Timagex:
You love her? Yes. Should you accept her back in your life, no. Your eyes were covered because you were in love with her and she cheated you. Tell me, the sex she had with the guy, was it rape? I believe no! She consented to the bad guy and now, you as the good guy will always be available for backup. What makes you so sure that she will not go back? If I were in your shoes, I would accept her on one condition..... We ain't gon marry. Her value has dropped and she can't be loyal.

JayCynic:
Disvirgin her in the anus then dump her

iluvkpetus:
She's offering herself so cheap now
Should i use and dump her?
I'm thinking of just letting her go and karma will take its toll on her

Headlesschicken:
Stewpid boy... , virginity kee u dia...

iluvkpetus:
My heart grieve of utmost sadness as I type this. My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me about 3 months ago.Throughout our relationship I never touched her being that she's a virgin.
Until she broke up few months ago, dated another guy who ended up deflowering her, tho she claimed he's just a friend and i stupidity believed her
She claimed she went out with friends and had no where to sleep than his place, then that night the dude smashed her and she lost her virginity
Called me few days ago to apologize, she wants us back because she missed the old us
She claimed to be sad and unable to face me after the incident reason she broke up out of shame
Now she claimed she's ready for sex and all.
What should I do?
Should I forgive and accept her back?
It's quite difficult to but i love this girl
Insults is allowed but please i need your take on this

OkunrinMeta:
Take her back because you want to.

There are no rules in love and war.

Only do the things you love. If after taking her back you don't like the new dynamics of you relationship. Break up with her and find someone else and don't apologise.

At this point, you should take her because that is what you want to do. Don't listen to people telling you what a man should do. Do what you want. And then do what you want again. You are only young once.

Don't trust her though.

CreamyBanana:


bros, take her back and smash her then break up with her and pass her to me and let me smash too.

iluvkpetus:
She's offering herself so cheap now
Should i use and dump her?
I'm thinking of just letting her go and karma will take its toll on her

beardlessdude:
exactly what I wanted to say. meanwhile this ur profile pic sha

iluvkpetus:
Someone adviced I invite her over as she's ready to do anything to please me, do all I never did with her during our relationship and dump her later

But what if I get entangled in her web again?

CreamyBanana:


bros, are you mad? you want to let her go after she wasted 2 years of your life? bros, take her back and smash her. smash her like you have never smashed before. make sure you use condom because she fit dey carry disease wey she wan pass around.

highqueen:
Are you a Virgin

iluvkpetus:
That's it
She's being really sober about it and the heartbreak left me sad for months because it was just too sudden as our relationship was almost perfect.
Thanks for the advice bro
We dated two years and i never had sex with her cox i wanted to wife her as we get along really well
I thought she was the best until she started her confession when she tryna come back
These girls are not loyal. She's saying it was a mistake and she was carried away

Timagex:
. If she can let her guards down for a man she met not 2 long, I don't think she is worth u o. My only fear is, she might not be the one to blame...

highqueen:
Are you a Virgin

iluvkpetus:
Why do u think so?

KingSatan:


Its either you are stupid or naturally dumb. What the hell is wrong with you women?

Your kind of woman is the reasons why young men today are loosing interest in relationships.

If you women are truthful and loyal to your partners, i think the world would be a better place.

You accuse the man of cheating but you forgot to ask yourself a simple question. WHAT GENDER OF HUMAN DID HE FVCK? Is it a WOMAN LIKE YOU?

A young man is in a crossroad and needs your advice and you are here marketing your ignorance.

I could smell your ignorance from a distance and i know your next move. You want to crown yourself the "WOMEN ADVOCATE", MADAM FEMINIST etc.

If he was your younger brother, would you encourage him to continue in such a relationship filled with lies and deceit?

You and i know that the lady in question here was not Raped, She rather went out to satisfy her sexual urge (And there are chances she has been doing it behind his back).

That lady is a typical Nigerian woman of this AGE (Older women never lived like this and they have my respect). And you are a clear example of a Nairaland ugly looking, morally decayed, negative, Deflowered illiterate, Apprentice feminist, Repackaged Slut with Acne infested Vagina.

Local product seeking international recognition!

No wonder you lost your virginity at a young age.

Don't let me place more curses on you.

Your family is currently suffering from your sins.




To the young Man, Now listen to the voice of your God.

Leave that young woman alone, she is currently trying to rope you into an unwanted pregnancy scare.

She currently thinks she is pregnant (Although she isn't). But be warned son, she will still cheat on you.

There is alot you don't know about that Girl.

Give it 3 months from now and watch how the true story unfolds.

chloride6:
Look at OP's moniker before you comment