Elder0001:


In as much as this thread is fake I'll still reply you....


What's wrong with anal sex? Please stop speaking like a village fellow. You need more exposure.

What's with the fake ish y'all are saying?? do you think someone can just cook up a tale like this to entertain y'all?? for what reason?? the fact that you dont believe this story doesnt mean it's fake, things like this happens for real, know that.

Biglittlelois:



What's with the fake ish y'all are saying?? do you think someone can just cook up a tale like this to entertain y'all?? for what reason?? the fact that you dont believe this story doesnt mean it's fake, things like this happens for real, know that.

GTFOH

Elder0001:


GTFOH

Oh my bad!! didnt know i was being civil to a tout, apologies.

sisisioge:
Dang! The anallll is the scariest of them all

Since you earn some money too, why don't you just run away with your baby that's what I would do.

Lol baby I thought you loved stuffs like that? Like rushing you unawares in the kitchen or in between a movie

OK I'll change


I wonder if the OP's hubby has a job or any worries at all but I highly suspect he is just sick and needs help.

He even licks her armpits

Now that's what I called "license to sekkx with no hold barred"

Too much of everything is bad.It can even get to a pt where her clit loses its sensation.Let him go and cheat,just pack enough condoms so he can hear what other women will say.

Anuofia of a man!you force another mans daughter into an unnecessary cs so you can have a tight hole.

I know one who complained how the husband keeps sucking her breastmilk while lactating and wants to have the nipple in his mouth all night.

You guys package your fetishes and come to practice it on women

MilitaryInvade:



Lol baby I thought you loved stuffs like that? Like rushing you unawares in the kitchen or in between a movie

OK I'll change


I wonder if the OP's hubby has a job or any worries at all but I highly suspect he is just sick and needs help.

He even licks her armpits

Now that's what I called "license to sekkx with no hold barred"

Alright, I think we've had enough plays oga military. No quote me again with your weird innuendoes. No vex, its beginning to creep me out... Cheers.

joehis2013:
It's actually your fault, you agreed to a no sex before marriage, what did you think would happen.

his addiction and perversion aren't her fault.

sisisioge:


Alright, I think we've had enough plays oga military. No quote me again with your weird innuendoes. No vex, its beginning to creep me out... Cheers.

My daughter.

I don't understand what you are talking about. Sexual Innuendo? Tufiakwa!

Biko lesbianism is a crime o.

MilitaryInvade:


My daughter.

I don't understand what you are talking about. Sexual Innuendo? Tufiakwa!

Biko lesbianism is a crime o.

Good. We are clear now my mother. This remains creepy

UjuJoan2:


He made you risk your life to undergo an unwarranted major surgery, because of sex? Your husband has a big problem, but so do you.

Do you even love yourself? Do you want to live to cater for your daughter and have more kids? Do you want your parents to bury you? All because you don't want your husband to cheat?

So let him cheat. Let him take his perverted sex life somewhere else. You are not some Hooker, you are his wife, his partner, his soulmate. Why do you think he doesn't respect that? Because you let him!

I understand that sex among young people these days is kinky, but what you are describing up there is crazy and sick. You need to get yourself out of that situation before it's too late

Don't tell anyone, don't involve family or friends. But take your stand and stick to it. Let him cheat if he wants to. In any case how long do you think you can keep up with all that? He will definitely cheat eventually, unless he seeks help.

Op don't listen to this, you want to get her family infected abi? Like someone suggested earlier, send him the link to this thread

sisisioge:


Good. We are clear now my mother. This remains creepy

My daughter.

I'm still lost here.

Those are not my handwritings.

But thank you for showing me your advanced Photoshop skills.

Do have a pleasant day.

Give him sleeping pills Biko.
This is too much.

Is he a Yoruba man? They like sex a lot

Biglittlelois:



Oh my bad!! didnt know i was being civil to a tout, apologies.

This one is just stupid.

MilitaryInvade:


My daughter.

I'm still lost here.

Those are not my handwritings.

But thank you for showing me your advanced Photoshop skills.

Do have a pleasant day.

Mama, crazze full your head

Sha back off

LadySarah:
Too much of everything is bad.It can even get to a pt where her clit loses its sensation.Let him go and cheat,just pack enough condoms so he can hear what other women will say.

Anuofia of a man!you force another mans daughter into an unnecessary cs so you can have a tight hole.

I know one who complained how the husband keeps sucking her breastmilk while lactating and wants to have the nipple in his mouth all night.

You guys package your fetishes and come to practice it on women

Breastfed all night? A grown man.
Please, what will be left for the poor defenceless baby who needs all the nutrition it can get from the mother's milk? Doesn't the baby wake up to feed at night ni?

eyinjuege:


Breastfed all night? A grown man.
Please, what will be left for the poor defenceless baby who needs all the nutrition it can get from the mother's milk? Doesn't the baby wake up to feed at night ni?

