Kessiee:
I'll give explicit details so it wont be like i'm exaggerating but first let me start like this;
Mods i'm sorry if it's too detailed
When we first started dating we decided on a no sex rule before marriage so when we first got married it was a constant thing, like we were doing it everyday, when i got pregnant, the first 3 months was hell for him cos we were adviced to abstain in other not to loose the baby, he was the one that insisted on C.S delivery cos he wants down there to be tight.

My husband loves sex soo much and it has become an issue for me, he doesnt take no for an answer, we have sex almost everyday, the day we dont have have sex he wants intimacy, he does cunninlingus very well and i do to him too, but he does it to me everytime, my clitoris aches sometimes i had to beg him to go in without doing that, we both are working class, he says sex is a stress relief for him, our marriage is 2 years with a daughter, whenever i come back from work and do some house chores, take care of my girl and want to sleep after, he wants to make love, i'll plead and say no but it's more like the no makes him more Hot, he does diff. Styles to me, anal was the most painful, he says my pain makes it more sweeter for him, he licks all over my body to the sole of my foot, he loves licking my arm pit, it makes him hard, we'll be watching movie or gisting, he'll just rush me, he hardly allows me to travel for anything, the only time he did was when i had to go for my chief brides maid's wedding, when i came back that saturday i suffered, we did five rounds that night, i couldnt sleep, couldnt even go to church the next day cos i was exhausted, anytime he falls sick am always happy cos i'll be relieved but the sickeness is not even long, after 24hrs he's back to normal, i actually prayed one day he'll fall sick for a very long time, God forgive me!!! Sometimes i lie i'm sick just to avoid him but he'll still do all sorts of MouthAction to make me feel good according to him!!!

Last week was the last straw for me, i made sure we quarrel so that he'll leave me alone, that night after a heated arguement about something irrelevant, i locked myself with my kid in the guest room, he knocked and knocked i didnt answer, the next day he didnt talk to me, i thought it was a faze but he didnt talk to me throughout that last week, he'll come back from work late at night, play with his kid and shun me, he wouldnt even drink water at home talk more of eat my food, i felt bad and frustrated cos i dont want us to live like that, after a lenthy apology i told him i thought he was already cheating and he said he'll never cheat on me cos he loved me which i know for a fact, now we are back on a sex spree, sometimes i want to run away but where would i go, he's caring, responsible and all except the sex thing!! Sometimes i thought of telling my mum but she'll laugh it off thinking it's nothing, how would i even tell people my husband has a sex problem? If you see my husband, he looks soo healthy with the right weight: he takes plenty milk and banana everyday like his life depends on it, infact he looks fresh, i myself is increasing in weight everyday cos of too much sex,

PLEASE how will i tell him to get help without being offensive cos the last time i brought it up he threatened to cheat on me and he would never sleep with me again that i should be thankful he's loyal, pls married folks, advice me on what to do!!!

MARKone:
Well you needn't be this explicit, the matured ones would understand. You are not alone, not very few couples experience similar thing, even some men are overwhelmed by their wives sextual desires. Talk to him madam, let him know that you can't cope with his sex demands, which definitely includes sex acts that is unpleasant to you like the Anal you mentioned. Truth is madam, in marriage there is no written rule that you should displease or harm yourself in other to please your partner, stand firm in your resolve, we men sulk at times, especially when what we want or expect is not given to us, but he'll come round. You can't be buying diapers for your baby and be buying your own too.

Gloriawinning:
He's a sick man, I would have filed for a divorce long time ago. What nonsense!! Sex everyday ? God forbids evil

UjuJoan2:


He made you risk your life to undergo an unwarranted major surgery, because of sex? Your husband has a big problem, but so do you.

Do you even love yourself? Do you want to live to cater for your daughter and have more kids? Do you want your parents to bury you? All because you don't want your husband to cheat?

So let him cheat. Let him take his perverted sex life somewhere else. You are not some Hooker, you are his wife, his partner, his soulmate. Why do you think he doesn't respect that? Because you let him!

I understand that sex among young people these days is kinky, but what you are describing up there is crazy and sick. You need to get yourself out of that situation before it's too late

Don't tell anyone, don't involve family or friends. But take your stand and stick to it. Let him cheat if he wants to. In any case how long do you think you can keep up with all that? He will definitely cheat eventually, unless he seeks help.

Briee:
Yes!!!

Elder0001:
If people can believe this story which is as fake as kemi adeosun's NYSC certificate then something is wrong with the black race.

IamD18:
Go and buy a plate of pepperish soup from any Yoruba woman, lick it very well and suck your husband's diiiick, your problem will forever be gone.

Don't mention. What are friends for?

Gloriawinning:
He's a sick man, I would have filed for a divorce long time ago. What nonsense!! Sex everyday ? God forbids evil

Botanics:
Your hubby is sick. The fact he derives joy in inflicting pain on u: despite your resistance and discomfort, he puts his needs first , those are the attributes of a rapist.

I pity you because you can never satisfy such an individual. Bookmark this thread when you eventually stumble on ur hubby cheating. It wont matter you shag 5x a day and give him different styles.

SarakiBukola:


Unfortunately they did. It is sad that Blacks are just not smart at all.

I won't be surprised the OP is even a male (some sick fagg0ts are plenty here).

A husband would insist on a CS? LOL

Biglittlelois:



enjoy it?? are you for real?? meet at the middle how please

renewa29:
You simply need to communicate and do what's best for your marriage.

First and foremost, in my books anal sex is synonymous with perverted sex in marriage and it is totally wrong when you started on a holy no sex relationship, allowing anal penetration is totally wrong.

Your husband takes banana and milk, what do you take to keep up with him? Because if your husband is taking organic supplements, you should research on female sexual supplements which can help you and then you need to begin to gym so that you can improve your fitness and reduce your body fat, this will also enhance your endurance levels.

Stop allowing anal penetration. Get regular physical exercise. Take female aphrodisiacs like shrimps, crayfish, lobsters, periwinkles and add organic supplements for female longevity.

If you are send your husband outside then why did you marry him in the first place? People saying give him this and that have not dealt with high libido, even with sugar all that happens is faster ejaculation it does not kill the urge. A man that can ejaculate 5 times in 1 night has a fast climax cycle which in tandem with his high libido means he is a stud. If you did not know this before marriage, the best you can do is to seek professional help with his permission, but it is by no means a sickness, it is how he is.

You did not mention if he comes to you during your monthly period which means he is not a total pervert or....

Elder0001:


In as much as this thread is fake I'll still reply you....


What's wrong with anal sex? Please stop speaking like a village fellow. You need more exposure.

Gloriawinning:
He's a sick man, I would have filed for a divorce long time ago. What nonsense!! Sex everyday ? God forbids evil

thorpido:
A part of me doesn't believe her(his) story that is why I made that comment.