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. by Xavier5(m): 6:35pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
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Re: . by Xavier5(m): 6:38pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
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Re: . by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:53pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
Stories that touch. Op go to the orphanage and adopt children.How many have you adopted or given a good life. There is safe abortion and it is advisable that people are financially,emotionally,mentally,psychologically etc.fit to raise children. No child needs to suffer because his or her parents are not capable of providing the basic necessities a child needs.Children go into force labour,get trafficked,get violent abuses and suffer because their parents could not give them a purposeful life. Be Logical in your arguments and leave pro choice people alone. If you have nothing to offer a child play and act safe do not bring one into this world who may end up becoming a nuisance or terror to society or let such a child suffer in the hands of traffickers and wicked people who may abuse them. 1 Like |
Re: . by Xavier5(m): 9:52pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
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Re: . by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:32pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
Xavier5: Your bolded is off point. I stated that because you seem to care about innocent babies and why abortion is bad and I told you that some children in orphanage are not necessarily one but were abandoned by their parents who could not take care of their children.So why don't you help them since to you abortion is murder? And also leave pro choice people alone. 1 Like |
Re: . by BlackManta(m): 11:08pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
Xavier5: What about rape victims They should also raise a kid they can't take care of. If the mother is poor and incapable of raising a child of the rapist, in the future the child is likely to start begging on the streets or become a tout. No school cuz mom is poor, in fact the mom must have ended up a drop out after the rape and pregnancy You can't really blame the mother. After all it is OP's opinion that we must bring a child to world, no abortion, no escape route even if the mother can't take care of the child To hell with rape victims, OP didn't bother to think about them If my mother was going to give birth to me just to dump me on the streets and give me plate to become a beggar , then I rather she aborted me and spare me a life of pain, suffering and agony. OP thinks it's only prostitutes and fornicators that go for abortion. How narrow can your perspective be 1 Like |
Re: . by Saff(f): 11:15pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
I believe the most selfish thing a woman can do, is to bring a child into an unstable unwanted environment where the child is prone to suffer. I don’t believe abortion is murder especially if the procedure is carried out under 8 weeks. We all suffer the consequences for the mistakes we make, we have the right to make the decision of carrying a child for 9 months. Contraceptives are the bettter option, but if a woman decides to abort, it’s her choice and her body and she has the right to do so. 1 Like |
Re: . by Xavier5(m): 11:22pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
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Re: . by Xavier5(m): 11:28pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
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Re: . by BlackManta(m): 11:43pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
Xavier5: Bro you think it's easy. You think those orphanages and NGO are finding it easy to take care of those kids You think they can just add to the population of the kids under their care because they have abundant resources and they can take care of any homeless kid You are not looking at the bigger picture. Even orphanage and NGO have limits to the number of Kids they can take care of. That is why they ask philanthropists for donations because apparently their resources is limited. If you think you can reduce the number of unwanted kids by dumping them at orphanage then why then do we still have little children begging on the streets Go to underdeveloped cities in Nigeria you will see homeless kids begging for food on the streets. Why is this so Because orphanages have limited resources and cannot take care of all of them. You think the presence of NGO and orphanages can fix the problem NO, they can't only do their best with the resources they have. You are not looking at the bigger picture. Your perspective is still narrow. The more kids orphanages take in... The more unwanted kids keep popping up.... The cycle continues... Your perspective is narrow. You didn't bother to talk about rape victims in your sermon until I brought it up. Your sermon made it look like only fornicators go for abortion. It's obvious you don't give a damn about rape victims, your only concern is making sure the child is not aborted. It's not like you are gonna adopt the child. NO! Na only to preach sermon upandan while the population of young street beggars and unwanted children keep growing You see why I say your perspective is narrow |
Re: . by Xavier5(m): 12:03am On Oct 18, 2018 |
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Re: . by pinkshoes88: 12:07am On Oct 18, 2018 |
Hi All, I recently had an abortion and looking back, it was the best choice for me and my family. I was able to self-manage my abortion at home using online resources such as www.howtouseabortionpill.org and www.pinkshoes.org. They ladies were very helpful in answering all questions about the process and the pills to use. Without their easy directions I might have had to resort to other means, which could have potentially cost me my life. I hope this helps anyone in a similar situation. |
Re: . by Saff(f): 12:08am On Oct 18, 2018 |
Xavier5:Why do we eat unhealthy food when we know it’s bad for us? Why do we drink alcohol when we know it’s damaging to the liver? Human beings are flawed, we constantly make mistakes that we are aware of, it’s our nature. Technology has improved so much. This myth that abortions are unsafe is very aged. With the right procedure, there’s nothing damaging about abortions, and most women still conceive later on in life, so stop spreading false information. We can agree to disagree. If you believe abortion is murder, I cannot change your mind frame. Heartbeat normally starts by week7/8, most abortions are carried out before then. My thing is condonms are better, but if you get in that situation, you have the right to make any decision you please. |
Re: . by BlackManta(m): 12:11am On Oct 18, 2018 |
Xavier5: And the cycle continues.... Every child deserves life but no child deserves suffering. What you would you rather have for a child.... A life of suffering, pain and agony or no life at all. No life at all is better, spare a child the suffering, pain and agony and abort if you can't give him a good life. How many homeless kids have you taken off the streets, let me guess....ZERO. You keep talking about NGO and orphanages when I made it clear that their resources are limited. |
Re: . by Xavier5(m): 12:31am On Oct 18, 2018 |
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Re: . by Xavier5(m): 12:38am On Oct 18, 2018 |
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Re: . by BlackManta(m): 12:46am On Oct 18, 2018 |
Xavier5: That is your opinion. But a woman can abort because she's carrying foetus and it's her body. She can do what she wants with it. I hope you know that so you don't go around forcing women not to abort as if you own their body. Our opinions may differ. But we must respect our boundaries. Parents have full control over reproduction rights. At the end of the day they call the shots. |
Re: . by BlackManta(m): 12:49am On Oct 18, 2018 |
Xavier5: You keep forgetting rape victims. For your mind a woman can't get pregnant if she doesn't want to. You don't know the kind of world we live in. Your last sentence in the second paragraph is naïve.... |
Re: . by Xavier5(m): 1:14am On Oct 18, 2018 |
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Re: . by BlackManta(m): 1:25am On Oct 18, 2018 |
Xavier5: If orphanages have abundant resources, why do we still have unwanted kids on the streets |
Re: . by BlackManta(m): 1:27am On Oct 18, 2018 |
Xavier5: If orphanages have abundant resources, why do we still have unwanted kids on the streets or haven't you seen those ones If orphanages had abundant resources, we won't be seeing unwanted kids on the streets anymore. But we still do. |
Re: . by Xavier5(m): 12:25pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
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