Yesoo.
Even when she wasn't lactating,he just wanted the breasts in his mouth every time,tge n she thought it will stop post delivery,but no,he even sucked breastmilk join.

I didn't even know what to tell,let everybody carry their cross,biko!

Kessiee:
I'll give explicit details so it wont be like i'm exaggerating but first let me start like this;
Mods i'm sorry if it's too detailed
When we first started dating we decided on a no sex rule before marriage so when we first got married it was a constant thing, like we were doing it everyday, when i got pregnant, the first 3 months was hell for him cos we were adviced to abstain in other not to loose the baby, he was the one that insisted on C.S delivery cos he wants down there to be tight.

My husband loves sex soo much and it has become an issue for me, he doesnt take no for an answer, we have sex almost everyday, the day we dont have have sex he wants intimacy, he does cunninlingus very well and i do to him too, but he does it to me everytime, my clitoris aches sometimes i had to beg him to go in without doing that, we both are working class, he says sex is a stress relief for him, our marriage is 2 years with a daughter, whenever i come back from work and do some house chores, take care of my girl and want to sleep after, he wants to make love, i'll plead and say no but it's more like the no makes him more Hot, he does diff. Styles to me, anal was the most painful, he says my pain makes it more sweeter for him, he licks all over my body to the sole of my foot, he loves licking my arm pit, it makes him hard, we'll be watching movie or gisting, he'll just rush me, he hardly allows me to travel for anything, the only time he did was when i had to go for my chief brides maid's wedding, when i came back that saturday i suffered, we did five rounds that night, i couldnt sleep, couldnt even go to church the next day cos i was exhausted, anytime he falls sick am always happy cos i'll be relieved but the sickeness is not even long, after 24hrs he's back to normal, i actually prayed one day he'll fall sick for a very long time, God forgive me!!! Sometimes i lie i'm sick just to avoid him but he'll still do all sorts of MouthAction to make me feel good according to him!!!

Last week was the last straw for me, i made sure we quarrel so that he'll leave me alone, that night after a heated arguement about something irrelevant, i locked myself with my kid in the guest room, he knocked and knocked i didnt answer, the next day he didnt talk to me, i thought it was a faze but he didnt talk to me throughout that last week, he'll come back from work late at night, play with his kid and shun me, he wouldnt even drink water at home talk more of eat my food, i felt bad and frustrated cos i dont want us to live like that, after a lenthy apology i told him i thought he was already cheating and he said he'll never cheat on me cos he loved me which i know for a fact, now we are back on a sex spree, sometimes i want to run away but where would i go, he's caring, responsible and all except the sex thing!! Sometimes i thought of telling my mum but she'll laugh it off thinking it's nothing, how would i even tell people my husband has a sex problem? If you see my husband, he looks soo healthy with the right weight: he takes plenty milk and banana everyday like his life depends on it, infact he looks fresh, i myself is increasing in weight everyday cos of too much sex,

PLEASE how will i tell him to get help without being offensive cos the last time i brought it up he threatened to cheat on me and he would never sleep with me again that i should be thankful he's loyal, pls married folks, advice me on what to do!!!

[b]This is what watching too much porn does to a man, he makes him extremely wide (sex addict) and thinking that his wife needs to be like the porn stars he always watch. he sees you like a sex object, instead of a companion, guess maybe he doesn't understand the difference between the 2. sex is important in marriage but over sex leads to marital problem. he needs to start seeing you as a companion, you are in charge of your vj and you need to stand your ground. so if you are sick, what is he going to do? cheat on you?

Do you guys communicate at all?

Madam to be sincere, you cant solve this issue in one day but you need to sit down and talk with him about this, maybe you guys should decide a day for sex, i dont know but this can basically kill a marriage, talk with him, pls build up confidence if you are scared, let him hear your views and know your thoughts, from his reaction, you will understand how you can solve this issue and if he isnt willing to hear, explain to him the effect of over sex on your body.madam, stand your ground, if you want a happy life. this problem can damage a relationship, act fast before it is too late, moderation is the best policy.

I know you love him but if he threatens you with cheating ,pls dont say a word, dont care, be open to him and let him see the reasons why you are closing the pussy. too much sex also makes your sex life boring and not spontaneous.

All these no sex policy among grown adult before marriage sometimes can be negative and positive but then again, it is better to know your man before marriage for compatibility sake.

communication and understanding is the key to a lasting relationship. do that and stand your ground with reasons and also with incentives.[/b]

Elder0001:
If people can believe this story which is as fake as kemi adeosun's NYSC certificate then something is wrong with the black race.

Funny mehn...Xaos, the elders have arrived

MilitaryInvade:


You of all people are being pathetically shallow in thought. How can you give such a foolish advice?

With all your years on nairaland parading the family section, this is the kind of home breaking, dumb balderdash you sprew to this simple issue?


"Let him cheat if he wants to?"

Damn Shame!!!


