. Though, I love attackers for one selfish reason and that is: they waste their precious time making a leader trend / popular as they attack and abuse him. If the leader is smart, he can leverage on the controversy these attackers bring and make a name for himself — not just a name, but MONEY too. If you wake in the morning and the first thing you pick or touch is your phone, then you navigate to checking your social media profile, you're in trouble — BIG TROUBLE. If you check your phone, let it ONLY be to check time and nothing more. After checking time, drop it — don't let temptation push you to open any social media app or site. Let me give you a secret of the first 5 things I do when I wake in the morning before I touch my phone. 1. Pray (short prayer) 2. Push-up (short exercise) 3. Brush 4. Drink water 5. Shower or clean The above must be done before I'll check my phone. This is the secret of being productive. Unfortunately for attackers, the first thing they do is to check their phones, check Facebook, WhatsApp, Nairaland, Instagram, Twitter, etc. Before they realize it, 1 hour has been wasted. Why are they addicted to such a lifestyle? The answer is: emotional attachment of being an attacker under a unified union which is controlled by a high dopamine drive and hunger for serotonin and validation. I have a lot to reveal, but let me stop here. Learn to be productive, not to be an attacker. If you must be an attacker, do it smartly and be cognisant of your time wastage online. No one will reveal all these secrets to you, so count yourself lucky for reading this. What did you learn from this short post? A. Be an attacker B. Be productive C. Open your social media app immediately you wake D. Be a leader E. Keep wasting your time watching porn F. Keep on masturbating without going on a break G. Be smart H. All of the above I. None of the above Thank you for reading. Joe Clef, Relationship expert / psychologist / programmer The CEO of www.wetclef.com and a bestselling author on men's relationship help books. 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by tripplephi: 10:39am On Oct 17, 2018 |
you are one of the most SANE people here. very enlightening thread.... NO WONDER YOU GET LADIES EASILY... you are skilled with words and psychology. iLegendd: 1 Like |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Nobody: 11:29am On Oct 17, 2018 |
what i've noticed is that most guys here love slutshaming women. I just dont know why. Ive barely spent a month here and ive been bashed by 3 different guys. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by iLegendd(m): 11:44am On Oct 17, 2018 |
QueenBelle:They like you. Now you have three potential men to choose from. Hurry up, Darling. |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by kollinzgee(m): 11:53am On Oct 17, 2018 |
The way I treat such people I dnt even give a Bleep I keep doing my thing. the black race is full of people who don't want to learn and Improve worst of it all they have nothing to offer for others to learn . Each time I open a thread there is always a critic no matter how good and educative it is. But it doesn't matter bro. There is a guy who does the same thing you do mr ilegend his name Dan bacon (search Google) he is a relationship and dating expert. Check out the way Americans appreciate this guy's work never seen a negative comments on his blog. Truly the guy is good and experienced. Maybe that's why we are backward can't think outside the box. 4 Likes |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Nobody: 11:55am On Oct 17, 2018 |
60% of male romancelanders are illiterates, have zero respect for other people's opinions and hypocritical. Iamgrey5, been a while. |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Uglymugg: 12:10pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
That's why I told seun to implement dislike button. How can you only have a positive reinforcement button but no negativd reinforcement button? It's why the comment section of front page threads are _fucking usless repetitive fecal matter. A troll, bigot, racist, tribalists all get the same likes with the reasonable, funny and creative post. 3 Likes |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Iamgrey5(m): 12:12pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
MhisTahrah:Hello tarah, yes it has been a while, how is school and everything. |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Uglymugg: 12:14pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
MhisTahrah: They know they'll get likes for any kind of comment they post. Watch how people will post when there's a dislike button. Most people only post nonsense for likes. |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Nobody: 12:21pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
Iamgrey5:Is it school or marriage dais keeping you from us? ![]() ![]() Every every dey fine. |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Iamgrey5(m): 12:26pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
MhisTahrah:Marriage kee ![]() We are still praying for Gods blessings I have just been a little busy than usual So how are your bfs? ![]() |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by neezar: 12:29pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
MhisTahrah:Do you have Pinky new contact ![]() |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Nobody: 12:30pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
Uglymugg:People would do anything just to trend.Same on nairaland, they'll post nauseating, annoying, senseless posts for idiots like them to hail and label them 'savages' when they're actually being stupid in reality. |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by SarkinYarki: 12:33pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
It will be a pity if this writer hasn't achieved as much as some of the people he claims are wasting their time ... well Me I am on Nairaland to clamour for change of Buhari leadership and inec that happens I will leave 2 Likes |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Nobody: 12:33pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
Iamgrey5:Aleso. ![]() ![]() We don't do BFs around here. ![]() ![]() Mid-semester. ![]() |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Nobody: 12:41pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
neezar: |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by iLegendd(m): 12:47pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
MhisTahrah:What? Stop joking. Just don't make me emotional, okay? |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by neezar: 12:48pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
MhisTahrah:Aaaaaargh.....Just tell me you are joking please |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by neezar: 12:52pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
Tahrah u there?? |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Nobody: 12:52pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
neezar: Neezar, how far? You sef dey reach here? Wetin u dey find upandan? |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Iamgrey5(m): 12:52pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by neezar: 12:53pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
resurgent4oodua:Egbami i am everywhere ![]() ![]() |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Iamgrey5(m): 12:55pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
MhisTahrah:Tarah, how true is this ? |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Nobody: 12:55pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
neezar: Your Waka Waka too much abeg. I know say na woman you find come but nothing do you. We go continue our battle for politcs section na |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by neezar: 12:57pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
resurgent4oodua:Which woman I am born again Bro The heat for politics section too much....Either here or sports section dey cool me down |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Nobody: 12:59pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
neezar:I wouldn't joke with such a thing.I also wish it was a joke.I wish she'll come online and tell me that it's a prank. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by neezar: 12:59pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
MhisTahrah:When did this happen |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Nobody: 1:01pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
iLegendd:That's what I heard. |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Nobody: 1:04pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
Iamgrey5:Her account was deactivated and I haven't seen her posts in a looong time.I wish it isn't. |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Nobody: 1:05pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
neezar:July. |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by Nobody: 1:06pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
neezar: Na so. The fight for politics section no be here. Me sef come collect breeze for here. I go return politics for evening. |
Re: PSYCHOLOGY: I Just Observed Something On Nairaland by neezar: 1:09pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
MhisTahrah:This was our last chat Her WhatsApp number is even disabled She dumped her Facebook account
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