Whatever problem the couple are experiencing is not new. There is a systematic approach to solving such problems and that is why we have specialists. As a matter of fact, solving problems like theirs everyday is the reason why some people went to school amd graduated.

Nigerians don't believe in professionals as a first point of call and that's really sad.

They are partners and she should see her husband as needing help.
The couple should see a specialist and you bet their issue will be resolved without complications.

Did you miss the part where she said she already suggested that he seeks help and he threathened to cheat instead? So in the meantime, she has to keep up with such atrocities, while 'praying' he comes to his senses.

Marriage is a partnership, when one party has a concern the other one listens and they work on it together. In this case the man is being selfish. He doesn't want to listen, he doesn't care about her. All he cares about is satisfying his perverted ways.

When he's ready to accept the fact that he has a problem, they will seek a solution. For now she doesn't have to keep up with whatever he is forcing her to do.

If you've known me long enough you'll know that I'm not an advocate of do or die marriage. Her life is in danger either way. Even if he's not cheating YET, he is exposing her severe health dangers, because he wants to have sex.

PS: I would never give any advice I won't take myself. I love my life too much to sacrifice it over a man.

I refuse to be confused by all this comments I am seeing o!!!

I didn't know that everyday sex is bad o When I'm already fully prepared for it when I get married!!!

The only problem is that the man is inconsiderate probably because [may be] the wife has not been able to communicate the problem to him very well.

When I get married, my wife must give me everyday sex o!! Come rain come sunshine, if she's tired at night I must get it in the morning vice versa...

I would have insisted on 3times a day Dr's prescription, but man has to keep the family running.

Sex is very important in marriage, if there is no sex in marriage I wee not marry...

I think I love sex more than that man sef!! and ayam not going to change my mind!!!

Biglittlelois:
In this type of situation cheating is 100% allowed, he should go and satisfy his sick behaviour outside, he is a sick man, he doesnt respect your feelings at all, what kind of pervert is that?? like how the hell will someone be having sex every fvcking day?? how?? leave the house madam, dont let him kill you cos of sex, yes sex kills!!!

To y'all that says no to premarital sex, una dey see am, had it been they had sex and she saw the signs, she wouldnt have married him!!!

sylvez:
I refuse to be confused by all this comments I am seeing o!!!

I didn't know that everyday sex is bad o When I'm already fully prepared for it when I get married!!!

The only problem is that the man is inconsiderate probably because [may be] the wife has not been able to communicate the problem to him very well.

When I get married, my wife must give me everyday sex o!! Come rain come sunshine, if she's tired at night I must get it in the morning vice versa...

I would have insisted on 3times a day Dr's prescription, but man has to keep the family running.

Sex is very important in marriage, if there is no sex in marriage I wee not marry...

I think I love sex more than that man sef!! and ayam not going to change my mind!!!

guy you no well ooo

If he no sleep with u problem if he sleep with u problem.....abeg wetin una want women?

Biglittlelois:
In this type of situation cheating is 100% allowed, he should go and satisfy his sick behaviour outside, he is a sick man, he doesnt respect your feelings at all, what kind of pervert is that?? like how the hell will someone be having sex every fvcking day?? how?? leave the house madam, dont let him kill you cos of sex, yes sex kills!!!

To y'all that says no to premarital sex, una dey see am, had it been they had sex and she saw the signs, she wouldnt have married him!!!

I never knew there was another like me in this world...

OneSentence:
I never knew there was another like me in this world...

i want to believe you are not exactly like him!!!

Biglittlelois:


i want to believe you are not exactly like him!!!

lol...well not exactly sha. at least I'm not for sex everyday

OneSentence:

lol...well not exactly sha. at least I'm not for sex everyday

Meaning the rest is all you right?? hmmmmm so what is your advice for her??

The lady's husband needs help, a very big one.

Loool madam please do not let ppl give you advice that would screw your home... This is between you and your husband.
Communication is key. You both should find solution and don't let him start cheating because you would still come back here to complain

Lalasticlala Mynd44

Biglittlelois:



Meaning the rest is all you right?? hmmmmm so what is your advice for her??

my advice? simple! Wisdom. reduce his libido without harming him in any way.

Biglittlelois:



Oh my bad!! didnt know i was being civil to a tout, apologies.

You have to ignore him. I have read some of his comments on Nairaland. Seems he lives overseas, and that has messed up with his thinking to believe all about Africa is bad and archaic. His confidence lies with the western world, and he has no mind for himself to think of things to be done or shunned. He lives within pseudo intelligence.

LadySarah:
Too much of everything is bad.It can even get to a pt where her clit loses its sensation.Let him go and cheat,just pack enough condoms so he can hear what other women will say.

Anuofia of a man!you force another mans daughter into an unnecessary cs so you can have a tight hole.

I know one who complained how the husband keeps sucking her breastmilk while lactating and wants to have the nipple in his mouth all night.

You guys package your fetishes and come to practice it on women

hahahaha... sucking breast milk all night maybe he was raised in a motherless baby's home